Cutting cords of attachment, abortions, and birth control

Anna Holmes, exposing today's politics of birth control

Is it important to cut a cord of attachment when you have had an abortion or miscarriage?

In case you are wondering, Blog-Buddies, the answer is a resounding YES.

It doesn’t matter if you have consciously healed, or moved on, or had SEVERAL of these procedures, so it seems like a nuisance taking care of cords of attachment.

In my experience, these are always major cords of attachment. Therefore cutting cords of attachment with a miscarriage or abortion is very healing for the woman involved. (Or the man involved.)

The politics of birth control

In this morning’s Washington Post, Anna Holmes wrote a powerful, shocking article on “The Politics of Birth Control.” I would encourage any voter to read it carefully.

Most startling to me was this statistic:

One third of American women will have had an abortion by the age of 45.

That’s a lot of cords of attachment, Blog-Buddies.

Much political propaganda comes from women who had abortions and later felt bad. Well, there could be many reasons for suffering. One likely component, however, is the nature and quality of the cord of attachment. Read More »

Spiritual Addiction, Q&As

The first Rose Rosetree book discussing spiritual addiction

FAQs about spiritual addiction? It’s about time, right. For the last couple of years, I’ve been educating people about spiritual addiction.

• In my last book, “Magnetize Money with Energetic Literacy.” I wrote about this for the first time. Included is a chapter distinguishing spiritual addiction from Enlightenment.
• In my upcoming how-to, “Use Your Power of Command for Spiritual Cleansing and Protection,” I take the understanding further. That requires clarifying a common cause of spiritual addiction, The Romance of the Astral.
• In sessions of Aura Healing with Energy Spirituality, the topic has sometimes come up.

For one reason or another, so many of you Blog-Buddies have been seeking to know more.

Well, let’s get practical. Here are my responses to common questions. If you have additional questions, ask them below.

 Q. What is spiritual addiction?

A. Spiritual addiction is an aura-level problem that produces real-life consequences. Everyone has hundreds of circuits within the aura called chakra databanks. Many of them are about human life, helping you to be effective as a person, balanced and happy. Others are about being a world server, assisting other people in the world, connecting to Read More »

Cutting cords of attachment to a GREAT relationship

Preemptive cord cutting?

Trust Blog-Buddy GRACE S. to ask something really deep. It would have been Comment #20 in the post about Karma + Yuckiness Index + Cords of Attachment, all part of your path to Enlightenment , only the set of questions was too, too fabulous.

So I turned her comment into a promise that I would do this guest post. Today I make good on that promise.

In the “Q&A Conversation” that follows, I will alternate GRACE’s words (as if Questions) with my answers (as if they were Answers). Here we go!

Cord-cutting with your child?

Q. My husband and I have talked about the idea of “Why wouldn’t you just cut the cord of attachment with your young child preemptively?”

A. Of course, it’s a great idea to cut a cord of attachment to every single child you have. Just wait until that child is physically born! Read More »

Karma + Yuckiness Index + Cords of Attachment, all part of your path to Enlightenment

Getting off the wheel of karma

Let’s move over a comment sequence from last post, Why Do We Get Cords of Attachment, the VERY Best Part. Because Blog-Buddy Sabine asked a fascinating question that opens up connections between cutting cords of attachment, karma, pursuing Enlightenment and something I don’t think I’ve ever mentioned before, the Yuckiness Index.

Sabine’s question about karma, cord cutting, and Enlightenment

I am wondering what would happen if you cut all your main cords in one lifetime.

If you would be left with no karma in your relationships, would you come back again?

Or would past-life karma keep you stuck on the wheel of karma? Kind of blows my mind to think about that.

Well done, Sabine. Talk about fascinating!

STUFF

Let’s be clear. I didn’t mean to imply that ALL of a person’s karma is moved out by cutting cords of attachment. A person can carry plenty of STUFF (stored emotional and/or spiritual garbage at the level of auras and the subconscious mind) that isn’t in cords of attachment, even after all one’s major and minor cords of attachment are released. Read More »

Journaling when I cut cords of attachment, guest post by Grace W.

Cord Cutting Journal

Blog-Buddy GRACE W. has been busy. When you read the guest post below, here’s what she has left out.

Since she started doing sessions of Energy Spirituality years ago, GRACE’s life has improved enormously. That includes huge success with her career, plus even bigger personal transformation.

Here GRACE shares a superb idea for those of you who are busily cutting cords of attachment. Do note this tip for extra success:

In my how-to book, “Cut Cords of Attachment,” I distinguish between major and minor cords of attachment, helping you to figure out which is which. Then I recommend that you cut six minor cords of attachment before you tackle a major cord.

Actually it is far better to cut ALL your minor cords of attachment first. Then you will do a far better job when you cut your major cords of attachment.

Cutting your cords of attachment is not a race. Developing this healing art is about quality, right?

