Who doesn’t love tips and tricks, those juicy bits of fresh info? Ideally suited for the Internet, especially Facebook. Or perhaps a teleseminar full of encouragement:
- Money-saving housecleaning tips with vinegar!
- Marvelous makeup tricks to make your eyes look bigger!
- How about this amazing tip? You can dilute 1 tablespoon of vinegar in a cup of water to use as a hair conditioner. Afterwards recycle the mixture and use it to deodorize your bathroom. Keep this precious fluid in an open container, tucked inside the shower stall while you’re not bathing. Wow, that’s saving money!
Seriously, Blog-Buddies, learning new tips and tricks can be great. Just reading about them is entertaining, whether or not you ever actually use them.
Personally I’m glad that I read somewhere how you can crumple up old sheets from a newspaper (black and white pages only, no pages with color photos). Use them like free paper towels to shine up your kitchen windows. Yeah!
As an empath coach, though, I am not a big fan of tips. As the field of empath coaching grows, it’s lovely that teachers are stepping up to help. However, beware the teacher or helper or healer who offers you empath tips and tricks.
Why tips and tricks for an empath hurt more than they help
Every born empath needs skills. Skills allow an empath to have a much better life, no question.
I’m a huge fan of helping empaths to become skilled. Doing this with the system of Empath Empowerment(R) takes a bit of time. In simplest form , you could learn as quickly as seven hours total.
Skills for empaths that really work, learning faster than that? Perhaps a sample, like a little taste of ice cream at Ben and Jerry’s? This is not a matter of tips and quick fixes. Empath skills mean learning a process.
Empath Empowerment(R) was the first trademarked system in America for coaching empaths. It is still the only dedicated system for helping empaths, far as I know. Sure, you can find books galore with advice, sympathy, tips and tricks. The same with teleclasses for empaths.
I happen to think that empaths deserve more. You, for instance. When I figure out how to give a quality teleclass that really helps empaths, I’ll start teaching one. Promise.
What I won’t do is offer a cheap substitute to cash in on the booming market for protecting and helping empaths.
You deserve to receive something that really can help you, not busywork or empty promises or advice that actually makes things worse.
At this blog and my main website and another website for empaths (that I began years ago but now lack the time to maintain), you can learn basic consumer smarts about how to become a skilled empath.
When you take your consumer survey of what is offered for empaths today in the marketplace, here is what I can contribute: A systematic method that has worked for thousands of empaths around the world, including workshops I have given on three continents; authorized editions of my books in Japanese, Russian, Turkish, and Spanish ; and mentoring done for clients in so many countries.
Where empaths’ lives were changed in really significant ways.
Just to encourage you newbies, some of you Blog-Buddies might be so kind as to write a comment below about the difference it has made for you, learning skills for living joyfully and empowered as an empath.
As an empath, become a smart consumer
Today’s post will include a summary of how I can help any empath to get skills. Any empath means YOU, if you were born as an empath, one of the 1 in 20 people born with that wonderful kind of potential in life.
First though, let’s go for essential consumer information.
What is my one big tip for an empath? Whenever you encounter someone selling, or telling, tips for an empath, run.
Run in the opposite direction.
Becoming a skilled empath is a process. You learn how to make a few effortless shifts to your consciousness. This changes the subtle quality of positioning consciousness in everyday life.
If you entrust me with teaching you how to become a skilled empath, you will learn a small set of skills. They will become second nature.
Learning skills as an empath is like learning to drive an automobile, except that driving instruction takes longer. Compared to developing empath skills, driving is also way harder and scarier, even dangerous.
So why do folks bother with learning how to drive a car? When you want to drive, your choice is to either learn how to drive or not learn.
In the field of driver’s education today, not too many experts can get away with offering tips as a substitute for learning how to steer a car or change lanes. These are not just interesting theories. They are skills.
What do you get for your trouble, learning how to drive a car? Just like learning how to be skilled as an empath, once you master the skill set, you keep it for life. Such a great investment in your future!
