Cutting cords of attachment, abortions, and birth control

Anna Holmes, exposing today's politics of birth control

Is it important to cut a cord of attachment when you have had an abortion or miscarriage?

In case you are wondering, Blog-Buddies, the answer is a resounding YES.

It doesn’t matter if you have consciously healed, or moved on, or had SEVERAL of these procedures, so it seems like a nuisance taking care of cords of attachment.

In my experience, these are always major cords of attachment. Therefore cutting cords of attachment with a miscarriage or abortion is very healing for the woman involved. (Or the man involved.)

The politics of birth control

In this morning’s Washington Post, Anna Holmes wrote a powerful, shocking article on “The Politics of Birth Control.” I would encourage any voter to read it carefully.

Most startling to me was this statistic:

One third of American women will have had an abortion by the age of 45.

That’s a lot of cords of attachment, Blog-Buddies.

Much political propaganda comes from women who had abortions and later felt bad. Well, there could be many reasons for suffering. One likely component, however, is the nature and quality of the cord of attachment. Read More »

Cutting cords of attachment to a GREAT relationship

Preemptive cord cutting?

Trust Blog-Buddy GRACE S. to ask something really deep. It would have been Comment #20 in the post about Karma + Yuckiness Index + Cords of Attachment, all part of your path to Enlightenment , only the set of questions was too, too fabulous.

So I turned her comment into a promise that I would do this guest post. Today I make good on that promise.

In the “Q&A Conversation” that follows, I will alternate GRACE’s words (as if Questions) with my answers (as if they were Answers). Here we go!

Cord-cutting with your child?

Q. My husband and I have talked about the idea of “Why wouldn’t you just cut the cord of attachment with your young child preemptively?”

A. Of course, it’s a great idea to cut a cord of attachment to every single child you have. Just wait until that child is physically born! Read More »

Journaling when I cut cords of attachment, guest post by Grace W.

Cord Cutting Journal

Blog-Buddy GRACE W. has been busy. When you read the guest post below, here’s what she has left out.

Since she started doing sessions of Energy Spirituality years ago, GRACE’s life has improved enormously. That includes huge success with her career, plus even bigger personal transformation.

Here GRACE shares a superb idea for those of you who are busily cutting cords of attachment. Do note this tip for extra success:

In my how-to book, “Cut Cords of Attachment,” I distinguish between major and minor cords of attachment, helping you to figure out which is which. Then I recommend that you cut six minor cords of attachment before you tackle a major cord.

Actually it is far better to cut ALL your minor cords of attachment first. Then you will do a far better job when you cut your major cords of attachment.

Cutting your cords of attachment is not a race. Developing this healing art is about quality, right?

You only get one chance, ONE CHANCE, to cut any cord of attachment. Read More »

Why do we get cords of attachment? The VERY best part

Concluding this two-part examination of “Why do we get cords of attachment?” I am happy to share with you an understanding that has slowly developed within me over the last decade or so.

Let’s lead up to this big-deal concept with an example of my favorite thing about why we have cords of attachment… and how cutting them makes such a big difference for moving towards Enlightenment.

Gladys felt lousy, due to her cord to Joe

Let’s say that the incident that got stuck in Gladys’ cord to her brother Joe involved his being verbally abusive, with a few slaps thrown in for good measure. Okay, let’s go into the specific cord items from a session with my client “Gladys.”

The incident stuck in this cord of attachment happened when Gladys was about 11 years old. Joe was 15. He had a history of hitting her.

Right before this exchange, the two of them were spending time together, as in walking past each other in the hallway while at home.

1. JOE: Out of nowhere, flies into a rage.

2. GLADYS: What did I do now?

3. JOE: Cruel words.

4. GLADYS: Trying to learn from the criticism. Read More »

Why do we get cords of attachment, anyway?

Cutting cords of attachment

Blog-Buddy NICK asked a very good question about cord-cutting, Comment 341 at our most popular post so far about cords of attachment: Why do we get cords of attachment, anyway?

AMY O, another Blog-Buddy, followed up with a rather succinct answer: “Learning!” She’s right, of course. Down to the exclamation point.

But the question is good enough to deserve a longer answer… and even, perhaps, more exclamation points. Here are some of my thoughts, having done thousands of sessions where I facilitated cutting cords of attachment.  Just yesterday I googled and found:

• “Cut Cord of Attachment” had 8,700,000 hits.
• “Cut cords” had 17,500,000 hits.

That’s sure a big deal compared to when I would google right before publishing my how-to book “Cut Cords of Attachment.” Back then, “Cut Cord of Attachment” brought forth three screens of hits. Period. (And not even a single exclamation point.)

By now, just about anyone in New Age, any energy healer in mind-body-spirit has figured it out: Cutting cords of attachment can make life a whole lot better. But, before NICK, I didn’t personally think about that “Why, why, why in the first place”-type question. Here are some thoughts. Read More »

One Life Contract, Six Resources

Blog-Buddies, I love when one of our threads brings up more threads. Unlike picking apart that skinny stuff caught in a sewing needle, these threads within threads can be — as you’ll read soon from DAVE — fascinating. Our ongoing conversation about The Need for Tenderness is bristling with thread, thread about Life Contracts.

Here is how I defined life contracts yesterday:

Before incarnating, you made an agreement about certain things in this lifetime. You chose your parents, the maximum number of life breaths, and ways that you especially wanted to grow during this particular incarnation.

Based on my work with Energy Release Regression Therapy, I am convinced about this contract business. Earth really is a school, an amazing academy for spiritual growth.

