Comparing Skilled Empath Merge to Everyday Life in Enlightenment

This photo was taken a few days after I moved into Enightenment in July 2012
This photo was taken shortly after I moved into Enightenment in July 2012

SANDRA HAERING’s recent guest post about Enlightenment as a skilled empath was thought provoking. She sure got me thinking… about the relationship between gaining empath skills and moving into Enlightenment.

Empath skills aren’t part of the usual conversation about Awakening or Enlightenment. But since when was this blog concerned with the usual conversation? About anything?

As an Enlightenment Coach, I treasure my relationships with the folks on my special Enlightenment Life List of people from this community .

  • All have moved into Enlightenment since we began working together, one way or another, directly or through my books.
  • Not all are empaths. But those who are empaths did become skilled before moving into Enlightenment.
  • By contrast, Blog-Buddy DAVID moved into Enlightenment decades before he learned about empath skills (one reason why I was so moved that he wrote one of the 10 personal stories from empaths at the end of Quick & Easy book for basics of Empath Empowerment® and also in the expanded edition of “The Empowered Empath.”)

Empath skills as I teach them sure aren’t required for making a shift into Awakeness. But those skills can’t hurt, not if you’re eager to gain Enlightenment.

Blog-Buddies, maybe you’re curious. What’s it like, doing a Skilled Empath Merge? How does this compare with everyday life in Enlightenment? CONTINUE READING

How Becoming a Skilled Empath Helped Me on the Path to Enlightenment. A Guest Post by SANDRA HAERING

Sandra Haering, a skilled empath who has moved into Enlightenment
Sandra Haering, a skilled empath who has moved into Enlightenment

I’m a member of that growing group of people in Householder Enlightenment.  It was never my objective to become Enlightened.  I did have a goal for decades, however, which was: “To live a life of love in thought, word, and deed.”

How self-denying; how holy!  At least that was how I interpreted that goal.  In retrospect, I was probably aiming for a type of Enlightenment more typical of religious devotees secreted away in convents, monasteries or caves.

The problem was that I didn’t live in a cave, but amongst many family, friends and strangers.  I was also an unskilled empath.

A Dangerous Combination

That is a dangerous combination, a person who:

  • Personally feels everyone’s physical and emotional pain, and
  • Believes she needs to love and help them.

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How I Can, and Can’t, Help You Reach Enlightenment

Anita in Householder Enlightenment
Anita has been able to reach Enlightenment

Are you interested in Enlightenment? Today’s post describes how this particular Enlightenment Coach can — and can’t — help you to reach Enlightenment.

So Many Spiritual Seekers Would Love to Reach Enlightenment

A comment today from JNANA included a sentence that really moved me. Two of the candidates she proposed had been successful at making it onto my Enlightenment Life List. From her beautiful mystic’s heart JNANA wrote: CONTINUE READING

Face Reading Bette Midler

Face Reading the Divine Bette Midler
Face Reading the Divine Bette Midler

Bette Midler is one of the winners of our most recent contest, What Could Possibly Make This Person Tick?

Or should I name ZELDA as the winner? Since it’s her contest entry being given star treatment today. In Comment #36 Zelda wrote:

I’d enjoy learning what makes Bette Midler tick. I’ve always loved her spunk, sass, humor, and enormous talent. She’s an amazing entertainer and is out on tour for the first time in 10 years.

Here’s her website.

Here’s the website for the New York Restoration Project, which she founded. The organization has worked to bring more parks and trees to NY City.

If you have heard or seen this magnificent performer, you know there is nobody else like Bette Midler. But what makes her tick? Bring on the power of face reading! CONTINUE READING

Buh-Bye, Fears about Psychic Coercion. Let’s Get Skills.

You don't need superpowers to vanquish psychic coercion
You don’t need Spiderman superpowers to vanquish psychic coercion

Energy healing skills — you’ve come to the right place for that today! Because this seven-part series about psychic coercion concludes here. It has been all about helping you to gain important skills for self-healing.

Understandably, many of you Blog-Buddies have been sidetracked in the past. You didn’t understand what psychic coercion really is.

Learning my healing technique for psychic coercion is simple. It’s available to you so easily from the paperback or eBook about Use Your Power of Command for Spiritual Cleansing and Protection.” Really, really easy to learn.

Yet this blog can give you something I didn’t have time to do in a book. (Which is already jam-packed with healing techniques, dedicated skill sets.) Here you can learn more about the practical bits. That’s essential for developing skills, knowing when to use which healing technique, when to stop worrying unnecessarily, etc.

