Grim Anniversaries

My friend, “Beth,” is a proud woman—not haughty, but proud. Therefore, I paid attention when she said, her voice suddenly tight, “The holiday season is coming. That means the anniversary of deaths. Too many people in my life have died around this time of year. Send me light, please.”

Have you ever had to deal with a grim anniversary? An illness came at a particular time of year, or a child died too young. Perhaps there was a divorce. For many Americans, September 11 is such a time of grim anniversaries. When tied to unique and personal life events, the anniversary can hurt more with each passing year, partly because you suffer alone.

This post is for you, if you or someone who know has been stuck in an annual ritual of suffering. The pain of that Terror Event can wait for you every year. Mostly you can forget it, pushing down the fear, until gradually you realize, “Here it comes again.”

Grim anniversaries work like a child’s fear of going to bed, where a monster lurks in the dark. A sense of inevitability grows within you. No matter what you do, this year, again, you know you will not escape.

Beth has a sardonic sense of humor, so she joked, “My friends say that I have grieved long enough. I think they’re right.”

WHAT CAN YOU DO?

Energy Spirituality brings new hope for these very real fears. I know what it is like to carry a grief that never seems to end. And I’m here to tell you that all the 21^st century energy healing modalities can help:

• Energy Psychology, such as Emotional Freedom Technique  

• Energy Medicine, helping to rebalance the meridians and other subtle energies

• Energy Spirituality is my specialty.

This term applies to mind-body-spirit healing where the point of origin is, specifically, the client’s aura.

Energy structures, carried subconsciously, can be more resistant to conventional healing than a deadly staph infection. Only the drama lasts longer, and the hidden struggle doesn’t quite kill.

Energy Spirituality brings hope to someone like Beth. Cutting cords of attachment can really help. On a practical level, this is much easier than traditional approaches, like years of grief counseling. Sometimes one or two sessions could take care of the problem.

Besides that, the undertone of these Aura Transformation Sessions is joy. The client doesn’t need to do much except make the appointment, set an intention for the session, and then name a person to whom there might be an especially difficult cord.

AMBIVALENCE HURTS MOST

You may know that, if people close to you have died, the pure-joy relationships aren’t usually the ones that linger in a way that tortures. No, it’s the mixed relationships. We love these people. Yet we still carry unresolved anger, hurt or fear. Emotions have never been sorted out to our satisfaction. Now all that unresolved feeling remains inside, locked in a cord.

Left alone, that cord pattern will simply continue, sending out toxins or robbing you of your energy, 24/7. That grim pain will continue until the very last day of your life. Perhaps you have thought your best hope was to summon up even more courage and cope with it.

Not true! Cutting a cord can help. In other cases, regression therapy can be used to remove a different layer of astral debris, locked into cellular memory.

Sometimes a client wishes to start with that type of session, but usually I would advise beginning the easy way. Cut that cord. Go to someone who will cut it for good, with quality control.

GRIM LINKS TO DEATH

Incidentally, if you don’t think that cords of attachment can link us to dead people, think again. This Sunday I leave for Japan, where I’ll facilitate plenty of sessions of Energy Spirituality. It will be my fifth trip.

Just as had happened all the previous times, undoubtedly there will be sessions that focus on the impact of an abusive parent, the spouse in a hellish marriage, a baby that miscarried, a suicide whose death still triggers guilt, or another link to somebody on the Other Side.

Grim anniversaries may be involved. Sometimes when the cord is cut, a ghost will even arrive. We’ll have a ceremony to resolve the relationship, then send that ghost far away, for good, with blessings to all concerned.

Don’t let any grim anniversary take away your power. You deserve better. Haven’t you learned enough about how to show courage and hide your suffering?

I say, move on, and do it while you’re still here. May your really good years–the best years of your life–begin now.