Had to file an insurance claim after a serious car crash or other big-deal problem that could be covered by insurance?
How about being so mad that you’re tempted to file a lawsuit, and going for an initial conversation with an attorney?
Of course sometimes that can be a smart move. (Except for when it isn’t such a smart move.) But what about paying a price for that lawsuit, or even that initial conversation to file an insurance claim?
There’s a survey I take whenever I can. Blog-Buddies, I ask this question whenever I have a client or student who is a psychotherapist or counselor or psychiatrist. I’ll ask that mental health professional:
What if you have a client/patient who decides to supplement therapy with you by doing “Analyze myself”-type sessions on his own? Do you think it is a good idea for people to attempt to be their own psychotherapist?
The answer has been “No.” Every single time. “No, no, no, are you kidding?”
One reason is that a session of psychotherapy requires a professional psychotherapist, not just one extra-smart client.
Another reason is that even the brightest client who is not trained as a psychotherapist… is NOT a psychotherapist.
And even professional psychotherapists don’t do sessions on themselves. They respect the work enough to go to another psychotherapist.
What’s the most popular reason for “No”? The client may start analyzing his life, rather than living it.
“I have had one heck of a bad love relationship that went on for a few years before my husband…. He is no longer in my life, but I would LOVE to have a cord cutting session for that past relationship. However I’ve been told not to ask for a cord cutting session. So how do I appropriately go about asking to have that done?”
Did you know the protective value of cutting cords of attachment, how it can serve as an energetic form of protectionfor you? Really, I wouldn’t dream of NOT cutting my cord of attachment to a new friend, an important work associate, or a neighbor JOE who has just begun playing loud music late at night.
For the sake of the future, if not for the present.
If you know much about cutting cords of attachment, you know this
Cutting a cord of attachment does not cut — or end — a relationship at the human level.
Cutting a cord of attachment does not end a spiritual tie. The energetically beautiful part of a relationship.
Cutting a cord of attachment does not impact the cordee in any way, human or energetic. It is an appropriate use of your free will to cut your personal cord of attachment.
Cutting a cord of attachment with skills will be an effective, permanent healing. Anyone who says, “I cut all my cords of attachment” or “I meditated to cut my cords of attachment” might as well take a selfie and tag it as “Someone who could learn how to cut cords of attachment some day. But sure doesn’t know yet.” (Hey, I guess that tag would be a little long.)
The idea of cutting cords of attachment only if the relationship has been BAD — is ridiculous!
Just kidding about that diamond-shaped argyle pattern on the guy’s sweater.
Except for the charming hottie shown at the top of today’s article, no photos will be supplied for this post. This one isn’t about a celebrity. And so I can ethically provide only my best recollection of a true story. With details changed to protect the innocent — just like the old “Dragnet” show — except who can imagine a regular radio or TV broadcast where, each week, every character is named either JOE or GLADYS? 😉
Lately we have been discussing charm, auric modeling, how conscious aura reading can help us learn the truth about anyone. If you have ever wanted to protect yourself from a charming, unscrupulous person, maybe today’s story will help you.
In a session of aura healing, I was assisting my client GLADYS to get over a failed, painful love affair with JOE. The intention for our session wasn’t that, of course, because an intention for improving your life is not to have less of what you don’t want. The intention for what GLADYS did want was more along the lines of “To prepare for an appropriate, fulfilling, mutual, committed, love relationship.”
Thanks to one and all who shared your wisdom. I celebrate your emerging understanding.
Empath Empowerment(R) is new in the world. It’s understandable that many folks are struggling with what it means to be born as an empath. It really can help to read the answers below, lending you some perspective based in professional knowledge.
“Empath” used to have just a few screens on Google, back when I published the first book in English for empaths, Empowered by Empathy. Googling on “empath” today, I find how many hits? 415,000.
Gulp, I’m not even on the first page of hits. Guess that’s because I have been too busy helping empaths and doing the rest of Rosetree Energy Spirituality, rather than working SEO. As always Blog-Buddies, your old-fashioned word of mouth is appreciated for spreading the word about empath skills.
Oooh, Catch This First Announcement of Interest to Empaths
For months, I have been working to update that first book for empaths. Later this year I will publish this pair of books to help you. Ready to see those titles? Ta da!
