Empath merges really do happen. Skilled or unskilled, they happen. Unskilled empath merges happen regularly for any of the 1 in 20 folks born as an empath. Not to alarm you, but unskilled empath merges happen hundreds or thousands of times every day. to every talented empath who has not yet developed skills to really empower your consciousness.
Whenever you are doing unskilled empath merge, someone will be on the receiving end every time. Temporarily, very temporarily — usually just for a couple of hours or days — that other person can feel improvement. The empath has taken on Imported STUFF.
After that short time, the recipient of the unskilled empath merge winds up taking on exactly the same amount and kind of STUFF that was released. While the empath keeps the Imported STUFF indefinitely. Interested in protecting yourself from that?
- To learn more about unskilled empath merges — and how to stop them happening — I recommend Become The Most Important Person in the Room. You can learn powerful skills from either the ebook or paperback edition.
- Or take my annual Empath Empowerment Workshop this March 22-23, 2014. You can progress so rapidly as an empath, and have such fun besides!
- This blog can motivate you to learn, but the skill set is not teachable over the Internet on a blog. At least not the system of Empath Empowerment(R). What can this blog do? Educate and inspire you.
I was so inspired by a recent exchange here, begun when Teresa asked about Imported STUFF resulting from Skilled Empath Merge. (There followed quite some discussion in the comments section at 10 Types of Stuff Related to Heroin, Pot, Cocaine and Other Drugs )
Blog-Buddy ZELDA added a comment that was just magnificent. It included a great new term she developed, Vacuum Cleaning someone else’s aura, courtesy of an unskilled empath merge. Here comes some ZELDA-flavored wisdom.
The human vacuum cleaner experience with an unskilled empath
Teresa, the experience you describe regarding those Dear friends who receive temporary benefits from the human vacuum cleaner experience with an unskilled empath was very common for me before I learned about being an empath and then became skilled.
Besides all the crucial information and skills that one can learn from Rose about being an empath, I think that truly recognizing and valuing ones wiring as an empath is a crucial part of stopping that pattern of relationship.
I transformed from the codependent, vacuum cleaner approach to friendship with Dear friends to getting real clear about my gifts and discerning with whom I wanted to share them. Its much easier to do that once an empath gets skilled and is able to turn off the empath merges.
It was painful to go through phases of realizing that those people didnt really like me for who I was. Lots of takers. But now its OK. Im glad theyre gone.
Experiences from any of you former human vacuum cleaners?
Blog-Buddies, can any of you relate to ZELDA’s experience? Any stories of triumph or pathos to share?