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Aura Reading Khloe Kardashian

Aura Reading Khloe Kardashian. Whether you’re a fan or not, come join our exploration.

Aura Reading Khloe Kardashian. Our emphasis this time will be on sex appeal. Might you be curious? Of course sex appeal shows in auras, in detail!

Lately we have been exploring auric modeling as a way more than skin-deep way to appreciate sex appeal. AMANDA nominated Khloe Kardashian after being proclaimed at our post, Winners announced, Aura Reading Contest for Sex Appeal.

AMANDA wrote:

“I know they’re controversial for some, but I very much like the loving supportiveness of the Kardashians, their intimacy and their willingness to deal with their issues. They all get things wrong, have their emotions and their stopping-points – and then they communicate and work through them. They’re also unafraid to be sexy and physically present, and there’s an earthiness to that that I really enjoy.

In addition AMANDA wrote:

“In short, I really like their auric modelling.

“I like Khloe in particular because she clearly has a kind heart and a lot of generosity, but has also learned to say no when required. And I think she, like all of her sisters, is gorgeous, and so comfortable in her skin with that gorgeousness.”

Well, Blog-Buddies, that’s all I know about any of the Kardashians. Famous or not, their world of reality shows and celebrity doesn’t coincide with how I spend my free time. Somehow I have remained in blissful ignorance.

However, energetic literacy skills are like Gutenberg literacy skills. If you can read, you can read. And it could be particularly useful to do aura reading about sex appeal.

Why is it so useful to research chakra databanks related to sex appeal?

If you are dating, reading sex appeal can be such a survival skill.

Call it “New Age Consumer Smarts” if you wish. Or simply common sense. Clothes, packaging, and looks tell you very little that matters. Especially when profiling a celebrity. How celebrities are packaged? It’s a distinctive facet of big fame today.

 

Learning the truth is definitely useful. Also ethical.

What? Is it ethical to research someone’s sex appeal with aura reading?

Highly ethical, I think.

Before buying a box of cookies at the supermarket, don’t you have the right to find out how much is pure sugar, which flavors are artificial?

One date could make a way bigger difference in your life than eating one cookie.

You have the right to read anyone deeper, for your own personal information.

What about the ethics of aura reading Khloe Kardashian for sex appeal? In public? At this blog?

I would hesitate to read anything about her aura in a public blog if cute Khloe were my neighbor, walking her dog past my driveway. But this 28-year old is a reality show star.

Shy and retiring? Just check out the body language in the picture at the top of today’s post, Blog-Buddies. Or read here about her eagerness to appear on a new reality show that will reveal even more about her.

You may know, I wrote a full book about how to read people deeper, using 50 categories to explore that potential date, or employer, or roommate. You can study body language in extra depth there. Or face reading. Or aura reading. Or you can learn to use these three methods in combination, investigating categories like Sexual Stamina and Sexual Promiscuity.

When you have full Stage Three Energetic Literacy, any photo becomes an aura photo. Any celebrity’s auric modeling is fair to read in a dedicated publicity photograph. That’s how I stand around ethics, anyway.

So let’s get the practical background done and then explore Khloe Kardashian’s sex appeal.

Aura Reading for Guidance on Sex Appeal

Yes, the link in this heading can help you understand about energetic literacy, auric modeling, and aura reading for sex appeal.

Which photos will be used?

  • Khloe Kardashian, not shy about showing her sex appeal in this aura photo
  • Click here for more information about chakra databanks. Useful, since I will be reading some. :-)Just to remind some of you, I am not reading Khloe’s aura for always, or for predicting anything based on her energy field. I’m just researching her aura at the time of this photograph. Energetic literacy skills are a different approach to aura reading than psychic reading, a way more famous (and commonly expected) kind of conversation about auras.

Aura Reading the Root Chakra Databank for Sensual Experience of Life

Gift of the Soul for Sensual Experience of Life

This Divine level within a chakra databank is always an inspiration. I’ll research one of these now, this first one, before going into the rest of today’s aura reading. Just for perspective, because each of us is really special and quite perfect when it comes to the potential of a unique human identity for a lifetime here at Earth School.