Even though I have been working for years, moving out these different forms of STUFF, teaching workshops and writing books on STUFF removal, I never collected concepts about STUFF in that way before. For me, it was refreshing.
Now all of us can have fun exploring what happens to people where there is STUFF not yet removed, including some of the ridiculous ways that human beings can compensate for that.
Blog-Buddy LINDA found such a great one. In the post below, she put this in the context of Hypnosis OR Meditation. Know the difference. LINDA knows a lot about aura healing. She is a graduate of the Mentoring Program in Rosetree Energy Spirituality, helping clients in Carlsbad, New Mexico.
Here is her guest post, discussing a rather popular way of dealing with STUFF without perhaps healing it. LINDA calls it “The Spiritual Bypass.”
Many of us, myself included, have — at some time in our spiritual evolution — given ourselves a version of “Bypass Surgery” by moving out STUFF. This made it possible for us to overcome rigid old habits and interesting concepts that glorified old ways of being quite stuck.
Here is LINDA’s guest post.
Forgiveness… Sounding noble, except for not being what it seemed
I had an Aha! moment today while reading this blog. Something about STUFF clicked for me. CONTINUE READING →
Cutting cords of attachment is one topic we have opened up in this new year. Now let’s open up another: The aura-level effects of different substances commonly used as recreational chemicals, including crystal meth.
With marijuana legally going on sale in Colorado — and TV awards galore going to the crystal meth-related series “Breaking Bad” — yes, let’s have our first article of many about little-known, aura-level side effects of recreational substances. And how appropriate energy healing can move that STUFF out!
In one session with JOSEPHINE, I facilitated cutting a cord of attachment between her and her best friend back in the day, GLADYS. At the time of the incident stuck in this cord, both girls were just 12 or 13.
Generously, JOSEPHINE gave me permission to share this sequence of cord items with you. CONTINUE READING →
Secret #3 in this three-part series of inside information about gaining the most as a client of Rosetree Energy Spirituality? I freely admit:
Depending on what the professional at energy spirituality finds in a client’s aura, a different healing priority could make cord-cutting relatively ineffective, unethical, deeply unhelpful. And maybe indirectly cause the client’s biggest energetic and subconscious problem to become even bigger.
In the final article of this series, I will continue with the example of client JOE, his concerns about a cord of attachment to GLADYS and how, unbeknownst to JOE, he has the particular problem of spiritual addiction.
Problem 1 with cord-cutting when a client has a spiritual addiction
This is no trivial skill, although many practitioners today do unintentionally trivialize it.
Imagine that JOE goes to a hospital to receive cataract surgery. The eye surgeon is there to help him; all is in order. Except, oops, JOE has the flu. He comes into the admissions desk carrying a large box of tissues. As if the nose-blowing weren’t bad enough, the man keeps vomiting.
What kind of eye surgeon would say, “No problem, JOE. You are paying for cataract surgery. I’m here to keep your appointment filled. We’ll do just what you planned.” CONTINUE READING →
Last blog post whispered to you the idea that sometimes cutting a cord of attachment could be a really bad choice, even unethical. Especially ironic when a new client really, really, really feels sure that cord-cutting is THE thing to do.
Before proceeding further, I have a quick quiz question for you. Which group of readers is this post most directed towards?
A. First-time clients for sessions of Rosetree Energy Spirituality
B. Long-term, experienced clients who have already had several sessions of Rosetree Energy Spirituality
C. Self-helpers, who do not plan to spend money on sessions when they would prefer a do-it-yourself approach
In the COMMENTS box below, I will answer and explain. Plus I will respond to any COMMENTS you have about this. Now, back to secrets….
Our Secret #1 could be summarized like this:
The client could have problems with subconscious STUFF that are far more urgent, as shown to the practitioner of Rosetree Energy Spirituality. Because that kind of aura-healing professional knows way more about this field than new clients ever would.
Secret #2, for today, gives one example of a Healing Centerpiece that would require attention in the session and help the client far more than cutting any cord of attachment.
Now that’s a big thing for me to admit in public. So far I have gone on record, in every possible way, to advocate for cutting cords of attachment. I do my very best to clean up the reputation of cord-cutting, especially important over the last decade, as more and more people have learned about the healing potential of cutting cords of attachment. CONTINUE READING →