Social Skills Sessions with Energetic Literacy

Yesterday I was in session with “Gladys.” She has come a long way, healing problems in relationships with her family. Cutting major cords of attachment for her, one session at a time, has cleared out old patterns of STUFF. So Gladys is now in a great position to upgrade her quality of life.

Yet Gladys still doesn’t have social skills that reflect her well cleaned-up aura.

Who would have taught them to her? Usually we learn our best communication skills from parents. In a dysfunctional home, how can one learn anything but dysfunction?

As we talked, Gladys brought up the popular New Age view that difficult people in our lives mirror our own problems. This is the gist of what I told her, supplying the counter-culture (for now) perspective of energetic literacy.

How people mirror our problems — the perspective of energetic literacy

“Everything happens for a reason.” How often have you heard that?

As part of the spiel, there’s the idea that difficult people in our lives are simply mirroring our own problems. Each nasty, tricky, slimy or otherwise difficult relationship is really “our own fault.”

We must “take responsibility. (Or so goes this theory.) Say that Gladys has many people in her life who are selfish. She does, actually.

Supposedly, Gladys must “learn the lesson” so she stops attracting selfish people. Maybe she is selfish. Maybe she is too unselfish. Either way “she should figure out what all these problem people are trying to tell her and then fix it.”

Personally, I find it hard to imagine advice that is more cruel. Or more useless.

Kindergarten literacy vs. true energetic literacy

Many people are interested in auras, energy, the field, etc. That’s smart. Everyone alive will be more successful and healthier with true energetic literacy. So many illusions and problems lose their hold over us. Having literacy about people’s energies, in depth and detail, helps us to investigate precisely what’s going on in tricky relationships.

Energetic literacy won’t give us all the answers. But at least we’ll have help in knowing where to direct our efforts, so we can relatively quickly and easily improve our relationships.

However all interest in energetic literacy is not at a level that qualifies as “skill.” There’s a sweet beginner’s stage:

• So long as people just feel energy and “get things” from a photo or do sweet but vague “readings”
• So long as people “figure it out for myself” rather going to a respected teacher to learn good quality skills
• So long as people equate “talent” with “I must be my own teacher”
• So long as “seeing the colours” is a person’s definition of aura reading (and maybe its highest goal)

Just that long will a person be doing the energetic literacy equivalent of a kindergartener who “reads” books by scanning the pictures and making up a story.

Mirroring from a kindergarten literacy perspective

So a newbie to “reading energy” could easily say to Gladys, “You have some bad vibes and they get worse when you’re with someone selfish.”

Or Gladys might be told:

• “All your problems come from your being under psychic attack.”
• “Feel that bad energy? The selfish person is really an energy vampire, and that’s why you’re feeling so bad.”
• “You’re supposed to learn to say no to energy blackmailers. Energy will clear up automatically.”
• “Everything happens for a reason, Gladys. You must have some bad energy within you being mirrored. That is attracting these tough relationships.”

In short, Gladys might be told things that are right at the beginner level with energetic literacy. So many of us have tried the strategies that flow from this, such as:

• Avoid energy vampires
• Avoid energy blackmailers
• Avoid anyone who might be putting you under psychic attack

Okay, nice start. But what then? A more sophisticated kind of aura reading — that you’re fully capable of learning, of course — can yield more sophisticated information and many, many more options.

How energetic literacy approaches problems with mirroring

When you have regular energetic literacy, in contrast to the kindergarten kind, you can read auras whenever you want. You can read them in depth and detail.

Personally, I use the system of Aura Reading Through All Your Senses(R), as taught in my book with 100+ practical aura reading  techiques, but any system you choose that has real depth to it can get you there, just as you can learn regular literacy by studying phonics or a method where you are reading whole sentences.

Researching in a more precise way, Gladys has carried STUFF in her aura in the form of cords of attachment. They are not just random problems mirroring through other people.

Energy literacy includes many dedicated disciplines, including certain skill sets that I specialize in using to help with relationships. I have been able to use the skill set to cut cords of attachment to help Gladys remove a lot of STUFF related to selfishness. Certain less-than-perfect people in her life were imprinting her 24/7 through cords of attachment.

Note: This didn’t make these people energy vampires or psychic attackers, just human. And no amount of her “working on her issues” was going to a level deep enough within her to bring about healing. (She ought to know. She had tried that for years.)

When we removed those cords, however, Gladys finally had the energetic wherewithall to make some different choices.

Another way to move out STUFF that attracts selfish people is Energy Release Regression Therapy. Even one session of this very deep and personal kind of healing can be life changing. This is a skill set that positions the client to permanently release STUFF at the level of cells. Some of that STUFF can act like magnets, attracting people into our lives.

Can any human being just figure out intellectually what is being mirrored and then have all problems cease?

Not on earth. So please stop blaming yourself if you’ve tried like crazy without much improvement.

In fantasy, maybe we think about things and, zap!, we stop being “selfish” or “attracting selfishness” or whatever.

In my 40 years as a professional in the mind-body-spirit field, I’ve never personally heard of an instance where someone like Gladys had a lifelong toxic pattern, then simply figured out what was being “mirrored” and consdquently lived happily ever after.

Correct me, Blog-Buddies, if I’m wrong and you are such a person.

Special Sessions of Aura Healing around Social Skills

Gladys cheered after I gave her my opinion of the “Fix your mirroring” concept. I promised her that I would write this blog post about a specialized type of session I offer to help with social skills.

How do you prepare for this type of session? You schedule the 55-minute appointment of aura healing and transformation, which usually is done by sleigh. Just kidding. Weather won’t be a factor as most people choose to do phoners.

As a client, you make brief notes about particular incidents that trouble you, e.g., having your wife fling the dinner at you, having your boss make you feel two inches tall, having your 10-year-old kid bossing you around yet again.

When we sit in session, I help you to set an intention, a way you would like to be helped. For Gladys, one example might be “Have a stronger sense of myself when I am with others.”

Then you bring up one incident at a time. I do a fairly detailed aura reading of you and the other person, each of you, during that situation. Questions about “What made him tick?” are welcome.

Then we discuss one way that you, the client, might have responded to this situation. This is problem-solving supplemented by aura reading research. I can follow up to go into very specific ways that any choice of words of behavior would impact your relevant chakra databanks. This immediate feedback spares you the humanly costly process called “trial and error.”

I have helped many a client to explore new ways to act, ways that the dysfunctional family of origin never could teach.

If you have any questions about how this type of session works, what kind of problem it would or wouldn’t help, post your comments. You’ll get an honest answer.