I have talked with many clients doing follow-up sessions after a first one, not to repeat what was done but to bring additional healing.

Based on feedback from clients, I can tell you that it is quite a consistent result that there are both immediate and long-term results from the 12 Steps to Cut Cords of Attachment(R). The client feels relief, not continued longing, yearning, frustration, etc.

Isn’t that the point? Whether you aim to stay in a particular relationship or not, you can gain freedom energetically.

So, the first possibility, Maria, is simply having someone the job properly, if this hasn’t been done before, however well meaning the person who aimed to help you previously.

A skilled practitioner could easily find out if you still have that particular cord of attachment.

In addition, I could help you with cutting related cords of attachment, other aspects of Aura Transformation, or releasing frozen block of energy with Energy Release Regression Therapy.

Sometimes a person really needs long-term support from a psychotherapist, or even psychiatric medication. There are many reasons for “unrequited love for someone who has moved on.”

Now, I know there is plenty of music/movie/pop cultural fantasy around, “I will never get over him. No matter what, he is and always will be my true love.”

But I’m not so convinced at all. Hmm, can you guess?

When a relationship is inappropriate… when you still are upset on a daily basis about the relationship… when you consider yourself actively in love when that other person has moved on or otherwise acted in a way that shows there is a serious problem in the relationship… hey, something is wrong!

And you can have that healed.

Whatever modality for healing appeals to you most, I do recommend that you search out quality help of that kind.

Bottom line, Maria, you can get healing, when you seek it out from reputable sources that resonate for you. THAT is normal.

To settle for less is also common (and so it might be called “normal”). But you don’t have to, Maria, and the fact that you have written is hopeful about your achieving the quality of life you really deserve.

If you had a personal session with me, we could do a combination of aura reading and good-old communication to find out. Meanwhile the strongest possiblity is that the practitioner, with all respect, didn’t do the job with enough technical skill for the cord to really be cut.

And if the practitioner did refer to having “your cords cut,” there’s your first clue that the practitioner lacked skill. It is quite common, unfortunately, for people to refer to “CORDS”, plural, and “cut them all.” Or claim to.

I have facilitated this type of healing for more than 20 years, and it takes me a full session to facilitate cutting ONE cord of attachment.

You would, incidentally, only have one cord per person per lifetime. That is one thing you can call “normal.”

I’m going to write a second part to this comment, MARIA, because you have asked a very interesting question.

I wouldn’t be able to make an informed comment about the competency of the healer helped me to cut ties during my session. However I didn’t receive any feeling from this person that they were claiming to be something more than they were either.

It does come to mind that not everything in this life is within our control, so the level of healing we receive at the time may be more appropriate for us than we think, or may be preparing us for something much deeper. Whatever the case one would hope we are all here to help one another to reach a common goal.

What if you went to the dentist to have a tooth pulled? What would you think of the dentist who said this? “Well, I’ve pulled that infected tooth, but you won’t really notice any difference because you have a child.”

Results from personal sessions are very individual but there are a LOT of people who claim to cut cords whose skill level is limited, or may be lacking completely.

Here is a recent email that I received from someone who had a first session with me:

Thank you, too, for facilitating such a massive healing for me yesterday: I don’t think it’s an overstatement to say that it was truly life-saving. I haven’t felt as good – or as much myself – as I feel today in so very long. Thank you, thank you, thank you!

You might want to have a session with me, Meg. And certainly those of you who are reading this thread, remember that there is more incompetence in cutting cords of attachment than in many other mind-body-spirit specialties. Be a smart consumer!

Although I left the relationship a while ago I find it very difficult to get him out of my life and move on. How do you know who is holding who?

I had imagined to feel a great sense of relief but feel much the same as before. We have a child together so does this make it more difficult to cut cords?

CORDS, as you know, contain the most difficult flows of energy between the two of you.

SPIRITUAL TIES contain the beauty, the learning, the love, the growth, the sacrifice, the helping, etc. You have a glorious story of your life. Everyone does. Much of it is inscribed here, in these wonderful spiritual ties.

PSYCHIC TIES round out the collection. As graduates of my last Intensive know, the one about Spiritual Healing, psychic ties are like spider webs. They’re small attachments, way tinier than cords.

There is no limit to how many you may have of them. They don’t contain a whole lot of valuable information, either. Instead, psychic ties create small leaks in your energy field.

Of the three types of connection, only spiritual ties are beneficial. Nobody can remove them, far as I know. And only a fool would try.

I wonder what spiritual ties are, and what is transmitted by them between 2 people. As you said this is what remains after a cord-cutting, but I don’t know much more.

BTW non-Americans are terribly behind concerning cord-cutting, most never have even heard of them, this shows once more that the US is far ahead in many fields.

You know…I had similar thoughts when I read Cut Cords of Attachment.

I imagine that somebody somewhere is probably going to have a cord of attachment removed by a person who has learned your system and will believe that it is as simple as it seems and then start removing cords on others without any real study.

Your system is not difficult to learn, but it does require a certain amount of commitment and effort, especially if you are new to aura reading.