If you aim to grow a lot during a lifetime, you’ll purposely front-load your life contract up to the age of 21 (or for some wildly ambitious souls, 28). Oh, the painful things you’ll include purposely!

You’ll pay back huge amounts of karma from past lives. You’ll set up things like cruel parenting, difficult siblings, family problems with addictions or insanity or abuse or poverty, etc.

Later, at Comment #5, Blog-Buddy Dave asked: Read More »

Winners of our latest contest + other announcements

Blog-Buddies, let’s start off with the slightly embarrassing part, an announcement of small techno-goofs. (For contest winners, move down to the boldest headline below.)

Some of you have signed up for this blog as a SUBSCRIBER or CONTRIBUTOR. Well, last night I was cleaing things up, because thousands of contributors have mistakenly gotten onto the blog. Nobody is supposed to be a contributor except the blog administrator, me. You’all are invited to Guest Post whenever you like.

To Guest Post, send a long detailed comment on the topic of your choice. Or email me a long bit of writing on the topic of your choice. Send it to rose [at...] rose-rosetree.com. I’ll format it as your contribution if I find it appropriate. I love receiving that kind of contribution.

However nobody is invited to sign up as a contributor. This means you read drafts of future posts, plus every weird or nasty comment that people send in, even though as “Administrator” I disallow them from appearing on the official blog called “Deeper Perception Made Practical.”

Julian, my tech support guy for this blog, has been asked to remove the techno-ability for anyone to sign on as a contributor. Somehow this function was always switched on. Which is, apparently, very thrilling to potential spammers. Read More »

Why cut your cord of attachment to God?

God is great! And that’s just the beginning of all of the praise you may have for the All in All.

Nonetheless, it’s possible to have a really disgusting, limiting cord of attachment to God.

This vileness doesn’t come from God directly, of course. It’s like what happens with so many other truly horrible cords of attachment. The degree of being horrible — what I call  “Scoring 10 out of 10 points”  on my Yuckiness Index for Cords of Attachment — is directly proportional to one’s degree of caring about the cordee.

When you’re strongly invested emotionally in a relationship, that’s like driving a car in fifth gear at 80 mph. You’ll respond bigger to bumps on the road.

Compared to what? Compared to a “No big deal” relationship. That would be more akin to driving a car in first gear at 2 mph. Same bump in road, smaller response. You can be quite sure that certain relationships involve major cords of attachment, even if you never think about the cordee usually. That would definitely include at least one form of God.

In the case of God, even an atheist will have a cord of attachment that’s a 10 on the Yuckiness Index. It can be rife with garbage deposited from other sources than God, of course. Same for a cord of attachment to Jesus, to Buddha, to Archangel Michael. Cord items recycle within us 24/7 until the last minutes of a lifetime. We can have horrible messed-up cords of attachment to Divine Beings. Which doesn’t hurt them but us.

For instance, I have had clients who decided to leave the Catholic church. This really, really upset their mothers… to such a degree that these mothers tried seriously hard to re-convert their kids. When this failed, the mothers had nervous breakdowns. For one such client, Joe, guilt from his mother’s emotional breakdown did become part of his cord of attachment to God. Without that bit of cord-cutting, Joe would have kept going through that guilt-ridden dance until the very last minute of his life.

Today, you may notice that the world has not ended – as predicted would happen just a couple of days ago, May 21, 2011. In celebration, I’m going to share with you the contents of two very different cords of attachment to God. As always, details about each client has been disguised. As usual, I first received permission from these courageous clients, both of whom are doing much, much better in life after releasing distorted old energies related to that very special relationship. Read More »

How a cord of attachment can stall Empath Empowerment

Blog-Buddies, three cheers for you curious seekers of truth who are moving full speed ahead on your personal path to Enlightenment.

Have I mentioned lately what a delight it is to host this blog for you? Today, like so many days, I wake up brimming, buzzing, twinkling with excitement. I can’t wait to read your comments and share a new article with you if my schedule for the day can possibly allow it.

Today it is possible, so I aim to follow up on one of the many things I have offered to do, with the prod of enthusiasm. Back in this article about setting priorities with aura-level healing, I mentioned that there can be dynamics within a cord of attachment that limit a person’s success at becoming a fully skilled empath. (See the heading on that post, “No more exceptions?”

In the first comment below today’s post, I’ll list other things that I have promised to write for you. Please add in anything else you have found that represents a loose end. Of course, Blog-Buddies, you probably know that we have a contest in progress through the month of April where the prize is that you get to request a blog article on a topic that fascinates you, be that a person with public photo (oh, so very rare these days ) or a topic under the general heading of Deeper Perception. Read More »

Cutting the cord of attachment to a pedophile

How Energy Spirituality can help victims of sexual abuse

Pedophilia is in the news, thanks to Amazon.com. Thanks in a way. Amazon won praise for removing its listing of a how-to book by a pedophile. (And no, I’m not going to add to this book’s weird cult following by citing the title.)

Of course, Amazon agreed to sell the book in the first place. It put up that initial listing.

Still, Amazon later did “the right thing” and stopped listing a book that taught sex offenders the “gentle” way to molest children.

With the perplexing and horrible problem of pedophilia, many of us just don’t know what to do, other than praise Amazon, sorta. And to take precautions against those with a history of being sex offenders, also encourage pedophilia victims to seek healing through therapy.

Well, two techniques of Energy Spirituality make useful adjuncts to seeking therapy. Just what today’s article is about! Keep reading only if you can tolerate a certain amount of grittiness along with your inspiration, because today’s post will include both. Read More »