True Empath Empowerment Vs. Strong Boundaries

All kinds of empaths talk with me:

• Skilled empaths
• Questing empaths trying to find out “Who am I?”
• Scared empaths, fleeing energy vampires and narcissists
• Despairing empaths who believe they are damaged forever
• Empaths who (mistakenly) think they know everything about how to be skilled because they now “pay attention to boundaries.”

Here I’d like to give some much-needed clarification to the whole empath-boundaries-protection issue.

WHAT IS AN EMPATH?

Most beginners believe that an empath feels other people’s feelings.

Well, that’s a piece of the puzzle. Maybe.

At best, this definition is incomplete and misleading. But at worst, this definition is completely inaccurate.

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Why Must Empaths Do More than Spot Narcissists?

To solve the special problems that empaths have with spotting narcissists and protecting themselves from narcissists, let’s begin with some definitions. (If you already know these definitions, scroll down to our fun examples of enabling ”Pat the Narcissist.”) 

As an aura reader and empath empowerer, here’s my perspective. A narcissist is someone who is chronically self-absorbed to a significant degree. To spot narcissists every time, you’ve got to read auras. 

Narcissist patterns show in the heart chakra. Many other databanks in auras can help you spot narcissists, which is why aura reading is so necessary for anyone who is really determined to never be tricked again by a narcissist in nice-person’s clothing. Read More »