I answered as a teacher, and didn’t mean to put any edge into what I wrote. I hope you felt that.

You know, at this blog, I do what I can to make it an educational blog, where I respond to questions in ways that potentially will be helpful for you, the person who asked.

And also for lurkers.

And for Blog-Buddies, who read and comment often.

Which I hope you are becoming.

If you do read this blog regularly you will find that I don’t respond to questions I consider trivial etc. Take it as a compliment, if you would, that I gave such a big answer.

And I do hope, KRISTINE, that you felt the tone of wanting you to do well, my intent to actually help.

All is well!

You are clearly in a lot of distress. That happens to everyone, from time to time.

When that happens, run — do not walk — to a skilled practitioner in a field that you trust. If you choose Energy Spirituality, go there. If you really trust a psychotherapist more, go there.

Make the best choice you can.

But do NOT, for heaven’s sake, feel that being in a difficult state means that YOU must instantly become the professional. As in:

? Quick, grab the skills.

? Surf the Internet and diagnose myself.

? Then get whatever free advice I can.

? Or figure out my own version of skills, based on whatever appeals to me (like making a mashup CD).

? Or get a book about how to develop skills, skip most of the details due to being in a big hurry, and then just do something.

Again, I’m not saying YOU are doing this, KRISTINE. Instead I am warning you and other blog lurkers and Blog-Buddies.

It is now 2012. Which means I’m now in Year 42 of helping people as a New Age practitioner. I have encountered way too many people who did exactly this! And you deserve better.

One reason is the policy of this blog. This is not an advice service.

And another reason (which happens to be one of the main reason behind the policy of this blog): Giving you healing advice on a blog would be irresponsible.

If I were in a phone session with you, I would NOT ask you to begin with the sort of detail you supplied here. Sure this summary, and loads more details about your problem, are important to you. However, sessions of Energy Spirituality begin with two completely different things:

1) Choosing an intention — what you want to be different in your life, assuming the session is successful, e.g., “A stronger sense of who I am.”

2) I do a skilled empath merge and learn about you from the inside, using consciousness to discern what is going on with emotional and spiritual difficulties.

Then, based on that, as an experienced practitioner, I make a determination of which skill set to use to help you.

Clients do not tell me which skill sets they need most, any more than (even in this age of Big Pharma advertising on television), a patient can march into a doctor’s office and say, “I need XYZ drug. Prescribe it to me.”

For more on this aspect, you might want to check out this blog post about “Cord Cutting Sessions”: http://www.rose-rosetree.com/blog/2010/01/25/cut-cords-attachment-cord-cutting-aura-healing/

Cutting a cord of attachment is a useful skill. What I recommend, though, is that for a relationship that is a really big deal for you, do NOT address this by picking up a copy of “Cut Cords of Attachment” and starting in on yourself.

It is best to work with a skilled, experienced practitioner of Energy Spirituality. Work with yourself on minor cords of attachment, not the major ones. Gradually and gently, develop the skill set in this book.

It’s great that you are interested in cutting cords of attachment. I can’t begin to give a complete answer to your question, other than to say that I could teach you a lot about this, clearly, from what you have written.

However, I am not going to type an entire book in response to your casual question. Might I suggest try reading CUT CORDS OF ATTACHMENT: HEAL YOURSELF AND OTHERS WITH ENERGY SPIRITUALITY. It will answer what you have asked, and more.

I see the cord between my partner and myself as a reddish brown color. I am not sure if this relationship is right for me but for some reason the cord is quite thick.

Thanks,
Evenn

One of my main motivations in running this blog is to help newbies understand more about what it means to cut a Cord of Attachment.

Much misinformation is out there, along with the good stuff. Decide for yourself which is which. I’m delighted to be a resource, as you see fit.