Khloe shows a cat-like delight hardwired into her sense of touch. When she feels secure enough to relax into the moment, Khloe’s experience of life is exceptionally sensual.

Reading the size and quality of the chakra databank

This astral-level-type information is what I will be reading for the rest of today’s aura reading. All of us are loaded with gifts of the Soul, but quality of human life depends on self-actualization: How a chakra databank is doing, here and now.

5 inches. At this moment, Ms. Kardashian isn’t paying much attention to life in a sensual way. Instead she is aware — even riveted — by noticing how other people are reacting to her.

Partly, it’s a big thrill for her, being in front of the lights in a super dress, at this photo shoot (or whatever it is).

More significantly, check out that theme: “My sense of identity comes from how others respond to me.” It just may come up more often in today’s aura reading.

Skip ahead to our Conclusion in today’s post if it isn’t clear to you yet how, for some people, the sexiest thing about Khloe Kardashian just might be how important it is to her, being appreciated by other people.

Aura Reading the Belly Chakra Databank for Sex Appeal

5 inches. Being placed front and center this very obvious photo shoot feels so different from being a reality show star or celebrity. Or a person.

This Kardashian gal feels self-conscious and fat. (Sorry, AMANDA. Not what I expected to find, I assure you.)

It’s a familiar feeling that she has learned to shove into denial. Usually.

This particular time, she fears that other people are looking at her and responding to her like a hefty, chubby person, and she can’t shake it.

Note: She is probably correct about this. Who is looking at her while this photo series is being created?

Photographers whose professional work exalts The Thin Ideal. Photographers for a shoot like this are different from those who film reality TV. Photographers, stylists, etc., for glamour photographs are very used to making celebrities look good by playing up the expected Femme Fatale and Famished look.

Even if no criticism is stated directly, these glamour pros expect The Anorexic Ideal. Khloe ain’t that.

Aura Reading the Belly Chakra Databank for Sexual Self-Confidence

Fills the room plus 2 inches. Khloe is purposely projecting a strong sexual self-confidence.

Doing this is a game. Long ago, she figured out how to play it.

Khloe Kardashian loves playing this game because others respond to it so immediately.

Reminds me, Rose Rosetree, of the satisfaction I find from weeding in my garden. Immediate results! So obvious!

Khloe can just turn It on by standing with confidence, choosing to have power over others, and then purposely sending out her oomph.

Aura Reading the Solar Plexus Chakra Databank for Self-Confidence (as a Person)

3 inches. “What does he think of me?”

Sometimes the internal question might be, “What does she think of me?”

Guys’ opinions matter more, but anyone in the room might have an opinion. And any such opinion would be the basis for Khloe’s degree of self-confidence in the moment.

Also interesting about this chakra databank display: Hiding.

It’s an quality of hiding that is so often found in teenagers. Yet some carry forward through life.

The quality of hiding goes, “I don’t care the least bit what you think of me.”

This quality of hiding was nailed by Shakespeare when he wrote, “The lady doth protest too much, methinks.”

Aura Reading the Solar Plexus Chakra Databank for Intellectual Growth

Yes, Blog-Buddies, I’ve just got to include this chakra databank. For me, sex appeal must include intelligence and also a strong spiritual connection.

Any of you who have read my work from years before remember my rhapsodizing about “Dreamy Al Gore,” for instance. Considering him sexy was not the prevailing social judgment of the Senator, then Vice President, back in the day.

So, yes, I insist on including this chakra databank in my own personal aura reading for sex appeal. And maybe you, AMANDA, might find this an important component for sex appeal, too.

3 inches. Paying attention just long enough to talk about a subject.

Being able to join in any conversation is important to Khloe. (Social acceptance being such a personality shaper for her, yet again.)

Khloe shows patterning in this Solar Plexus Chakra Databank where she often is “Having thoughts about her thoughts.”

However, this is hardly the typical self-generating spiraling inquiry of a born intellectual.

Khloe constantly assesses if she sounds “Too smart” or “Too dumb” to please her audience. She strives hard to walk that fine line.

