Understand Forgiveness ENERGETICALLY. Because…
Has somebody wronged you? Ha, how many somebodies have wronged you? That might be the better question.
Maybe you’ve learned the hard way how hard it can be to let go. And stop replaying the past. Are forgiveness practices really the cure?
Understand Forgiveness ENERGETICALLY
Because otherwise what you’re trying isn’t just hard.
Probably it’s unproductive.
Today I’ll share a controversial view. Despite some very, very sweet books that aim to help a person forgive. And ideas like the inspiring proverb, “To err is human. To forgive, Divine.”
Problem is, Blog-Buddies, we are human. Pretending otherwise won’t heal us.
Granted, trying for forgiveness rather than resentment… Obviously that’s preferable.
- But what are we supposed to do when the memories creep back in?
- And we can’t stop replaying them.
- Nor can we stop wanting to get even.
- Or change the past.
- Or change ourselves.
What then? Do we just blame ourselves for not praying hard enough? Get therapy until we emerge flawless? And meanwhile scold ourselves for “resisting forgiveness”?
Resisting Forgiveness? Maybe That’s Not the Problem at All.
Easy for me to say. Well, yes. Since I’ve had many an RES client who used to struggled with “resisting forgiveness”? By now, they’ve stopped struggling. Started breathing freer and living juicier.
Understandably, what’s confusing? When Joe can’t forgive his ex. Then his therapist might blame it on a problem with resistance.
Such a sad mistake!
To me, one of the saddest problems with therapy happens when a client like Joe… Sit for hours in the therapist’s office… paying for conversations about why he isn’t progressing. Is Joe more messed up than he thought?
Equally sad is how a talented, well trained therapist, bashes her head against walls.
Only these aren’t real walls. Nor are they metaphors. They are cords of attachment! Leaving the therapist powerless to do a thing. It takes a different kind of expert to remove cords of attachment in a quality way.
You’ve Heard about Cords of Attachment, Right?
No worries if you haven’t. And not your fault if the quality of “information” you received in the past… wasn’t great.
Fortunately you’ve landed at the blog of the only American who has trademarked a system for cutting cords of attachment. Surely not the only system that works. But it does work.
It’s a skill that you can learn for self-healing. Accelerating your personal growth. Forgiveness included.
Although before you begin learning, you might wish to experience a personal session. Could be, some other kind of energetic STUFF is a bigger factor for you right now. Cutting cords of attachment — that’s one of many, many possible “healing centerpieces.” An RES expert can tell.
Nonetheless, for the rest of this article, I’ll be discussing these energetic cords. And how removing them is a great skill for self-healing. Especially if you keep struggling with forgiveness.
To Understand Forgiveness ENERGETICALLY
Here’s a Question for You…
Don’t forgiveness practices soften cords of attachment in some way?
Of course, many of us have done forgiveness practices.Of course there was benefit. Maybe even miraculous answers to prayers. Or healing insights. Perhaps cumulative benefits from working with a skilled therapist.
But none of this touched your cords of attachment. Not the tiniest bit. Sorry, but it’s true.
Sharing this fact of energy healing, I mean no disrespect. Towards the power of prayer, the power of now, the power of forgiveness, even the power of face reading.
(Threw in that last one to see if your eyes have begun to glaze over. I’m trying to give you a thorough discussion here, Blog-Buddies. I’m aware my blog articles are longer than most. Of course, I also have ultra-intelligent Blog-Buddies here at “Deeper Perception Made Practical.” 🙂 )
Joe could pray for help with forgiving Gladys, his ex. Joe could do a Catholic novena. He could perform a Hindu yagya. Or he could work on his issues with a therapist for 20 years.
That still won’t wash his car. Or brush his teeth. Or cut his cord of attachment to Gladys.
Different aspects of life, such as flossing your teeth, demand skills. Namely, effort that will be effective.
Understand Forgiveness ENERGETICALLY And You Gain Clarity
What does it take to get results with forgiveness? Position your effort and skills right where the problem exists.
Call it ingenious. Or call it sad. But therapy teaches patients how to repackage the distress from a cord of attachment. Maybe provide the equivalent of gift wrap and perky little bows.
But this article reminds you of a practical alternative.
After cutting his cord of attachment to Gladys, hello! Joe can go free energetically. Forgiveness accomplished.
How Might True Forgiveness Change Your Life?
Maybe you have wondered. One possibility is this:
Granted, you will always remember whatever Joe did to you. Or didn’t do. However, you stop dwelling on it.
Unless Joe’s name comes up in conversation, or you see his photo, you just think about him any more.
With forgiveness, you will have a new freedom regarding your relationship with Joe. You might decide to give him a new chance. Alternatively, you might decide to end the relationship.
Possibilities become clearer. Due to energetic freedom from inside. Allowing you to see reality more clearly.
Yes, You Just Read a Practical Definition of Forgiveness
By all means, try to achieve that through forgiveness practices. Maybe through some of those excellent books. How wonderful!
But don’t blame yourself if these traditional resources don’t get there.
Might I mention? RES clients and students gain forgiveness. Quite quickly and easily. Because this is what happens when you cut a cord of attachment. Removing the energetic cause of “Forgiveness Seems Impossible.”
Sometimes there is, actually, more than one energetic cause of distress. Very often, a client will tell me something like this: “I just know I have a block keeping me from x,y,z.” And then, after doing some Skilled Empath Merge (in-depth aura reading of a certain kind), I will break it to Gladys. “You may have oversimplified just a bit.”
Then it’s time for some follow-up RES sessions. Because many kinds of STUFF in your aura can make forgiveness hard. Not just cords of attachment. (Click here for a reminder of how many different types of RES Energy HEALING might be best suited to your particular aura. For targeted, effective STUFF removal.)
We humans love to oversimplify. “One problem.” or “One block.” or “One naughty person.” Or “The sweetness of forgiveness can remove all experiences of life that are different: sour, bitter, salty, pungent, or umami.”
My vision for emotional growth in The Age of Awakening does not depend on oversimplifying. Merely effective energy healing, one bit of STUFF at a time.