There’s a survey I take whenever I can. Blog-Buddies, I ask this question whenever I have a client or student who is a psychotherapist or counselor or psychiatrist. I’ll ask that mental health professional:
What if you have a client/patient who decides to supplement therapy with you by doing “Analyze myself”-type sessions on his own? Do you think it is a good idea for people to attempt to be their own psychotherapist?
The answer has been “No.” Every single time. “No, no, no, are you kidding?”
- One reason is that a session of psychotherapy requires a professional psychotherapist, not just one extra-smart client.
- Another reason is that even the brightest client who is not trained as a psychotherapist… is NOT a psychotherapist.
- And even professional psychotherapists don’t do sessions on themselves. They respect the work enough to go to another psychotherapist.
- What’s the most popular reason for “No”? The client may start analyzing his life, rather than living it.
This survey came to mind yesterday when a comment was asked here under Why NOT ask for a Cord cutting session when you want help from Rosetree Energy Spirituality. SHELLY asked (at Comments #513 and 514):
“I have had one heck of a bad love relationship that went on for a few years before my husband…. He is no longer in my life, but I would LOVE to have a cord cutting session for that past relationship. However Ive been told not to ask for a cord cutting session. So how do I appropriately go about asking to have that done?”
Look, we all want to be smart consumers. So what is wrong with politely requesting a “Cord cutting session”?
Frankly, that question is answered pretty thoroughly at that aforementioned article, Why NOT ask for a Cord cutting session when you want help from Rosetree Energy Spirituality. I guess that is why it has become one of the very most popular posts at this blog. Many people have asked versions of that question when commenting at that thread.
“Why not just order up a cord-cutting session, like going to a pizza parlor and asking for a slice with extra cheese?”
Look, it’s a really understandable question. So I have tried to remind myself, while answering it again and again and again.
If I had no integrity in doing this work, I would grin and say, “Sure, the customer is always right.” Or maybe I’d add, “You want pepperoni with that?” 😉
However, that version of taking orders isn’t compatible with facilitating depth, permanent healing at the level of auras. So…
Today’s article will add an extra answer, a more sophisticated answer. How about this? I would encourage you to read that other article first. This will make you “sophisticated.” And then you can really get the most from today’s article, in honor of SHELLY’s intrepid curiosity.
Let’s be honest about the difference between being a client versus a professional at RES
Blog-Buddies, each of you is an expert — THE World’s Expert — with knowledge of one human being.
I think you know who that person is.
As a human being, or a client for a session of aura healing and transformation, you will always be the world’s #1 expert about you. When you call for a session, bring an intention in order to grow as the person you are. Because you are also the world’s expert at your priorities for personal development. Right now, how do you seek to grow as a human being?
Related to SHELLY’s question, possible intentions for her personal development might be:
- Enjoy my marriage more.
- Live more in the present.
- Trust my judgment more.
- Trust men more.
- Trust people more.
Each of these is a human-type area for growth, correct? As the world’s expert on yourself as a human, the sovereign commander of your free will, you get to decide which of these interests you most. Or what else, humanly, interests you most. You have so much say-so about your intention for a personal session!
As a client for a session of Rosetree Energy Spirituality, pay attention to that very human part of what’s going on. Agreeing on an intention that’s meaningful for you — that is your responsibility. The RES expert can help you but will never presume to tell you what you prefer.
Any intention that would work for a session can be your choice. And if it helps to workshop your intention a bit, to make it work well for a session, your RES expert can help you do that. Collaborating with you, the human expert on your own personal life. You alone make the decision.
By contrast, an Energy Spirituality Expert speaks the language of energy
We practitioners and apprentices (or the founder of) Rosetree Energy Spirituality — none of us is a hobbyist. We have spent hours on rigorous training, developing solid professional skills. We know this field of Rosetree Energy Spirituality.
In session, it is the job of the facilitator to be an expert on which skill set is appropriate to use to help you.
Now, it’s wonderful that many people today know something about cords of attachment. You might even have learned how to cut cords of attachment for self-healing. I know a book that can definitely help you with that. 😉
Still, you have not become an apprentice or graduate in RES. It’s great that you know more about cords of attachment than the average person. Still, you’re only partway to becoming a professional in this field.
Here is what that expert RES healer will do for you
- In any session, there will be an intention. After that, the session is set up energetically — in a manner that respects you — so that the RES expert can co-create a powerful energy healing along with Divine help.
- This co-creation is a skill. It is one of the skills being used in a professional manner.
- Then the RES expert does a Skilled Empath Merge or reads your aura. It’s done quickly, thanks to the expertise. There will not be drama. Still, there is fluent Stage Three Energetic Literacy — expert assessment of what is happening at the business end of your chakra databanks, corresponding to your subconscious mind.
- Next your session facilitator screens you for all 15 kinds of STUFF, as they might pertain to you right now and to your intention.
- Following that, your session facilitator evaluates the priority for helping you, choosing a Healing Centerpiece.
- Communication, systematic work, and rigor at doing the healing — all of this will come next.
- That expert at RES will speak the language of human with you. Because that is YOUR expertise, and your fluent language for understanding personal development.
Learning to do all this is part of becoming an expert at RES. And because we are experts, all of us know better than to schedule a “cord-cutting session.”
A few more points that may help you to understand the sacred, different, roles of client and facilitator
In her very respectfully worded question, SHELLY has revealed that she is still a beginner at understanding this field. “I would LOVE to have a cord cutting session for that past relationship.”
Why, exactly? The purpose is what, exactly?
Does she know how to do any of the techniques of Vibrational Re-Positioning®? (Hint: They require fluent Stage Five Energetic Literacy.)
Is she aware of 13 additional skill sets I might choose from, guiding her session as the facilitator? (Not counting either the 12 Steps to Cut Cords of Attachment® or any of the skill sets within Vibrational Re-Positioning.)
And, BTW, has she done 10,000 session hours with clients, deepening her knowledge of this profession?
Hey, long as I’m posing questions, here come a few more….
Asking broader questions related to Rosetree Energy Spirituality
Is the goal of a session to “Get something done energetically?” Or is it to help my client to move beyond the failed marriage and her suffering from it?
Blog-Buddies, I have helped many long-term clients besides SHELLY. They also began as beginners. (How could it be otherwise, really?)
They too initially tried to show their smarts as New Age Consumers by wording their intention for the session in terms of energy, and which energy healing technique I would use to help them.
No hard feelings. Happy to report: With more experience, these clients learned to enthusiastically do their job, the human job. Consequently results showed up, in cumulative fashion, in their human lives.
What is the point of a session really?
Surely it’s to feel better. To have a better life.
Blog-Buddies, I can tell you this for a fact. I have helped my clients to fulfill their intentions and evolve really rapidly. But not because I take orders from them.
As a sophisticated, knowledgeable client, you will come think about RES sessions in an appropriately respectful way. This is a profession, just like receiving help from a dentist or a plumber or a psychotherapist.
Your intention cannot be to do a particular technique, not any more than you would tell your dentist which tools and materials to use, or help out by reading your own x-ray.
In any session of Energy Spirituality, let expert do the energy part. As a client, do your job as the human expert. That’s a job worth doing.