The social acceptability of her intelligence matters far more to her than actually learning things.

Hmmm. I am beginning to wonder about the birth order of this Kardashian sister. Will check this out when I go back over this article for edits and supplying fun links. Okay, she is apparently #3 out of 6. Theory of birth order would suggest that social intelligence would be well developed, compared to a first born child.

Aura Reading the Heart Chakra Databank for Emotional Giving

How do you research a person’s balance of giving and receiving emotionally? Research this Heart Chakra databank and then the next one.

Blog-Buddies, that balance can be one of the strongest personal requirements you, personally, have for sex appeal. So let’s investigate.

5 inches. Khloe doesn’t give much emotionally. She doesn’t have reserves of emotional depth, not yet anyway.

What does she have instead? Huge social intelligence, social skills, and especially the ability to act in a kind manner.

Behaviorally this could translate into what AMANDA observed. Kindness is a type of emotional giving, in objective reality.

Energetic nuances of emotion, read at the level of who-you-be, provide a different definition of giving to others. This auric modeling has implications for what Ms. Kardashian really would be like if you knew her.

It’s also important for her own personal evolution, her chosen path of personal development.

Aura Reading the Heart Chakra Databank for Emotional Receiving

Fills the room plus two inches. Khloe is used to being petted, admired, considered oh-so-special.

This is the first chakra databank belonging to the celebrity where I have found an authentic quality of confidence, rather than a skill at appearing confident.

Khloe Kardashian isn’t greedy about receiving attention, trying so very hard to be considered likeable and loveable and sexy.

Why try hard? She expects it.

Now that is one application of Law of Attraction, right?

In her auric modeling, Khloe feels no hesitation about receiving abundant praise and other emotional goodies. At the level of chakra databanks, she feels no need to reciprocate, to earn, or to give anything in exchange.

Life then shows up accordingly.

Sound like a sweet deal?

There’s one catch to this particular result related to Law of Attraction. I’m no authority on the personal development of Khloe Kardashian in this particular incarnation. Remember, I’m just meeting her as I do today’s aura reading research.

However, in general, someone who receives emotionally but doesn’t give? She can get caught in a pretty limiting lifestyle. What is her incentive to grow when she gets without striving?

At this point in today’s aura reading, some of you Blog-Buddies might now be sputtering, “Of course she needs to grow emotionally, wants to give emotionally,” etc.

In which case, you would be describing life from within your auric field, your who-you-be, not the auric modeling of somebody like Khloe Kardashian.

Aura Reading the Throat Chakra Databank for Communication in Close Relationships

5 inches. That Khloe knows how to giggle. She knows how to cuddle.

Does she know how to talk about deep anything, other than sexual attraction?

Not at this time.

But she’s game to get close, seems to me. Just not verbally.

Aura Reading the High Heart Chakra Databank for Soul Thrill

Out to the stars. Trillions of miles!

Khloe is having the time of her life. Particularly while receiving a big glamour photograph.

Receiving fame in general, plus concentrated attention in the here and now, you kidding?

Dressed up sexy, looking gorgeous, preparing to win admiration from countless millions of people, you kidding?

Life doesn’t get better than this. Khloe is doing exactly what she came into earth to do. Her soul is having a kind of soul-gasm.

Whatever this lovely creation of God’s had to do in previous lifetimes in order to earn this particular kind of good karma now, you can be sure that she earned it.

Also helpful: Khloe Kardashian incarnated with exactly the characteristics of human personality suitable for enjoying all  that fame to the max.

Aura Reading the Third Eye Chakra Databank for Compassionate Appreciation of Human Life

3/4 inch. If Khloe can’t feel it, see it, hear it…, is it real?

Not really.

So she may behave in a compassionate manner in social situations, but as for a spiritual form of compassion about her life or other people’s lives? For now, the very possibility is thoroughly ignored.

This chakra databank, like the Third Eye Chakra Databank for Connection to Spiritual Source, is what?

Almost completely empty.

It isn’t disdain. Nor fear. Nor sorrow.

It’s clueless, folks. A.k.a. Adorably shallow. Being completely caught up in the illusions of earth and having a ball.

