Just kidding about that diamond-shaped argyle pattern on the guy’s sweater.
Except for the charming hottie shown at the top of today’s article, no photos will be supplied for this post. This one isn’t about a celebrity. And so I can ethically provide only my best recollection of a true story. With details changed to protect the innocent — just like the old “Dragnet” show — except who can imagine a regular radio or TV broadcast where, each week, every character is named either JOE or GLADYS? 😉
Lately we have been discussing charm, auric modeling, how conscious aura reading can help us learn the truth about anyone. If you have ever wanted to protect yourself from a charming, unscrupulous person, maybe today’s story will help you.
In a session of aura healing, I was assisting my client GLADYS to get over a failed, painful love affair with JOE. The intention for our session wasn’t that, of course, because an intention for improving your life is not to have less of what you don’t want. The intention for what GLADYS did want was more along the lines of “To prepare for an appropriate, fulfilling, mutual, committed, love relationship.”
Our healing centerpiece was cutting GLADYS’s cord of attachment to JOE.
A Background that Suggested Charm was Involved
Gathering background information, in preparation for cord-cutting, I learned some fascinating details about Charming JOE in objective reality.
- During the two years he was GLADYS’s lover, JOE was in charge. He was the one who had to be pleased.
- That included sexual intimacy, where evidently he was a pretty self-centered lover.
- Demanding, actually.
- Not that much fun for GLADYS, actually. (Not that JOE noticed.)
- He was the one who broke up with her.
- Although he probably faithful before the breakup, Prince Charming installed a substitute princess-lover suspiciously fast after the breakup.
- Even so, GLADYS wanted to get back with him. Years had passed, yet she couldn’t keep from longing for him.
Cord Items, Cutting the Cord of Attachment to a Charmer
Using 12 Steps to Cut Cords of Attachment(R), many aspects of the procedure help to make it a permanent healing. So that, in this case, GLADYS would never have a cord of attachment to JOE again. No matter what. No matter how JOE cavorted about.
One of my favorite aspects of cutting a cord of attachment is how informative they are. No mere “Energy cords,” each individual cord of attachment contains a sequence of cord items.
These cord items may change over time, but there is always something. Like “12 Years a Slave.” Only shorter. Less gruesome. Probably very familiar to my client’s subconscious mind but not at all present to the conscious mind.
At the end of this session of aura healing, I found 10 minutes to research some of his chakra databanks.
This set of cord items showed GLADYS being seduced by JOE’s charm. Having him sneer at her and belittle her. With GLADYS feeling bad about herself and wanting so badly to win his affections.
A couple of observations about these cord dynamics may help you feel better about yourself if you, too, have been tricked into a relationship where you were, supposedly, “So lucky” to be with the charming one. And afterwards it seemed as if you couldn’t let go, no matter what.
Sticky Cord of Attachment Pattern #1 to a Charming Cordee
Putting into denial obnoxious or other troubling behavior.
When you live in thrall to another person’s charm, it numbs judgment. You know that saying “Love is blind”?
Well, love to a charmer brings especially big blind spots.
When GLADYS knew deep down that she was being disrespected, yet she couldn’t believe it, that created a kind of cognitive dissonance. Leaving her powerless to get over the puzzle — like wanting to keep playing Ribik’s cube until you can solve the thing.
Sticky Cord of Attachment Pattern #2 to a Charming Cordee
What happens is not fair, and you long to stay involved until you can make it fair.
This part is very much like wanting to play with that Rubik’s cube until you finally solve it.
Sticky Cord of Attachment Pattern #3 to a Charming Cordee
The degree of inner drama makes other relationships feel tame by comparison.
Even if they are much healthier, happier relationships! Moving out the related cord of attachment makes a big difference for ending the internal drama.
What Aura Reading Revealed about the Charming Hottie
Toward the end of this session, I was able to spend some time researching JOE’s aura. We did this through a photo on Facebook, rather than my pulling out an energetic holograms. (Blog-Buddies, if you ever want to receive an explanation of the fine points here, just put your request in a comment.)
Here is the crux of what mattered, researching JOE’s aura.
The problem wasn’t so much his lack of integrity (which showed in more than one chakra databank that one would read for deception detection).
No the problem was precisely the contrast in this pair of chakra databanks at the second chakra.
Belly Chakra Databank for Sex Appeal
The force of this chakra databank hit me like a ton of bricks. Hot bricks. Such promise was there, like, “I am the greatest lover in the world. I will make you feel like a queen. You will be so incredibly sexually fulfilled by me. And I am very, very drawn to you.”
Much of JOE’s auric modeling was built around this central promise. He really believed it. He projected it strongly. This chakra databank filled the room and extended far into the difference.
Subconsciously it would hit ANY person over puberty like a ton of bricks. And if you were vulnerable, watch out!
Funnily enough, the Facebook photo showed JOE with a new woman, oldish and plainish and, omigod, practically drooling visibly, so besotted was she with this (Supposed) Sex God in in human form.
Belly Chakra Databank for What JOE Was Like as a Lover
Very small, about three inches (as I recall). Self-interested.
“What’s in it for me” was his current motto.
JOE didn’t deliver much, not beyond his own orgasm.
Honestly, GLADYS might have had more fun making love with a robot.
Technically What Happens with Big Contradictions to Chakra Databanks?
Having those big differences between chakra databanks on related topics? It’s only human. Incarnated here at Earth School, each of us has a lot of talent to manage — hundreds of chakra databanks. Some do well, others not so well, until we are Enlightened. (Your destiny Blog-Buddies? It is having all your chakra databanks work well, a.k.a. Enlightenment.)
It is only human to have one chakra databank that promises or exaggerates something, while another chakra databank creates a sort of energetic interference pattern. On the level of conscious reality, assessing people’s behavior, we talk about contradictions and mixed messages. Similar deal in the astral — a.k.a. Your subconscious mind, where auric modeling operates.
Charm ups the intensity, including a kind of stickiness.
Before GLADYS cord of attachment to JOE was cut, it would have been really hard to let him go. Too many contradictions.
GLADYS could relate to the aura reading, just as she expressed relief at hearing about the cord items and making a list with me of logical consequences, or results that she can reasonably expect from that particular session of aura healing.
I asked GLADYS, “When you felt that promise of JOE’s being the ultimate lover, and he was so unsatisfying, did you perhaps blame yourself?”
My advice? If you’re involved with a charmer, a charmer who “unaccountably” disappoints you, pay attention to what really happens between you in objective reality. Don’t throw that into denial, blaming yourself for the gap.