Attractiveness, sexiness, beauty, handsomeness. For so many reasons you might like or dislike somebody’s looks.
Partly, I’m dedicating today’s blog post to the two different Blog-Buddies. Each one noticed a throwaway comment I couldn’t resist making. Over when researching the aura of “handsome Javier Bardem.”
Namely: I may as well admit this right here, Blog-Buddies… Personally I don’t consider this man to be either handsome or attractive.
And I invited you folks to ask my why not. Both CONSTANCE and DIANA said yes to that opportunity.
So, okay, I’ll answer. Not to overshare but maybe to start you’all sharing about what you consider attractive.
Partly, I’m dedicating today’s blog post to Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. The holiday in his name doesn’t happen until Jan. 21st. But of course he comes to mind in this context. I’ll be getting to that…
And for heaven’s sake, let’s consider your preferences. Not just mine. (Feel free to COMMENT accordingly.)
Attractiveness, Sexiness, Beauty, Handsomeness & Demographics
You might be attracted to a movie star, or find that person sexy, due to:
- “Race” — increasingly, so-called race is a myth in our melting pot world.
- Class or wealth markers — showing in teeth, grooming. Also, of course, clothing choices scream social, social, social.
Is that a factor for me? Such as when beholding the splendor of Javier Bardem (photographed at any age)? Not really.
Attractiveness, Sexiness, Beauty, Handsomeness & Favorite Colors
Maybe you only like brown hair. Blonde hair. Red hair. Blue hair.
Same with eye color. Many folks have a definite preference. As in the cliche, “Tall, dark, and handsome.”
Javier belongs to that group, by association.
Don’t we often group together something else physical plus a color something and respond to that? Like “Young + dark = good-looking”? etc.
Except I really don’t. Personally, my gut reaction has always been, “Who cares?”
Just about every variation on the artist’s palette for humans can appeal to me.
Attractiveness, Sexiness, Beauty, Handsomeness & Sexual Characteristics.
Is the person of interest well shaped? Especially as the kind of male or female or whatever person we prefer?
Might certain physical parts matter a great deal to you?
Maybe part of Bardem’s appeal is his heavy beard, his bushy eyebrows, the lavish supply of hair on his head.
Not to me, though. Because when I get an actor-crush, or consider an actress gorgeous, it’s not because I plan to have children together.
So when I find a person attractive, it’s got to be due to something(s) quite different.
Attractiveness, Sexiness, Beauty, Handsomeness. Deeper Perception Might Count. Sometimes.
Have I sometimes used Technique Time to research a celeb? Definitely. Yesterday, for instance.
Frankly, though, it’s rare for me to like somebody and then find that person’s aura a grave disappointment.
- People with excellent Stage 3 Energetic Literacy
- Also wind up getting superb Stage 1 Energetic Literacy
- Whereas people who just depend upon Stage 1 Energetic Literacy. (And are proud of their prowess.) Tend to over-estimate the accuracy of what they find. (To put it politely.)
For inspiration, consider RES Practitioner ISABELLA CATES. Like other RES Experts, sometimes she just astounds me with her ultra-perceptive comments. Such as her observations about a renowned opera singer in Comments 19-20, here.
Moreover, ISABELLA wasn’t using Technique Time. She’s just developed such wisdom through Deeper Perception! Like her, you can develop Aura Reading Skills and/or Empath Empowerment® Skills. Automatically, you’ll become amazingly accurate as a judge of character.
As the founder of RES, I might have a bit of that working on my behalf as well. Like KYLIE’S comment at yesterday’s blog post: “Even in the photo of him as a young man, he looks detached and blasé, something I don’t find attractive.”
Attractiveness, Sexiness, Beauty, Handsomeness. What I Value, Humanly.
In order for me to find someone attractive, I’ll notice qualities and abilities that I value in people. Like these:
- Kindness towards others
- Thoughtfulness towards others
- Interest in personal growth
- Caring about God
- Intelligence — even better, also wisdom
- Sense of humor
With all respect to Javier Bardem and his legion of fans… From the first time I’ve seen him… Using just Stage 1 Energetic Literacy, I didn’t notice a single one of these qualities.
So why would I find him attractive?
Attractiveness, Sexiness, Beauty, Handsomeness. Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. Said It Best
I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin, but by the content of their character.
You see, Blog-Buddies, I also have a dream. That all of us will one day live in a world where we can see through illusions. And when encountering other people, we’ll be interested in who they are. How they grow. What they care about and why. Not just their cute little animal bodies.
And good character is possible for anyone. So many people today live that way. Including many who are living in spiritual shutdown. Or spiritual addiction. Note: To get to the best part of that second link, scroll down to the turquoise box.)
Altogether, the people who interest me most are taking advantage of human potential in this new Age of Awakening. And they won’t let anything stop them, as they choose personal growth + spiritual awakening. Aiming to be of service to others, as well as actualizing themselves.
Does that attract me? For sure!