To prepare for earning your driver’s license, would it be enough to gather a bunch of tips? Here come a few, just for fun.
Three Tips for Driving a Car
- Find a pair of ornamental dice. Keep them in your vehicle at all times. These will make you lucky and help to prevent accidents.
- Every car contains something called “Windows.” It is so much more comfortable driving in cold weather if you can learn how to close them. Especially during a snowstorm. So find a kind person who can show you how to close the windows in your particular model of automobile. This will keep you warmer and can help you drive extra safely.
- To prepare for a very long trip in your car, release the emergency brake.
What Is The Simplest, Fastest Way to Become a Skilled Empath?
Get a copy of Become The Most Important Person in the Room. It’s available as a paperback. Plus authorized ebook editions are available through Kindle, Nook, iBookstore, Sony, Kobo, Baker & Taylor, Copia, Gardners, eBookPie, eSentral, Scribd, and PagePusher.
Do a quick, fun read through the book. Like a novel! New ideas can be like characters you meet for the first time, only this is no fiction.
During this first read-through, skip all the techniques. Read in the lighthearted spirit of tips and tricks, if you like. Read sloppy.
Afterwards read just one short chapter per day. Do whatever that chapter contains, including a tiny bit of homework. Altogether it won’t amount to more than 10 minutes a day.
Still nice and easy, no being hard on yourself. Have some fun with this. Even if your motivation is very serious (like mine in teaching you) take it easy and be sloppy.
Why? The harder you try to concentrate or “Do a perfect job,” the more firmly you will rely upon entrenched habits that don’t help at all for becoming a skilled empath. Trust me, you can afford to be sloppy and have yourself some fun while developing true empath skills.
In this “30-Day Plan for Empath Empowerment” Skip the last three chapters, if you like. They are for doing Skilled Empath Merge. Optional for being a skilled empath. All the rest of that how-to book is needed.
Once you have cycled through most of that simplest how-to book for empaths, you will be quite skilled.
Want even fancier skills as an empath?
Take my annual Empath Empowerment Workshop. Coming up soon! This March 22-23. The Level 1 weekend workshop will move you forward by six months, compared to your present skill level. No prior experience is needed. Although you could come as a very skilled empath as well, and move forward by half a year compared to your present skill level.
Or you could do some mentoring with me. I recommend you do this after your first go-through with Become The Most Important Person in the Room. Although I will help you as much as you can, however you come to me.
Mentoring can be one 55-minute session at a time, or go for a 5-hour Day of Mentoring (with a discount included for encouragement). Talking over the phone? This works fine, I promise. Although you could also come in person for your mentoring. Skype webcam might be a fine choice as well. You decide.
In addition, I am working on a pair of books, a short series called “Empath Coaching with Rose Rosetree.” They replace Empowered by Empathy, now out of print. This was the first how-to in English for empaths, maybe the first instructional book for empaths in any language. By now, however, it is like Word for Windows. Time for an upgrade to reflect how much I have learned as an empath coach.
Blog-Buddies, I can hardly contain my enthusiasm over this pair of books I am preparing for you. Absolutely my best how-to books yet, and so crammed with the latest, best ways to help any empath develop superb, effortless skills. For about six months, I have made this my biggest work priority. Ever since I realized that it wasn’t enough to do a new edition of “Empowered by Empathy.”
I’m doing all I can to release this pair of books this spring. What more can I tell you about this so far? This is a much more detailed, sophisticated approach. As easy as could be, yet delivering what is promised.
Even after publication of these empath books, I will still recommend starting with Become The Most Important Person in the Room, because it is so very quick and easy.
So that’s what I’ve got to help you, talented empaths. Loads of resources that can really work to help you as an empaths Just not tips and tricks. But a stronger sense of self. Protecting yourself. Preventing Imported STUFF from unskilled empath merge. Soooooo many techniques for Skilled Empath Merge. Such big fun!