Because, really, do any of you think that worrying is a skill? 😉 CONTINUE READING

Let Today Be a Holiday from Lurking to POSTING

Masking your identity at the FB group for Empath Empowerment Skills
Masking your identity at the FB group for Empath Empowerment Skills

RACHEL H, SARAH, and DAVID have inspired me with your smart comments at Rules of Engagement at this Blog.

Let today be a holiday, when lurking on Facebook turns into POSTING!

How can you comment at the Empath Empowerment Group on Facebook, yet still maintain your privacy?

Just for an experiment, just for today, write a comment below. Say in the first line what you would like to be called at the Empath Empowerment Skills Group.

  • Either create an independent comment. Or quote the first sentence of one of the threads already going strong at this lively new group for empaths. I’ll insert appropriately.
  • Write a sentence. Write an essay.
  • Go wild and free.

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For Best Results in a Session of Energy Spirituality, be the HUMAN Client

Avoiding a tug of war with your healer over cutting cords of attachment
Avoiding a tug of war with your healer over cutting cords of attachment

There’s a survey I take whenever I can. Blog-Buddies, I ask this question whenever I have a client or student who is a psychotherapist or counselor or psychiatrist. I’ll ask that mental health professional:

What if you have a client/patient who decides to supplement therapy with you by doing “Analyze myself”-type sessions on his own? Do you think it is a good idea for people to attempt to be their own psychotherapist?

The answer has been “No.” Every single time. “No, no, no, are you kidding?”

  • One reason is that a session of psychotherapy requires a professional psychotherapist, not just one extra-smart client.
  • Another reason is that even the brightest client who is not trained as a psychotherapist… is NOT a psychotherapist.
  • And even professional psychotherapists don’t do sessions on themselves. They respect the work enough to go to another psychotherapist.
  • What’s the most popular reason for “No”? The client may start analyzing his life, rather than living it.

This survey came to mind yesterday when a comment was asked here under Why NOT ask for a “Cord cutting session” when you want help from Rosetree Energy Spirituality. SHELLY asked (at Comments #513 and 514):

“I have had one heck of a bad love relationship that went on for a few years before my husband…. He is no longer in my life, but I would LOVE to have a cord cutting session for that past relationship. However I’ve been told not to ask for a cord cutting session. So how do I appropriately go about asking to have that done?”

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Rules of Engagement at this Blog

Celebrating this smart, kind, courageous, respectful community.
Celebrating this smart, kind, courageous, respectful community.

Blog-Buddies, I love creating community with you here at this blog. Likewise with you Brave Empaths who are hanging out with me at the Empath Empowerment Group on Facebook.  (Just a bit more than three weeks old and, already, we have over 100 members. Three cheers for you early adopters!)

What kind of community, though?

Within 24 hours, we had these two comments.

At this blog, from smart, couragerous JOANIE, as part of a self-healing series on psychic coercion:

“I live with a family member who is constantly nagging me. Whenever I see the person I know that what he is going to say to me is – nagging….  So what you would recommend, Rose, is….”

Meanwhile, at the Empath Empowerment Group, came this post from our brainy new group member, JANET:

“Is it okay for me to ask for tips on how to deal with a drama king of a partner?” CONTINUE READING

Tehya is officially my first Canadian apprentice.

Wonderful news for you Canadians! And for me, too, the proud teacher.

Talented TEHYA is now officially available for sessions of Rosetree Energy Spirituality and Soul Energy Awakening Hypnosis®.

Curious about how to pronounce that first name? It’s pronounced TAY-ya.

TEHYA  is based in Canada.

 

 

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Aura reading outed as Post-New Age

Developing skills is way easier than learning to play violin. And- you're all invited to play, really play.
Developing skills at energetic literacy is way easier than learning to play violin. And you’re all invited to play, really play.

Blog-Buddies, I’m passionate about actually getting skills. Compared to what? Randomly playing with energy, feeling good, being “nonjudmental.” That style and preference is part of my controversial message in Dawn Henkel’s Teleseminar.

What is an aura, and what does it mean to read it?

Also, how can you find a good teacher?

Learn about this and more…

So much was discussed during my conversation with Dawn Henkel about energetic literacy, aura reading, and Skilled Empath Merge.

Today my part of her multi-day teleseminar goes live

This link to the energetic literacy interview  can be heard and downloaded today. Or tomorrow. Or the next day.

That’s it. The link will be good just through May 24, however. So listen while you can.

Also available for a limited time

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