Want Better Results from Your Healing Session?

Last night, I dreamt that I sat with a psychic. Something she said at the start of our session made me trust her. Quickly the most delightful kind of relaxation swept through me.

This psychic was someone I could trust. Once I realized that, I knew exactly what to expect. In my reading, she would tell me everything that I most needed to know. I could just sit back and listen and learn. She would tell me all about the meaning of my life, my past, my future, my life contract.

Such a great feeling! Who wouldn’t love that?

Unfortunately, the psychic reading in my dream passed all too quickly. Before leaving, I wailed, “Is that all?” Because I hadn’t really learned much that had helped me. Or, actually, anything that had helped me. On waking, all I could really remember was my disappointment.

It was a perfect experience, really. 

Because when I went to sleep last night, I planned to write about today’s blog topic. What can you do if you want results from your session to be extra good, or better than what you have had with previous sessions. With anyone.

Healing sessions that I offer include Aura Healing and Transformation (a.k.a. Energy Spirituality) and the unusual type of Hypnosis and Regression Therapy that I call “Energy Release Regression Therapy.”

With either modality, after my first session with a client, I send an optional evaluation form. Not only can it give me useful feedback. Clients benefit from the reminder to think back over their experience. Did they get what they wanted? What results did they receive from that session? What, if anything, has changed?

What Can I Expect from Aura Healing?

Recently I received this feedback from “Gladys,” after her first session of Energy Spirituality:

I like Rose’s approach of having the client involved and how it’s made practical and Rose is really pleasant to work with.  But as for effects, I think I expected a little more (getting more into my own energy), maybe I’m not taking enough initiative or I need to remove more stuff, I’m not sure…

So far though I think from all the energetic healing treatments I got, this was the one with effect that didn’t fade away after 1 day, so not bad at all.

Gladys could have spoken for many clients who feel vaguely (or moderately, or hugely) dissatisfied after a session with someone like me. So Gladys inspired me to discuss the most practical information I’ve learned after doing sessions that do succeed at making clients happy. Because I have done this for decades.

Now, I’m not the only healer or intuitive practitioner in the world. Trust me, I’m as well aware of this as YOU are. My hope with today’s blog post is that may educate you in some new and practical ways.

With a more thoughtful understanding of what to expect from a session, you may receive more when you’re with other practitioners as well as being in session with Rose Rosetree.

All of us work differently. Yet to some degree all of us all in the same business: Educating humanity about what to expect from Regression Therapy, or a session of Aura Healing, chakra healing, etc.

If you’re a professional healer on the level of Aura Reading, or you do Regression Therapy or other kinds of holistic healing, please do comment at the end of this post. Would YOU like your clients to have a similar understanding to what is recommended here? What else would you like ALL your clients to know before meeting with you in session? 

When posting your comment, don’t be shy about including your full name and website. Clients can check you out and decide if you would be helpful for them.

Clients, feel free to comment as well. And, of course, as always, the end of this post will contain a LINKS session of resources. By now, my website contains enough articles to keep you busy for days. I try to help you find what is most pertinent, related to the topic of every discussion at “Deeper Perception Made Practical.”

For WORST Results

In any type of session, the worst approach you can take is a passive, trusting, or fatalistic approach. Of course, it’s tempting to wish that your healer or psychic knows everthing, fixes everything. Therefore, in exchange for a little money, you will receive everything. Such a deal!

I was guilty of that kind of fantasy thinking in my dream. And I’d be less than honest if I wrote that I never have had the desire to lie back with a healer, take it easy, and passively let that healer fix me.

I remember reading a book by Carolyn Myss where she described an incident related to this kind of wishful thinking. Carolyn was teaching a workshop that included personal healing for each participant. “Eloise” had her turn as part of this parade of demonstration-healings.

When Carolyn asked Eloise, in front of the group, to summarize what kind of healing she wanted most, the client rudely blurted out something like this:

“How should I know? Fix me. It’s your job to figure out what I need. Well, don’t waste time. Get on with it.”

Carolyn reports taking several moments to process her rage. And then she decided to handle the problem by refusing giving personal sessions any longer. For anyone.

What’s the Big Problem?

Eloise might have figured, “I paid for my healing. It’s just like buying a new pair of shoes. If I pay for it, I get it.”

But actually healing is not merchandise. It’s a collaboration. This especially holds true with holistic healing, where the “patient” is not treated like a set of symptoms.

Sure, it’s tempting to think that a great healer will know exactly what you want. And if your session includes Aura Reading, the client may think an aura is a huge printout of everything about you, with all that you need listed in priority order.

I have had clients say, “Since you do Aura Reading, you can see all my cords of attachment. Well, tell me which is the worst and then cut it.”

Actually, that isn’t true. A client like Eloise, or even my very sweet client Gladys, could have so much STUFF going on, it’s really hard to choose where to start the healing. And even if a starting place were obvious to a healer like me, who says that I have the right to dictate where the client “needs” to heal first?

No, even God doesn’t do this kind of prioritizing for humans.

What does work? You are the human, the one with free will. You are the one going to Earth School for the sake of your permanent learning. So you are the one who sets your priorities. Then you figure out how to pursue them. If you’re smart, you will summarize your goals at the start of a session.