Conclusion

Sex appeal, ultimately, is about auric modeling that matches our own personal needs and values. Not just the consciously stated values that we’re proud of, either.

Joe might find it intensely appealing, how much Khloe cares about his approval, his reactions to her.

Appeal depends upon configurations of STUFF that a person carries subconsciously and whether a person’s gifts of the soul are really being expressed at the time.

For me, big intellectual growth is a non-negotiable requirement for sex appeal. For others, only a dumb broad need apply for approbation. Khloe is very carefully branding her self (aurically at least) as neither dumb nor so smart as to seem threatening.

This intellect-related branding, alone, could be enough to win her millions of fans.

Similarly, Khloe Kardashian is a exceptionally appealing example of the auric modeling so common in the world today: Spiritual shutdown.

  • If you, also, live in spiritual shutdown, only similar people will likely seem sexually attractive. Or otherwise worthy of your respect.
  • If you don’t live in spiritual shutdown, Khloe could be appealing just because she is so very human.

Besides, at this stage in her life, Khloe Kardashian has won huge success. On her own terms. Exactly the very most favorite kind of success she could have asked for.

Many folks in spiritual shutdown have auras loaded with STUFF, major disappointments with career, relationships, social status. So long as all goes well for Khloe, she’s a poster child for delightful superficiality. And let’s not forget her having figured out a special knack for projecting huge sex appeal.

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  1. 1
    Primmie says:

    This is a wonderful reading Rose thank you.

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    Amanda says:

    Rose, what a brilliant reading. I still like her very much, and your use of the word ‘adorable’ fits for me. I like her shutdown gusto for life, perhaps because it’s so human.

    To me it’s that catlike quality of sensuality and the deliberate projection of sex appeal that I picked up on. She and her sisters have that in spades, and it’s actually quite rare.

    It was poignant to read how she feels fat in front of fashion photographers. I know the unpleasant feeling that can come from being with people who are regarding you with sharp negativity. Yet another sadness of the anorexic ideal.

    Thank you very much Rose, that was a fascinating and fun read!

    🙂

    Amanda

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    You are so welcome, Prize-Winning AMANDA, and Perceptive PRIMMIE.

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    As for the photo of a nutritional label for cookies, that comes courtesy of an exceptional article about being a smart consumer nutritionally.

    “A Tale of Two Cookies” is well worth reading.

    http://www.thehealthyhomeeconomist.com/a-tale-of-two-cookies/

    Two of the thought-provoking ideas from Blogger Sarah:

    “If you ever find yourself torn between two different brands of snack foods, always choose the one with the healthy fat like palm oil. The fat that is used is much more important than whether the flour or sugar used is organic.

    “In addition, go for the brand that clearly has no GMOs….”

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    Dave says:

    This about what I expected after seeing more of the Kardashian sisters on TV than I feel comfortable admitting in polite company. Honestly I find their show to be a crash course in dysfunctional family dynamics, premadonna-ism, and narcissism, but to each their own.

    I wonder if you have any links to your work on “Dreamy Al Gore” Rose? I would love to read that!

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    Golly, I was so dazzled by Khloe Kardashian that I neglected the photo credits.

    Find wonderful Kardashian photos at US Magazine:

    http://www.usmagazine.com/celebrity-style/pictures/stars-at-the-2013-kids-choice-awards-2013233/29302

    You’ll see a whole series of pix there, with the particular image I used from this when preparing today’s aura reading research.

    http://www.usmagazine.com/uploads/assets/photo_galleries/regular_galleries/2081-stars-at-the-2013-kids-choice-awards/photos/1364083445_khloe-kardashian-zoom.jpg

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    David says:

    I cringe at celebrity for it’s own sake, which reality TV is culturing. I’m a big movie fan but lean towards the heros journey or explorations of reality rather than making bad examples famous.

    Heck – I don’t even own a TV and I’ve heard more of them than I’d like.

    But I read the article and admire your honest and open exploration, Rose. And you’re right about karma. Fame doesn’t come because we ask for it.

