Let’s move over a comment sequence from last post, Why Do We Get Cords of Attachment, the VERY Best Part. Because Blog-Buddy Sabine asked a fascinating question that opens up connections between cutting cords of attachment, karma, pursuing Enlightenment and something I don’t think I’ve ever mentioned before, the Yuckiness Index.
Sabine’s question about karma, cord cutting, and Enlightenment
I am wondering what would happen if you cut all your main cords in one lifetime.
If you would be left with no karma in your relationships, would you come back again?
Or would past-life karma keep you stuck on the wheel of karma? Kind of blows my mind to think about that.
Well done, Sabine. Talk about fascinating!
Let’s be clear. I didn’t mean to imply that ALL of a person’s karma is moved out by cutting cords of attachment. A person can carry plenty of STUFF (stored emotional and/or spiritual garbage at the level of auras and the subconscious mind) that isn’t in cords of attachment, even after all one’s major and minor cords of attachment are released.
Speaking of major and minor cord of attachment removal, normally you would move out the major ones afterwards, right? If you are do-it-yourselfing, that’s only prudent. While another approach is to ask a professional in Energy Spirituality to facilitate healing sessions for you, in which case, by all means, you would start with your major cords of attachment.
Even after all the major cords of attachment are cut, and all the minor ones are cut, too, guess what? There still will be STUFF.
And, yes, STUFF could be called unresolved, overwhelming karma. The STUFF in cords of attachment is really important to remove for quality of life. And, personally, I believe there are important implications for spiritual evolution on your path to Enlightenment.
Just today I am facilitating two sessions of Soul Energy Awakening Hypnosis®. Why are these clients bothering to come out here to Sterling, VA, when they could do phone sessions with me to receive RES Energy HEALING (using the MANY skill sets of Energy Spirituality)?
GLADYS and JOE both have big frozen blocks of energy, deep STUFF, they’re coming here to remove.
This STUFF might be from other lifetimes, not just this one.
Which types of STUFF need to be removed on the path to Enlightenment?
So, while your mind is playing with the karmic implications of removing STUFF, remember that there are several kinds. Besides frozen blocks of energy, large and small, from different lifetimes, there are:
- Cords of attachment, as we’ve been discussing
- Psychic coercion, negative thought forms, and all the other types of healing involved in the skill set of Spiritually Sparkling® Skills
- Lifestyle patterns of STUFF, causing spiritual addiction, energy hypochondria, etc. (This is the highest priority of STUFF to heal, when present, and is usually addressed in just one session of Energy Spirituality.)
- Lifestyle problems, out of synch with a person’s soul. (This very, very healable STUFF is addressed in Energy Spirituality by doing Soul Thrill® Aura Research)
- Occasionally it is also appropriate to facilitate a spirit removal. A negative energy pattern like this would definitely count for STUFF and is my top priority for healing when I encounter it in a client.
Did you notice? This list of STUFF does not include psychic attack, STUFF due to toxic people, narcissists, energy vampires, psychic vampires, or other random problems with people sucking out your life force energy.
Why? In the opinion of this healer, these are not types of STUFF. They are categories used for blaming. And the person whose path of healing involves blaming others for STUFF is on a rather indirect road to healing. It isn’t possible to control other people on one’s path to Enlightenment.
Good news, right?
In general, SABINE, I think you are really are onto something about considering the relationship of moving out STUFF, cutting cords of attachment, and one’s path to Enlightenment.
Exploring the relationship of STUFF to Enlightenment
There IS a relationship between permanently moving out STUFF and moving forward on one’s path to Enlightenment.
Having less STUFF in your aura and subconscious mind, one is less apt to pick up intense new STUFF. Kind of like the saying that “The rich get richer and the poor get poorer.”
In this case, one wants to become “poorer” in one’s collection of STUFF, since it impacts both your aura and your subconscious mind. 😉
When it comes to path to Enlightenment, these are as numerous as could be. Your path, Blog-Buddy, might be altogether different from mine.
For decades, I was involved in Transcendental Meditation as my path to Enlightenment. I was promised originally by my guru that, in 5-8 years, all my STUFF would be removed and I would be Enlightened. (The word “STUFF” wasn’t used, but instead an equivalent term was employed.)
Hmmm, that promise was made in January 1969. When I left the TM Movement completely in 1991, I had done far more than the recommended “20 minutes of TM in the AM and PM.” (Due to having done every advanced technique and program I possibly could, rigorously and faithfully following every single instruction given me.)