Miraculous healing, supplying exactly what we need? Amazingly, this does happen sometimes. Healings, or friends, or money, or inspiration, etc. will come to us as a kind of grace. We’re grateful. We love that flow.

But such moments are gifts. Usually we need to co-create. If you wish to receive the maximum number of miracles, don’t simply sit on the sidelines ready to count.

Take an active role. Don’t just ask for “A miracle” or “What I need most.”

Your everyday life is full of clues about what you need: What ISN’T working well for you? What have you been expecting that you haven’t been getting?

Gladys, for instance, expected to be able to “get into her own energy.” She wanted results from sessions. It’s great that she realized, in retrospect, that she needed to be aware within herself. Without this, how could she tell when and if she was getting any results at all?

But Gladys never mentioned this great idea for an intention. Instead, she expected this to happen as a side effect of her session. Even though she had worked with many practitioners and this never happened!

Many of us have patterns of dissatisfaction — when we have sessions for healing, when we date, when we go to work. Anything that you’re consistently not getting or getting way too much of…. From now on, you could consider that to be useful information.

Ask for help with that! Don’t just do a Gladys and come to a session with “No intention” or “Aw, I don’t know. Can’t you figure out what I need?” Another popular variation is “I’m open. You decide.”

This really isn’t as big a compliment as it seems.

People like free. We like easy. We like things for dummies (especially if the service or book isn’t labeled “for dummies”).

We wish God would deliver a soul mate who would solve all our problems, plus deliver great sex. We wish we could dial-a-healer who knows all, fixes all, and even chooses for us exactly what we need to have fixed. We’d like that Wizard of Oz to transport us to heaven or, at least, Kansas.

So many silly variations on this fantasy theme! Personally, I’ve noticed one that goes like this: “If the food is free, e.g., at Costco, then I can consume it at will and there will be no calories.”

For Best Results with Aura Healing

Come to your session of Aura Healing with a couple of intentions, in case the first one isn’t within the healer’s scope of work.

Of course, you could also educate yourself in advance about that particular healer’s specialties. Few of us do “everything.”

Personally, I help with emotional and spiritual problems. So these are examples of intention where I can definitely help:

• To improve a particular relationship that the client names. (Not “Fix the relationship where you think I need help” but “Improve my relationship with my mother.”)

• To increase a strength or quality that is needed. (Not “Make me perfect in every way” but “More self-confidence.”)

• To remove a particular pattern or problem. (Not “Exterminate all nasty, creepy people from the face of the earth” but “Help me to move on from the relationship with my last girlfriend.)

By contrast, I have had many clients who hadn’t learned much about my work. Perhaps a friend recommended me and that was good enough. (Thanks, friend.) But really, if you’re going to invest $125 in a personal session, check out some advance info. like this blog post or the LINKS at the end.

I’ve stopped counting how many first-time clients have supplied intentions like these:

• Tell me the color of my aura.

• Tell me the purpose of my life.

• Tell me all about my lifetimes on earth. I believe that I have had 14 of them.

• Tell me what I should do to be happy.

• Tell me the name of my spirit guide.

• Put me in touch with spirits who have messages for me.

  Yes, some practitioners will do one or more of these specialities. I don’t.

For Best Results with Hypnosis and Regression Therapy

Unless we’re doing our session in Japan, I will set up a three-hour appointment with you for a first session of Energy Release Regression Therapy.

That first hour has a super-low fee because I want to make that first session affordable. We’ll be spending that whole time learning about you in some detail, helping us to set goals for your healing.

Then you get to choose one.

Some newcomers to the field of Regression Therapy expect that the best, and fastest, results will come from exploring “Whatever comes up from the past.” Only if the Wizard of Oz is in charge!

Some newcomers simply want to hear about their past lives. This could be considered the “TV Watching Model for Healing.”

All of us know how entertaining a great TV show can be. The feel-good effect could last for hours. Or longer.

Still, TV isn’t meant to provide depth healing — or have I been missing out all these years? Maybe I needed to buy a fancier model of TV set?

Regression Therapy, as I practice it, isn’t only for entertainment (though it is always way more interesting than anything I’ve ever seen on TV, including that extremely compelling show I loved back in the day, “Howdy Doody”). Please remember: A reading is not a healing. 

Energy Release Regression Therapy is a healing. Specifically, it is a way to bring huge results in life by helping you to release frozen block of energy stuck in your subconscious mind and aura. As soon as you identify a particular intention, together we can collaborate to move out the STUFF most closely related to that intention.

Thus, Energy Release Regression Therapy is a very results-oriented form of healing.

Sometimes just one session fulfills the whole intention. Other times, more than one session is needed. What matters for you, as a client (and as a consumer), is that you can make progress toward your goal with every session. Maybe you don’t receive every result you imagine, but at least you receive some result.

I’d love to help you with that. So communicate, communicate, communicate.

My Advice to Gladys

One way to sum up today’s topic is to share what I told my client in response to her comments:

Glad you are feeling results still, even if not huge ones. Please remember that if your expectation is to get into an experience of your own energy more, THIS is what to say at the start of a session if you are asked, “What is your intention for this session?”

You don’t have to be hugely pro-active to get what you want, but communication will focus results.

I do think you will find that, working regularly for a while with any healer who can facilitate permanently removing STUFF, you will have cumulative results.