    Seems I have a place where I could be more charitable. (laughs)

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    Suz says:

    Very interesting. Thanks for doing this! It surprises me that the “something” I read from people is actually pieces of their aura — I never would have guessed that (I always called it a character reading) — because several of Rose’s observations match what I was thinking after looking at several shots of Khloe last week.

    By the way, I don’t keep up with the Kardashians. At all. After looking at several family shots, I have also determined that Kim’s style is predatory. Now, how do I know that? 😉

    Aura reading. Now I understand what it is, that will be my next Rose book to read. This really made my day. Thanks!

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    Amanda says:

    Hi David,

    Your comment made me smile because that’s just how I used to feel!

    For some reason or another I don’t any more. Often I start watching people simply because they challenge me and don’t meet my ideals of perfection, and usually they teach me something.

    What you see as narcissism and dysfunction, I see as the evolving and learning of human aspects of life. I have kids, and learning and working through mistakes and selfishness, the primal self, is all part of my life right now, so that probably informs my view.

    I love how opinions and viewpoints shift and alter with time.

    I used to see dancers and actors as horrible showoffs, and now I really admire them for their ability to allow the full range of humanity to flow through them.

    Amanda

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    SUZ, you are getting it! Of course you have had gifts for aura reading all along.

    Using them in a random way is Stage One Energetic Literacy.

    Learning how to do reliable techniques will allow you to:

    1. Read auras whenever you want.

    2. Obtain better quality information, and receive it in less time.

    3. Develop skills you can trust.

    4. Do aura reading in a way that doesn’t indirectly produce negative consequences for your aura. (This last part happens a lot, unfortunately, only folks don’t have the skills to find out because they haven’t learned how to research STUFF… which takes… aura reading].

    Of course, you can gain full aura reading skills, Stage Three Energetic Literacy.

    Of course, I am someone (not the only one in the world, but a someone) who can teach you.

    I’d recommend starting with “Read People Deeper,” and using “Aura Reading Through All Your Senses” as a more advanced book. You can check both of them out, including sample chapters, by clicking on the covers at the official Rose Rosetree website, https://www.rose-rosetree.com. There you can securely order online. A toll-free number is available as well, no computer needed: 800-345-6665.

    Let us know when you have an aura reading guest post, SUZ. 🙂

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    DAVID and AMANDA, this latest exchange is a superb example of the developing understanding in the world today of Householder Enlightenment.

    DAVID, you are so schooled in the Renunciate Enlightenment path. Whereas, AMANDA has moved into full lifestyle and concepts as a householder.

    You know, one way to sum up the difference:

    A renunciate says “No” to human life, celebs included. Life is either ignored or treated like a slightly interesting theory. (Human considerations? To a renunciate, these seem like Distractions from the One Great Love, God.)

    A householder says “Yes” to human life, celebs included. (To a householder, these seem like evolving expressions of the One Great Love, God.)

    Comments, you two? Other explorers of Enlightenment?

  12. 12
    Amanda says:

    Oh, Rose, ‘evolving expressions of the one great love, God’.

    So beautiful, and such a way to express it!

    I have in the past been very remote and distanced, and that was felt by everyone. Even though it is a very refined love, it’s also perfectionist and slicing and dicing of the ego.

    Now, I feel so ordinary and much more solid and real, with nothing much separating me from anyone. It’s good to come into normality, and physically I’m much more in my body.

    I have had a patch of grumpiness about it, but essentially it’s been a question of ‘get over it.’ The bonus is that a subconscious sense of separation that I didn’t even think I had, has dissolved. I don’t do anything other people don’t do. We do things, as humanity.

    It must show, because people strike up conversations with me now! My friends also appear relieved.

    I’m happy to be back in the melee 🙂

    Amanda

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    Jordan says:

    This is so interesting. I watched some episodes of X Factor, which Khloe hosted, last time it was on. I noticed her kindness towards children (lots of the contestants were really young) and I definitely wondered, “Is she smart or not??” It’s difficult to tell and I can see how that would be helpful for her socially. She walks the line.