Yet I still wasn’t Enlightened. Far from it.
The most frustrating thing, in retrospect, was that with a meditation-type path to Enlightenment, this seeker had no control over which STUFF was going to leave or when.
I was instructed to trust that God would figure out what I needed. Or my nervous system would work the priorities out. I didn’t need to form any specific intentions but had to simply let go, surrendering to the cosmic process. In retrospect, frankly, this is one of the stupidest and most passive things I could ever have done with my life.
Whatever path to Enlightenment you favor, might I recommend that you avoid this passive kind of thinking? It really slows down quality of life and keeps a person from mobilizing the many ways that life can support your desires en route to Enlightenment.
Moving toward Enlightenment isn’t just a matter of STUFF removal. As a human being, it will be YOUR path to Enlightenment, with your choices of how you want to fill up and develop humanly.
Is it more trust of people, better ability to make money, more sharing of power in personal relationships? You’re really allowed to set the agenda, IMHO. Which is why, with any session I do with Energy Spirituality or Soul Energy Awakening Hypnosis®, I will ask you what your intention or goal is for growth as a person.
Moving out STUFF is only half of the healings I facilitate. The other half is filling up with something appropriate, personal, positive, and human.
The Yuckiness Index
To appreciate the evolutionary component of cutting cords of attachment, consider what I call the “Yuckiness Index.” This is a way to gauge how awful a cord of attachment is, with scores from 1 10.
I developed this Yuckiness Index to help me do sessions with clients. With my client JOE, I want to be sure to cut major cords of attachment until we have done 15 sessions or so that include cord cutting. After then, it might be appropriate to cut a less major, or even a minor, cord of attachment.
What happens when I am at the research step in the 12 Steps to Cut Cords of Attachment®? First I’ll ascertain if JOE does have a cord of attachment to Mr. X. Then I’ll check if there is permission at this time to move out that cord. (Both these questions and the technique for appropriate research are detailed in the how-to book Cut Cords of Attachment.)
Then I will rate where that cord of attachment lies on the Yuckiness Index. If it isn’t at least an 8 out of 10, I’ll ask my client to recommend a different candidate for cord cutting.
SABINE, you might wonder, what makes a cord of attachment a 10 rather than a 6?
Here’s the answer.
In JOE’s relationship with the cordee, Mr. X, there is bound to be some incident that is upsetting to JOE. Why upsetting? Because JOE already carries quite a bit of STUFF. It’s like what psychologists call “Your buttons.”
If Mr. X pushes JOE’s buttons — or STUFF already stuck in JOE’s subconscious mind — about being bossy, guess what? That bossiness-related incident could become what is stuck in the cord.
Why? That bossiness-related incident is a 9 on the Yuckiness Index for JOE. Whereas the previous incident stuck in his cord of attachment just involved taking Joe’s candy when he was a baby, and that incident didn’t have so much internally carried STUFF for JOE. That earlier incident in his cord of attachment maybe was only a 3.
That’s how the contents in a cord of attachment change, always in the direction of a higher number on the Yuckiness Index. Always related to the STUFF the person carries at the time of the incident, astral-level STUFF that corresponds to pain, fear, etc. on the level of the subconscious mind.
Wonderfully diminishing returns
Every time JOE cuts a cord of attachment, subsequently he will have less STUFF going through him, 24/7. This means fewer buttons to push.
So moving out cords of attachment, or other techniques for permanent STUFF removal, will cut down on the buttons to push. (Same goes for ANY technique, meditation, or prayer that really, effectively moves out STUFF permanently.)
Thus, as JOE continues to have new relationship incidents, he is less apt to have a big internal reaction. Leading to cords of attachment that never score higher than 1 on the Yuckiness Index.
Also, incidents that might cause frozen blocks to stick in the mind-body-system don’t stay that sticky. He becomes less and less likely to have big frozen blocks of energy get stuck in his aura. Yet more purity!
Over time, JOE doesn’t have buttons to push. He has a frictionless flow.
JOE doesn’t have emptiness with all the STUFF removal but joy, flexibility, resourcefulness, and a stronger connection to the Divine… in his terms. Is that the same thing as Enlightenment? No. But this is a way of coming way close.
JOE can enjoy his life in the present, become effective in his chosen relationships, let go of things that he cannot change, etc. The karma he creates is better. And sticky karma from the past (reflected in STUFF at the level of auras) has more and more been healed. With little or no STUFF, JOE goes through his life without attracting or replaying difficulties related to old random bits of stuck karma.