It’s a very familiar worry for so many smart people. We know it isn’t enough to slog through one day after another. So we wonder, “What if I’m not fulfilling my purpose.”
What can we do about this fear?
Recently a conversation with my client Gladys reminded me that there is a third solution to this problem — one I have never written about anywhere before — and that could bring the biggest healing of all.
But all these solutions are important for you to be aware of. If you’ve ever felt tormented in this particular way, join the very large club.
And then keep reading.
Aura Reading Solution #1
Usually my strongest recommendation is a session of Aura Healing and Transformation. We can find out if there is a problem of imbalance, for instance caused by Spiritual Addiction. Then we can start correcting that imbalance.
Why do I put this solution first? As of 2010, I have worked in the mind-body-spirit field for 40 years. I have had an awful lot of clients during that time who had a burning, huge, driving question deep inside them: “Tell me my purpose.”
In every single case, guess what? That client was well and truly stuck in life.
Doesn’t it make sense that, if all other avenues to fulfillment seem blocked, you might figure your best bet is to forget the whole thing about what your life means to you. Maybe, supposedly, there is some higher purpose for all the frustration. If you only find out that answer, that will magically solve everything.
With all respect to those who believe this, from my perspective, a reading is not a healing. It’s lovely to be inspired with a sense of purpose. But that won’t remove various forms of STUFF that clog up an aura.
Some of the most miraculous results in lives of my clients began with a frustrated client who kept asking me, “Tell me my purpose.” And one or more sessions later, that client had way less STUFF, way more enjoyment of life, and less frantic intensity about finding The Answer.
And some of those clients used to skip from one psychic to another, getting reading after reading to supply The Answer.
The practical point to take away here is that, next time you start worrying about your purpose, stop right where you are and take stock.
What has just happened to you?
Has something frustrated you?
What caused you to move away from the good ol’ present into some hypothetical future?
Whether you do the problem solving on your own, or you seek professional help, that immediate moment can help you with real-life healing. One more question you might want to ask yourself is this:
What is going on in my life, right now, that makes it seem so important that I fulfill my purpose?
Aura Reading Solution #2
Do Aura Reading Research. I call it “Thrill Your Soul” research.
This is where you forget about second guessing “What I am supposed to do” and make a list of what actually interests you as a human being. You list career ideas, hobbies, types of exercises, even different eating styles.
Then we sit together in session, prepare a very detailed set of research items (List #1) that matter to you about life choices, such as spiritual connection, soul thrill, earning money, emotional stability, sex drive. I read the related chakra databanks and give a quick assessment.
Afterwards we turn to your list and we find out how each research choice morphs your aura. I’m teaching an easy-to-do variation on this technique on my workshop, Goal Setting with the Aura Reading Advantage, Jan. 9, and I’m also available for phone sessions dedicated to this, by appointment. Usually I call this type of session a “Thrill Your Soul” session.
However you do your own research, consider doing it. Fulfilling your purpose isn’t just one quick answer. There are many different choices about your lifestyle that can add up to fulfillment.
And making those good choices isn’t just settling, either. It could be called “wisdom.”
Solution #3. Empath Empowerment
When Gladys spoke with me, it became obvious that her STUFF about “Finding my purpose” didn’t even belong to her.
Unskilled empaths often have the problem of taking on STUFF that doesn’t belong to them. Very often you might be picking up on somebody else’s angst.
Any one of these empath gifts that could trigger this:
- Spiritual empath ability
- Emotional oneness
- Emotional intuition
- Intellectual empath ability
- Physical oneness
- Physical intuition
Yet more reason to become a Skilled Empath. Otherwise you could be translating a seemingly unrelated fear from somebody else into your own terms, including your belief system.
You might walk across the street from Joe, who at that time is suffering from one of these fears:
- Might I be such an awful sinner that I am going to Hell?
- Could I lose my job soon?
- Do I need to start ordering Viagra?
And if no worries like this were lively for you, but the whole Life Purpose thing was, guess how you would process that STUFF after it landed inside of your aura?
The more clarity you have in your aura, the more self-awareness with energy literacy, the less STUFF, the better you will be prepared for life. Not just future life. Not just biggest-and-bestest life. Your life right now!
Incidentally, that photo up top of this post is the cover for the latest foreign edition of my how-to book for empaths, Empowered by Empathy. Editorial Sirio, in Spain, has just released it, and my author’s copies arrived just at the start of this new year, new decade.