Cutting Cords and Anger Management

Anger kills. Usually it doesn’t result in a homicide. It isn’t even recognizable as anger.

Instead, a person suffers from one of these common forms of anger in disguise. (What you thought that all emotions here at Earth School come nicely labeled for your convenience?)

• Resentment
• Frustration
• Hopelessness
• Helplessness
• Boredom
• “I don’t know”

It’s a slippery slope, moving from anger to toxic emotions like these. Yes, I’m aware that “I don’t know” covers a range of emotions. By putting this phrase on our list, I’m referring to varieties like, “Confusion based on denial of anger” or “Frustration leading to intellectual shut-down.”

“I don’t know” can make a person feel mysterious or deep or admirably philosophical. Yet the root cause is often no more noble than anger:

“If I can’t make my wish come true — just by wishing, and just the way I imagine it– then I refused to stay actively engaged in life. Ask me anything. I won’t know.”

HIDDEN ANGER

Certainly, one way to view our list of emotions is to link them to the topic of Anger Management. Let’s call all of them ”problems with Pat.” And let’s say that Pat is the hypothetical (and very troublesome) husband or wife or lover or boss at work.

Pat generates anger. Alas, Pat seems to have all the power in the relationship.

An expanded version of our list could go like this:

HOW CAN IT HELP TO CUT CORDS?

Cords of Attachment are energetic links between two people. Soon as you become interested in a relationship with “Pat,” for instance, you form a Cord of Attachment. This is separate from a second energetic link always formed at the same time, a spiritual tie.

• Spiritual ties contain the beauty of a relationship, all the love and light and sweetness… however much or little.
• Cords of Attachment contain… emotions like anger and humiliation, resentment and frustration.

Whatever emotional and spiritual patterns about the relationship have been the most troubling — they’re the patterns that flow back-and-forth within that Cord of Attachment.

Once begun, and whatever the specific pattern, a Cord of Attachment continues its energy flow every day of your life. If the pattern involves anger, then anger is stimulated by that Cord of Attachment. Unless you cut the cord, that anger will move into your aura and subconscious mind 24/7.

DIVORCING ANGER

Partly what I’m describing here is mere theory about cutting Cords of Attachment. But I’ve earned the right to theorize, having specialized in the cord cutting field since 1986.

Just yesterday, I cut a Cord of Attachment with several “cord items” that were variations on the theme of anger. My client, “Josie” had a right to big anger. Her ex-husband of 20 years had treated her shabbily, so she felt decreasing power over the years, gradual smashing of her self-respect, and she lived with many of the variations I’ve listed above.

Even though the divorce had been effective years before, Josie still suffered from all the cord items. By cutting that particular Cord of Attachment, Josie was freed from a range of anger-related problems. Yes, she recognized every cord item. Yes, they still hurt, after all those years.

Divorce was wise. But divorce alone isn’t the same as cutting a Cord of Attachment.

THE BIG PROBLEM WITH ANGER MANAGEMENT

Josie’s session was a stark reminder to me of three things about Anger Management:

1. Anger Management is doomed to fail while certain Cords of Attachment are active. Someone like Josie can work hard to “control her temper” but it’s only human to feel rage, having the anger-provoking cord items recirculate within her subconscious mind 24/7.
2. It’s vital to use a quality method like my 12 Steps to Cut Cords of Attachment (R). One simple session, done by a professional or done on your own, after you have learned the skill set and bam! Cutting a Cord of Attachment properly means that you will NEVER again have a Cord of Attachment to that person. Therefore, a chronic cause of anger will be gone for good.
3. Anger Management is important, sometimes life saving. Yet mere Anger Management doesn’t touch the problems of stuck anger. It isn’t enough to control anger, not when the everyday problems feel more like resentment, frustration, and “I don’t know.”

Who are the biggest victims of anger? They may not stand out like the obvious victims, the people who are bullied or emotionally abused or hit. But for sheer numbers, the ones who suffer most could be people like Josie, living with anger that has become buried so deep, it no longer feels like anger at all.

Use our COMMENTS section to share your questions and your story. Has it made a difference for you, cutting a cord of attachment? Once upon a time, were you a victim of anger, only instead of Anger Management you lived with low self-esteem, helplessness or boredom?

LINKS

For FAQs about Cutting Cords of Attachment, click here.

For information about an aura reading session that emphasizes healing with techniques of Energy Spirituality, like cutting cords of attachment, click here and then you can also click here to set up an appointment.

(I can facilitate cutting cords of attachment for you just fine over the phone, although I can also do them in person, if you prefer.)

To remove astral debris or other STUFF from your aura, click here to set up an appointment. Again, phoner sessions work just fine.

To receive an Aura Reading session where I read you over the phone, helping you to clarify life choices and validate gifts of your soul, click here for information and here to set up an appointment.

The trademarked system for cutting cords is fully presented in the how-to book that I wrote for mental health professionals, healers, and do-it-yourselfers, Cut Cords of Attachment: Heal Yourself and Others with Energy Spirituality. You can order the cord cutting book securely online at my website or call 24/7 on a toll-free line that works in the U.S. and Canada. Imagine, being able to talk to a real live human being! Try it, you’ll like it. 800-345-6665.

An e-book, Kindle, edition of “Cut Cords of Attachment” is also available now. To order this how-to method of cutting cords with quality control, click here.

For personal mentoring, helping you to develop skill extra-fast at Cutting Cords of Attachment, click here.