Empath Fixes. Let’s take a quick survey of tips and tricks that you’ve heard are supposed to help empaths.
Bringing perspective from RES Energy READING and also RES Energy HEALING:
What really works? What doesn’t?
After you read this post, please comment away. Share any advice you’ve received. Let’s explore.
Empath Fixes #1. Bubble Up
What It Is
Place a golden bubble around yourself, through visualization. This will help you calm down and feel secure. Even in crowds!
Clearly, it’s fun to imagine this! And easy.
Convenient: This quick tip can be done in seconds.
No training needed either. All you do is add on the visualization. Which becomes more secure with repetition.
How Helpful, Really?
Busywork of one’s own choosing tends to feel good. So let’s not discount the placebo effect of using any tip or trick for empaths.
Beyond that, this “Bubble Up” technique does something energetic. It creates a thought form. (This book can teach you way more about thought forms, and how to remove unhelpful ones. For a better life.)
What’s wrong with jazzing up your aura with cute, happy thought forms?
- They’re fake. Deep inside, you know they’re false. Guess what? So do other people. Since everyone knows subconsciously about your auric modeling.
- The harder you work at thought forms, the more they’ll make it hard for you to be yourself. Or authentically feel like yourself.
- You could Bubble Up all day long, off and on. But you’ll never gain a shred of Empath Empowerment.
Empath Fixes #2. Support Groups for Empaths
What It Is
Go on Facebook and you’ll loads of these groups. Elsewhere too.
The idea is that empaths are vulnerable, fragile people. Constantly having psychic experiences, etc. And their best help comes from helping each other.
Suffering people turn into experts, just by sharing. Miraculously, their willingness to share pain heals everyone.
Surely you’ve encountered plenty of examples.
How Helpful, Really?
Yet one more reason to learn energetic literacy, folks! Because when you can read people’s auras, it’s clear. Vulnerable, fragile people don’t have really inspiring auras. But birds of a feather do flock together, seeking consolation.
As You May Know
Empath Empowerment Is Not a Quick Fix, a Tip, or a Trick
Instead it’s a system. A system that you can definitely learn. Probably all you need is this easy 30-day plan for Empath Empowerment. Just 10-12 minutes a day.
Or learn interactively. Through my new online workshops for empaths.
Becoming an Empowered Empath is easy, just not simplistic. Because what’s required for true Empath Empowerment?
Learning how to position your consciousness slightly differently. A super-subtle shift.
After gaining those basic skills I can also teach you how to do Skilled Empath Merge. (Incidentally, this resource includes important clarification on choosing wisely. So you’ll never have to have upsetting experiences from your empath merges.)
Sure, many empath helpers claim to make you an Empowered Empath or give you Empath Empowerment. It’s worth knowing, who developed these terms? You just might know the answer to this one.
So maybe you can explain this to me. So far I just don’t understand. Why would an empath teacher with something valuable to offer… have to use the terms I’ve developed… copyrighted as an author and trademarked with the U.S. Patent and Trademark Office? Can’t these “experts” find their own names for what they do?
Why Discuss Fixes at All?
Usually I don’t, of course. What keeps me busy? (And happy!) Teaching Empath Empowerment®. Including the online workshops developed last year, leading off with the Free Intro.
But yesterday we had pretty intense comment exchanges at our Cool Contest. Exchanges about progressing as an empath.
It bothered me, the intensity of those exchanges. Especially at a lighthearted contest that had nothing to do with empath skills.
Unusual situations call for unusual fixes. So I’m moving things around, using my Blog Monitor superpowers. Appending here some of the empath discussion, removing it from the contest. Deleting other bits. Slightly editing a lovely comment from GILLIAN.
When quoting, I won’t be changing a word, just adding headings to convey the flow of comments. This sequence began with the topic of showing vulnerability.
From Blog-Buddy JILL
No one has marriage problems, nobody abused alcohol or drugs.
Except, it’s not true. If one does a skilled empath merge (20 minutes,I promise, I’ve read the Master Empath!), one feels their sadness and hopelessness.
I try now to be more careful about whom I skilled merge with. I’ve made mistakes in selecting people!!
Or at least one does if they are an emotional and spiritual empath like me.
From Empath Coach Rose
JILL, you’ve written about being a skilled empath in a way that makes it obvious that, yes, you’ve read “The Master Empath.”
Also, hopefully, you’ve also read the sequence of <a href=”http://rose-rosetree.com/ChooseRightEmpathBookForYou.pdf” title=”empath, empath aura, skilled empath merge, empaths, empath coach” target=”_blank” rel=”nofollow”>three other books</a> in that series which precede that Book #4.
Hope you don’t mind if I make a few teaching points for all you empaths reading here.[Earlier] you referred to yourself as an “emotional or spiritual empath.” To this Empath Coach, that’s misleading — and reminds me of help offered to empaths where they’re taught to vaguely refer to themselves as “An emotional empath” (554,000 hits on Google) or “An intuitive empath.” (434,000 hits on Google, and this for a misleading term that probably hurts empaths more than it helps them.)
As you may know from “Become The Most Important Person in the Room,” and even more from “The Empowered Empath — Quick & Easy” and ha ha! even more from “The Empowered Empath: Owning, Embracing and Managing Your Special Gifts — naming and understanding your gifts correctly matters enormously.
Better Names For Emotional and Spiritual Gifts
In contrast to mushing together emotional or spiritual empath gifts, why not be more precise? If youve studied Empath Empowerment®, you know that each of the following counts as a distinctive gift!
* Emotional Oneness (Just counted 5 real hits on Google)
* Emotional Intuition (Just counted 0 real hits on Google)
* Spiritual Oneness (Just counted 6 real hits on Google)
* Spiritual Intuition (Just counted 0 real hits on Google)
Note: These Google searches also turned up what Id consider unhelpful articles, like Empathy Leads to Telepathy. And Empaths The Spiritual Empathy Residing Within Old Souls.
A Popular Empath Fix Is Oversimplified Naming of Gifts
So, if you feel the need to define yourself in terms of your empath gifts, at least name it right. ?
Thereby detracting from the massive confusion in popular conversations about being an empath.
Personally, I dont find it helpful to mention your particular empath gifts in public. (Unless youre teaching people as an Empath Coach and wish to give a personal illustration. Or youre in a workshop or doing a confidential, personal session with me of Empath Empowerment®.)
Skilled Empath Merges Are About Insights. Not Your Gifts.
Because the point of doing a Skilled Empath Merge is not to emphasize how you receive perceptions. For example, while doing a Skilled Empath Merge you might notice that Joe feels sad and empty and, quite possibly, this information comes to you through any of the following empath gifts. (In other words, none of which are the previously-mentioned emotionally- or spiritually-based empath gifts.)
* Physical Intuition (0 real hits on Google)
* Physical Oneness (5 real hits on Google)
* Intellectual Empath Ability (1 real hit on Google)
* Empath Talent with Astral Beings (1 real hit on Google)
* Molecular Empath Ability (11 real hits on Google)
Well, really, who cares which gifts were at work in providing the information? What counts is the insight, right?
One Final Suggestion
Wow, you’ve read all the way down to here? Thank you.
Please don’t mix together different ways to help yourself as an empath. At least if you’re learning Empath Empowerment.
Add tips and tricks and fixes all you like, otherwise.
But if you are becoming a Skilled Empath or doing Skilled Empath Merge… What won’t help? Adding in things that sound good.
Give Empath Empowerment a chance. And even learn Skilled Empath Merge, if you like. Learning it properly. Transforming life! And that’s the point.