You only get one chance, ONE CHANCE, to cut any cord of attachment. Read More »

Why do we get cords of attachment? The VERY best part

Concluding this two-part examination of “Why do we get cords of attachment?” I am happy to share with you an understanding that has slowly developed within me over the last decade or so.

Let’s lead up to this big-deal concept with an example of my favorite thing about why we have cords of attachment… and how cutting them makes such a big difference for moving towards Enlightenment.

Gladys felt lousy, due to her cord to Joe

Let’s say that the incident that got stuck in Gladys’ cord to her brother Joe involved his being verbally abusive, with a few slaps thrown in for good measure. Okay, let’s go into the specific cord items from a session with my client “Gladys.”

The incident stuck in this cord of attachment happened when Gladys was about 11 years old. Joe was 15. He had a history of hitting her.

Right before this exchange, the two of them were spending time together, as in walking past each other in the hallway while at home.

1. JOE: Out of nowhere, flies into a rage.

2. GLADYS: What did I do now?

3. JOE: Cruel words.

4. GLADYS: Trying to learn from the criticism. Read More »

The Horrors of “Soulmates.” A guest post from Amanda

“Infatuation” is defined as “a foolish or extravagant passion” and derived from the same word as “fatuous.” To put it in plain English, it means stupid.

Once upon a time, when my life wasn’t going too well, I developed the conviction that I had a soulmate. I read up all sorts of things about twin flames and soul connections on websites full of purple zoomy lights and karmic information. And I just “knew” that somewhere out there was my One.nd when we met he would complete me.

Heart in hand, I launched on The Search. Read More »

Understanding psychopaths, perpetrator lifetimes, sociopaths, etc.

Rose Rosetree researching a world-class sweetheart

Ah, Blog-Buddies, you do inspire me to blog when you’all bring up fascinating threads related to Deeper Perception Made Practical!

In this case, I’m responding to JODY G.’s plaintive reactions to our conversation about Perpetrator Lifetimes, especially her Comment 13. Yes, I sure want to get to the other answers to our quiz about empaths being the opposite of psychopaths — two follow-up blog posts coming soon.

First I can’t resist sharing something that came up recently in a session with “Gladys.” It has an uncanny relevance. And Gladys did graciously give permission for this to be quoted at the blog.

Psychopaths, perpetrator lifetimes, sociopaths, psychic vampires, toxic personalities, narcissists? Whatever.

So many people are shocked, shocked, that everybody doesn’t care about truth, goodness, fidelity, and honesty. You don’t have to google far to find terms like those just noted. Scary psychopaths, unkind sociopaths, icky psychic vampires, amazingly toxic personalities, pathetic narcissists. Euwwwwwww.

Often articles about such people are oozing victimhood, feeling sorry for oneself, or blaming.

JODY G.’s more thoughtful approach is unusual. Although, Dear Heart, having read your above-referenced comment (and with all the love and respect in your relationship, which I’m sure you know are huge in how I feel about you), geesh, JODY! I kind of want to shake you by the shoulders and say:

“Remember, you’re not an angel now. You are having a human experience. Poop happens. Get used to it already.”

Reminds me of a student I had once, Joe. He bragged, “I don’t weed my garden. It’s just too painful for me, you know? I feel so sorry for the weeds.” Read More »

Repetition compulsion and the tenderness factor

What a long and fascinating conversation we’ve been having here about tenderness.  Loooooooooong ago, you may remember the quiz that resulted in our pursuing the tenderness theme: Empath Empowerment, Sophisticated Quiz Answers .

So far we have had separate posts on Disappointed by the lack of tenderness in your life? and More Ways to Improve the Tenderness Factor. Now let’s consider our final items on the 10-point Tenderness Seeker’s List.

8. Avoid Repetition Compulsion

Now there’s a fancy term! As defined at Wikipedia, “Repetition compulsion is a psychological phenomenon in which a person repeats a traumatic event or its circumstances over and over again. This includes reenacting the event or putting oneself in situations where the event is likely to happen again.”

The connection to tenderness will become clear. Maybe amazingly clear, so keep reading.

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What can alcohol, cocaine, and pot do to a person energetically?

How is the aura of a drunk like flypaper?

So much for my orderly plans for the flow of posts at this blog! Soon we will get to Tenderness Part 3, as well as a couple of guest posts I’m waiting to put in, etc. Quite a long list!

Meanwhile, VALERIE asked a great question today. As long as I’m answering, this deserves its own post. So here we go.

She asked, at Comment 79, in our thread about how to stop smoking marijuana:

“I’m curious about what happens to a person energetically when he or she ingests alcohol.”

Energy effects of alcohol regarding safety

Great question! Let’s consider one energy problem at a time.

Many potheads, or first-time weed smokers, are told, “Marijuana is much safer than alcohol.”

It’s common knowledge that research has shown brain cell damage from alcohol. On the level of deeper perception, there is a great deal of STUFF that goes into a person’s aura as well. Read More »