Reviews of the 30-Day Plan for Empaths

What readers have been saying about Become the Most Important Person in the Room: Your 30-Day Plan for Empath Empowerment.

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Tatyana becomes The Most Important Person in the Room

Rose Rosetree speaks about the empath’s strange suffering in the company of people, where everyone seems to be way more deserving, very mildly.

As a matter of fact, it is a huge problem!

Call it as you like, but the truth is, that you, the empath, feeling compassion, feed the others with your energy automatically, most of the time, being unaware of it!

Rose Rosetree shares what she has learned about it over the decades. Her 30-day plan for your empowerment is astounding.

If you follow it, the miracle would happen, you stop bleeding energy wise, you stop feeding people, who haven’t asked you for it, and have no idea that they have been empowered by you.

Following the practical guidance, how to stop giving away vital energy, you may ask a number of abstract and theoretical questions. Rose Rosetree doesn’t try to explain things that are still unexplainable. Instead she demonstrates discipline and dedication in helping you.

If you, the empath, will follow her advice, you will BECOME AWARE of giving away your power and energy, and there will be a chance for you to stop being compassionate automatically!

The very instant, when the automatism of your compassion stops, you get control in communication with people. Your life starts to change for the better. Your relationship with people will improve profoundly, as you stop giving them what they have not asked; you do not expect them to thank you; and their subconscious doesn’t hate you for the need to pay for something that they are not aware of taking from you — your energy!

There will be peace in the valley! And you really become the most important person in the room, as the title of the book has promised you.

I know what I am talking about, because I tried out, and it helped. I have only one regret that I had good luck to read it too late, at my age 75. If it would be happen 50 years ago, my life would be different!

Cheryl Becomes the Most Important Person in the Room

I would highly recommend this book to anyone who thinks they may be an empath and wants to know more about it and also to those who already know they are empaths and want to get the tools they need to face the unique challenges and opportunities that await the 1 person in 20 that has this gift.

In this book, Rose Rosetree explained clearly and thoroughly the truth of what being an empath means, how this gift operates and the different types of empath that exist. She exposed some common myths about being an empath (did you know empaths are born, not made? I didn`t.)

She explained why some of the techniques for handling my empathy that I had been using were not working for me and, most importantly, she gave me the skills I needed to turn down my sensitivity when necessary as well as turn it up to the max when I want to help those I care about or see things from another’s perspective.

How wonderful it was to learn that I get to choose how I want to respond instead of always being swept away by the situation surrounding me.

Rose did all this in a lighthearted, humorous way that kept me chuckling as I discovered more about who I really am inside. I found it especially helpful that she divided the book into 30 daily sessions.

This helped me understand and experience on a deeper level the information she provided because I had time to absorb it better and had a chance to see it working in my daily life. Believe it or not, I was nervous about becoming “the most important person in the room” but now that I am, I don’t ever want to be “invisible” again.

Napple Becomes the Most Important Person in the Room

 I love this book. It powerfully reminded me how I had gotten too far out, losing myself by over-engaging with others and leaving myself depleted. I am not an empath but I am a highly sensitive person who often feels that others are somehow more important than me. Rosetree showed me the way back. Virtually everything I read in her book pertained to me–except the peak experience for Skilled Empaths, a technique she teaches as a close-to-finish reward.

I was drawn to the book by its surprising title. At first I thought it meant competing for top-dog place. But no, it’s about discovering–or for me–re-discovering who I am. Thinking of myself first, not last. Conserving my primary energy for my own needs, instead of automatically and uncontrollably giving it away to others. Remember what the airlines tell you: “Put your mask on first, THEN help your child.”

Here’s a slice of how the book impacted my life: Rosetree talks about the need to speak up for yourself. This was a bell-ringer for me. I had a close friend whose recent behavior towards me had been troubling. I hadn’t made my feelings known because I was afraid of her anger. But having read those encouraging words, I sent a clear message that I wanted to continue the friendship but without the offhand remarks. My communication was long overdue but I felt great about coming clean.

Rosetree is masterful, not only with her well-written and well-organized ideas, and not to mention all of her 50 techniques, but she also brings a great understanding of self-esteem issues. With all the intense work she has done in this arena for years, working with clients far and wide, she has created a structured path to becoming fully realized. Witty comments and deep insights are sprinkled generously throughout. “Becoming…” is a joy to read. You can’t miss.

Tara Becomes the Most Important Person in the Room

This book is a wonderful introduction into becoming a skilled empath. It is helping me tremendously. I am recommending it to all my friends and family that are empaths.

Francesca Becomes the Most Important Person in the Room

This is an exceptional book written by a very gifted spiritual teacher and healer. I highly recommend it to anyone who is an empath and has suffered as a result of their empathetic gifts. This book offers an easy to follow 30 day plan for empowering empaths.

The author is an experienced and talented guide and I treasure and reread all of her books as they embody much wisdom and I have learned a great deal from them. This one I was particularly excited about ordering and I have found it to be extremely useful. Once again, I highly recommend it.  

Suzmary Becomes the Most Important Person in the Room

This is a life transforming book for those of us who are empaths and are prone to absorbing other people’s emotional pain.

Empaths may not even realize it is happening–I sure didn’t–but spend much of their time feeling drained and tired as a result of picking up “stuff” from other people’s auras.

An empath can be sitting on a bus, lock eyes with someone and suddenly merge with that other person picking up all kinds of fear, anger, pain etc. from that other person. It is a kind of volunteer service that does not really help the other person–that other person will soon enough pick up more stuff. And in the meantime the empath becomes drained and less effective.

Empaths routinely make other people the most important person in the room, hence the title. Through this book you will learn multiple techniques to become a skilled empath so that you will only merge with other people as a choice and so that you will become tuned in to your own inner experience.

As a result of reading this book and working with the exercises (it is an ongoing process–not a book that to read and put away) I have become much more aware of my interior landscape.

Knowing what I am feeling (as opposed to what other people are feeling) and knowing what I am doing with my consciousness. Am I in intellectual mode? Feeling mode? Spiritual? Soulful? Mindful? Aware of my environment? Not only to know what mode I’m in, but to be able to shift it.

As someone who tends to spend much of my time in intellectual mode it has been very helpful for me to learn how to shift into other modes of being. More than helpful–very enjoyable!

I have learned to recognize when I am feeling confused, drained and tired–what that means and how to shift it. I used to spend quite a lot of time in that state and I chose to spend a lot of time alone as a result to “get clear.” Now I am realizing that I can stay clear around other people too.

I have learned to make better decisions in my life as a result of learning these techniques–for example, when I was looking for housemates–because I have learned to differentiate what I feel and need from what other people feel and need and to not be so swayed by other people.

If you have read other books by Rose, you will find that this one has very different techniques and information. This is the book that I have found the most easily accessible and that I find myself recommending to friends as the book to start with. If I could afford it, I would buy tons of copies and spread them around. It is that good of a book!