    I read Kim’s aura a while ago and it had some similarities. From what I read (and remember) Kim is very sweet, and very, very oriented towards pleasing a man. It was like her all over reason for being, to be what her man of the moment wanted.

    In fact, that was a relationship reading that I did of her and Kanye. And I found that to him she is like a beautiful statue to put in his ‘palace.’

    A great match, the two of them, as a more well adjusted man might be overwhelmed by Kim’s need to please and know ‘what he wants her to be.’ Most men would probably say, “Um, be yourself?”, while Kanye is very comfortable having Kim just be there to please him!

  14. 14
    Jordan says:

    Another note about Kim & Kanye’s absolutely bizarre (imo) relationship – Kanye has a lyric… I think it’s on the song “Clique”… where he says, “My girl a superstar all from a home movie.” Referring to Kim’s sex tape.

    In what kind of relationship is that okay??? Even without reading their auras you know these people must have some weird values!!

    Alright I just did a little searching for lyrics, here’s a funny article. Kanye wrote a song called “Perfect Bitch” about Kim. From the article: “I’m honored. I love it,” she told TMZ.com last month. “I know he doesn’t mean it in a negative way when he says the word ‘bitch.'” LOL.

    http://www.starpulse.com/news/Kevin_Blair/2012/09/05/kanye_west_raps_about_kim_kardashians_1

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    Perceptive and hilarious in equal parts, your last two comments, JORDAN.

    Thank you.

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    David says:

    Hi Amanda
    Yes, it’s common for everyone to go through a “detachment” phase. A disengaging of the ego. But for a householder, that’s a phase whereas for a renunciate, it’s the emphasis.

  17. 17
    David says:

    Also, Amanda, yes I’ve found many of my old opinions on things have fallen away. Little is personal anymore, just unfolding. But I have been surprised by some of what did fall away (like composing) and what has stuck around. I’ve assumed these to be aspects of the person engaged in this life.

    I have kids too, though they’re grown now, and they occurred at a different stage of my development. But yes, they can be like a characachered mirror. (laughs) And a beautiful illustration of how we ourselves developed.

  18. 18
    David says:

    hmm – not sure what I think of being the poster boy for renunciation. (laughs) Some of my friends would get a good laugh out of that. Especially the monk I shared a room with on the retreat last month. (he’s now back in Uttar Kashi in the Himalayas where they just had a flood that washed out the only way in, the power, the internet, etc. Happily they have food reserves and simple needs.)

    Yes, I am well schooled (even a grad degree) in eastern philosophy. And a lot of that has a renunciate overlay, even if that wasn’t the original teaching. I’m also inner-directed and contemplative. And my last 2 lives were renunciate oriented.

    But this time around, I’ve been married more than single, I’ve raised 2 boys, owned homes, have a large social network, and have been very successful in business – enough that I’ve changed 2 industries, won awards, and am written up in a local history book. yada yada…

    I love a good movie and have gone to film school, worked in the biz and made a few shorts myself. I have a high regard for excellence in the craft. But I don’t agree with making actors our cultural heros.

    So yeah, the renunciate approach may sneak through in ways I don’t intend. I’m also in a more inner directed phase with a writing project and another major shift and falling away underway. But I don’t have a monkish lifestyle in the slightest.

    Yet another in the wide variety in the way the chakras are expressed. 😉

  19. 19
    Dana says:

    A fascinating reading! It was a good reminder for me about shallowness in auras. I especially did a double-take on the lack of intellectual curiosity part. I guess Khloe wouldn’t want to discuss my excitement over reading Malcolm Gladwell…

    I haven’t watched the Kardahsians’ shows much, but I saw part of one episode some year that I liked. They were at a store opening for their clothing line maybe, signing autographs. A girl approached their table and said, “Wow, you are all SO pretty!” To which Khloe replied, “Hah, not really. We just spent hours doing our make-up.” I thought that was refreshing honesty. (Of course, they’re pretty without make-up, too.)

  20. 20
    Primmie says:

    Jordan, thank you for sharing your insights about Kim and Kayne here. I was struck by your phrase that Kim was like “a beautiful statue to put in his palace”. I feel sad to think someone could become an actual object to others. But then, if your mother brokers a deal with your sex tape to make you famous then I imagine being sexually objectified will inevitably be part of your story.

