Outsourcing your life?

Cut Cords of Attachment: Check out the wild "cord" graphic in the Czech Edition

Making decisions isn’t the easiest responsibility for an adult. Personally, I like to think of it as part of the curriculum at Earth School. We have loads of difficult responsibilities, ever-changing ones.

Besides the decision making, there’s feeding oneself properly, managing a schedule, managing money, maybe managing children… yoicks, such a list!

These aren’t just choices or chores but ways to evolve. Every human responsibility helps us to discern and balance. We make a commitment one way or another. Consequences follow.

Because we go on to live those consequences in three-dimensional, tooth-tingling human reality, the learning goes amazingly deep. Unless… Read More »

Sense of Self with Energetic Literacy

Oh, how it rocked your world, even if you no longer remember.

When you began to have true literacy with regular old words on a page or a street sign, golly! As an adult, if you’re lucky, you’ll have a close encounter of the adorable kind with someone who is newly literate.

The kid will be reading constantly, picking out letters or words. Yelling and wiggling with glee! For that short, thrilling era, the kid’s sense of self is all about literacy. Read More »

Solve relationship problems with Energetic Literacy (Part 2)

Quick! (Quicker than you can say “Mary Cassatt,” whose painting is copied to our left.)

Quick! Here’s a short multiple choice quiz on the topic of improving your relationships:

Your degree of comfort in your closest relationships right now depends most on which one of these?

 1. How cute you look, especially that manicure

2. Whether or not your significant other is secretly an energy vampire

3. The skilled use of your talents

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Life in the 20-10’s

Poised to begin the second decade of the third millennium, this aura reader would like to share her perspective on what to expect.

Where exactly am I coming from? Usually my work involves Deeper Perception in the here-and-now, reading what is. Although I don’t generally make predictions, I can draw conclusions, based on what I’ve noticed in my life and with clients worldwide.

One cause for change in quality of life is that the vibrations of this planet keep moving higher, and the pace is accelerating.

Related to that, here are 7 Major Trends, as I see them coming. Read More »

Narcissism Q&A

Of course, I can answer all Lisa’s questions about narcissists. Nobody knows better than me. I am the very best narcissism question-answerer in all the world.

Okay, that’s supposed to be a narcissism joke.

A tricky narcissism joke at that, because that opening salvo (highlighted in red) could be the words of a narcissist. But the speaker could also be a braggart, a world-class authority, or have some other reason for responding in that diva-like way. So that speaker wouldn’t be a narcissist at all.

No, you can’t tell a narcissist from how he/she speaks/writes. Nor can you tell from surface behavior, not until you have observed way too much of it. By the time you figure out that your spouse is a narcissist, for instance, it could be a little too late for comfort. Read More »

Piracy, Psychic Vampires, Narcissists… And Far More Likely Threats

Blog-Buddies, we’re unlikely to be boarded by pirates unless sailing off certain dangerous waters in Somalia. But with yesterday’s piracy incident in the news, let’s consider threats that are better known… plus other threats to a person’s well-being that are far less known, yet more dangerous. Read More »

Aura Reading Oscar Nominee Frank Langella

This week, I’m going to pick up the pace of Aura Reading the Oscar Nominees.

I’d better! With the big show coming up soon, how could we miss out on the most counter-culture way of assessing what an actor really achieves?

That would involve comparing a photo of the award-nominated role with a photo of the actor playing “Himself.” In this case, be prepared for a most major shock. Read More »

Aura Reading about Troopergate

Step right up for the best Aura Reading and Empath Merge I can give you about Troopergate. Bonnie requested it. (See yesterday’s post.) So today I’m ready to hold my nose and take the nasty- tasting medicine.

Just remember, Blog-Buddies, usually it’s inspiring to do an aura reading. Usually, you emphasize gifts of the soul. If it’s a healing session (see LINKS at the end of this article), you do discuss STUFF, the emotional and spiritual problems that can show up. And if Sarah P. were my client, I’d encourage her as best I could.

Politicians are held to a different standard, however. They must be. Read More »

Ethics of Aura Reading and Empath Merges

“How dare you do aura reading on politicians without their permission?”

So began a stinging e-mail received yesterday from a reader. Apart from ”Rhonda’s” rage, it was a good question, not just for those of us who do aura reading but for every skilled empath who does the occasional judicious empath merge.

Quick definitions: Aura reading means delving into the human energy field. The way I do and teach it, you can choose from 50 databanks in every chakra. You can learn about gifts of the soul and also about STUFF (problems like cords of attachment). You can do aura reading on yourself, aura reading on anyone you meet, even aura reading on strangers.

When you have had as much experience as I have (not to worry about talent for aura reading, because you definitely have that already), you Read More »

What an Empath Can Lose

If you’ve been reading this blog, you know that being an empath can be bliss. As a skilled empath, you can gain wisdom and do service in a way that non-empaths simply can’t.

As a very skilled empath, you can learn techniques for what I call “empath-merge” and have an extremely vivid experience of being another person. Or a flower!

But skilled empaths are made, not born. Instead some of us — I estimate 1 in 20 Americans — are born as unskilled empaths, “merely” talented. Read More »