  21. 21

    So, PRIMMIE and other Blog-Buddies, what could a mother do to help her child develop a healthy sense of sexual self-esteem?

    If not brokering a deal with your sex tape, what?

    Answers both serious and not are invited. Including which other type of tape to sell. Or a better way to use the progeny’s sex tape than brokering a deal with it….

  22. 22
    bmeade says:

    I think David’s last post sounds kinda like an advert for singles. LOL.

  23. 23
    Primmie says:

    I think that’s an excellent question Rose. I look forward to reading the answers people give, serious or otherwise.

    I think the best thing I can do is heal from my own damage around sexual self esteem. I think whatever dysfunction my husband and I have, we automatically pass on to my children. So they get what works for us, they also get what doesn’t.

    I think as an empath it’s my responsibility to become skilled so that I don’t go lurching into other realities.
    As a recovering codependent (sorry for the 12 step language) it’s my responsibility to not let other people walk all over me.

    If I take care of myself and am content then my children have that modelled for them. If I have stuff and don’t attend to it, then my children will have to deal with the repercussions of living with a mother with issues.

    Mostly what that boils down to is doing what I can to take care of myself and also accepting that life happens at its own pace and as a mother I can’t and never will be perfect at anything.

    I have to say I’m very glad I had my children late in life. Some women are fabulous mother’s at 20. I would not have been. I’d say now that my self confidence is good. I know I can model that for my children.

  24. 24

    JORDAN and all you followers of Kim and other Kardashians, usually I don’t notice anything about them but a link to this rather fascinating article just entered my email inbox:

    http://www.salon.com/2013/06/21/the_eight_categories_of_bizarre_celebrity_baby_names/?source=newsletter

  25. 25

    PRIMMIE, loving what you wrote about responsibility.

    It IS responsible to become a skilled empath. 🙂

    All that you wrote in Comment 23 resonates for me.

  26. 26
    Amanda says:

    Hi David,

    You don’t sound much like a renunciate, it’s true!

    Lots of people dislike the Kardashians. For me, if I dislike someone, it’s a challenge. When I get over my initial disdain/shock/you’re not like me stuff, I begin to understand them, and then I love them and find them fascinating.

    Not only that, I learn about disowned aspects of myself.

    Particularly when it comes to sexuality, the disowning and fear can be strong: it’s a sensitive subject.

    Amanda

  27. 27
    Amanda says:

    On these lines, to me the Kardashians have, as a family, managed to make a lot of money out of sex, sex appeal.

    Kim and her mother are canny businesswomen and I think well aware that the target male audience is not going to be put off by a sex tape, in fact quite the reverse.

    And on the pleasing a man front, I would hope there’s some desire for that in every good relationship!

    Sometimes exaggeration has its helpful side too, as learning for others. If someone goes looking into something, they allow others to go a little further than they perhaps otherwise would.

    This whole conversation has been wonderful. Thank you all.

    Amanda

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    Primmie says:

    Rose, I think it really is important to become a skilled empath. Definitely it’s my responsibility to take care of the empath me. Mind you, I let myself off the hook for not doing it sooner in my life. I just thought I was codependent until I found your blog. I hope in time, people will know early on in life when they are empaths and they’ll know that it’s up to them to become skilled.

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    David says:

    Hi Primmie

    Agreed. I recently met someone who has had huge struggles, an addiction, legal complications, and lives in a big drama. It became apparent she’s empathic but hasn’t learned to manage it, thus becoming (in effect) of victim of it. She hides out for days at a time. An exaggerated case, but it brought the point home.

    In the new Man of Steel film, they cover the young Supermans growing up as a problem. His superpowers would show up unexpectedly and were hard to control, he was taught to repress them and became somewhat alienated. Not a healthy example.

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    Curious As Ever says:

    Thanks, Rose, for this very informative and instructive reading. The quality of hiding– hmm, I have noticed that in some teenagers too. What I sense is a kind of bravura, but with ridgity– it’s very brittle.

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