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Conflict’s Deeper Reasons. Amazing Aura Reading Research, ISABELLA CATES

Conflict's Deeper Reasons

Conflict’s Deeper Reasons. This guest post by RES Practitioner ISABELLA CATES is the single most impressive, poignant aura reading article I’ve ever seen.

Conflict’s Deeper Reasons. Today’s guest post comes from RES Practitioner ISABELLA CATES. Generously she shares her latest research. This time, she’ll reveal hidden reasons why people don’t always get along.

What a bold experiment she’s done, researching auras of people in everyday life! Then sharing it with us. Thus, reminding us all how immensely-intensely aura reading can help us with personal growth.

First of all, thank you so much, ISABELLA! What, 10 years ago? Back in the day, you were just starting to develop energetic literacy. Fast-forward and now you’re completely fluent. Even using skills beyond Stage 3 Energetic Literacy.

Unexpected Treat Time!

Part of the Treat? Isabella Is Giving Us a Sample of

Very Advanced Energetic Literacy Research

Personally, I’ve never done anything this complex before. So let’s give due credit to ISABELLA.

Not only did she research Energetic Holograms of herself and others.

Technically, she chose five different incidents, mostly within one class.

Although she always tells you about the same one of her chakra databanks, why does it change so much?

  1. Because every single chakra databank changes minute by minute.
  2. Regarding size and quality, it changes.
  3. Although the deepest part, a life-long, Divine-level gift of the soul doesn’t change.
  4. Interesting to consider, every one of her chakra databanks — and yours — has it. Imagine that, a glorious spiritual gift, distinctively individual!

Indirectly, by doing this highly complex research, RES Practitioner ISABELLA reveals something very special, I think:

How totally effortless and fluent it can be, reading auras!

Conflict’s Deeper Reasons. Aura Reading Can Reveal Them

Inspired by Rose’s recent post, “Why Can’t People Simply Get Along?”… I’ve decided to share some aura research I did recently.

Neither auras of biological family, nor auras of Family of Choice. But reading auras of casual acquaintances in an art class I was taking.

After a few weeks of class, I’d accumulated so much curiosity about these people. Some of them nice. Some odd. And some mysterious!

So one day, I used some advanced aura reading skills to pull up Energetic Holograms. (As described in this YouTube video I just linked to.)

Just for fun, I choose to research a series of five Energetic Holograms to research. Though it was a self-selected group of adults taking an art class, surprise! So much diversity showed in their consciousness. Quite an interesting cross-section of a little pocket of humanity!

I took the art class to add enjoyment to life, and learn skills. In the end, the class was wonderful. But what was the most joyful and enjoyable part of it all?

  • Simply researching these energetic holograms
  • And now sharing them with you.

I hope you enjoy. Please comment below. What does this writing stir within you :)?

Conflict’s Deeper Reasons. Aura Reading Mike

Notable Human Moment

During practice time, I asked the teacher, “Mike,” to explain something. A look crossed his face that I interpreted as extreme disgust, maybe even unmasked hatred.

Reading Mike’s Aura

Root Chakra Databank for Presence in the Room

Out to the moon. Extreme spiritual addiction.

Personally, primarily interested in sex. Especially seeking more frequent and more extreme sexual experiences involving cruelty. (Though he wouldn’t be likely to label it as such.)

Reading Isabella’s Aura

Root Chakra Databank for Presence in the Room

Flatlines, for this brief moment.

“Eek!” Shocked and cringing inside. It’s not pleasant to be around this kind of person.

Also laughing inside, related to how I personally experience Enlightenment. (BTW, I just gave you a link to another of Rose’s YouTube videos.)

Conflict’s Deeper Reasons. Aura Reading Janice

Notable Human Moment

Janice, a beginner, talks about what we’re doing in ridiculously fancy terminology.

Maybe to make herself seem more accomplished? It’s not the first time she’s done this. I cringe.

Reading Janice’s Aura

Root Chakra Databank for Presence in the Room

49 feet.

“Was that an okay thing to say?”

Noticing, and worried about, other people’s reactions to her. She is young, early twenties, and is piecing together a social identity.

Add to this that she is not exactly human, in the vein of Mark Zuckerberg or Russell Brand. Thus, human socializing is very different for her.

Rather than having a lot of emotional caring in her relationships (emotions are only just beginning to seem really real to her), she is specializing now in in something different: Learning how to appear like a somewhat normal-seeming human: Trying things out socially, gauging other people’s reactions to her, and adjusting.

By the way, it doesn’t seem like there is anything wrong or nefarious or weird about Janice or her life. Unlike extreme spiritual addiction or other arrangements that involve astral beings, this is the honorable incarnation of one soul in one body. Really she seems quite sweet to me.

On that note, let’s check out her…

Third Eye Chakra Databank for Connection to Spiritual Source

Very large.

A sweet connection! Janice receives compassionate support from God as she makes her innumerable social attempts. Each one is a spiritual triumphs.

Reading Isabella’s Aura

Root Chakra Databank for Presence in the Room

40 feet.

Slightly stunned and pained at Janice’s social awkwardness.

This chakra databank also shows how much acceptance has developed around a lifelong challenge for me: Being around people I really want to help, and really could help, but actually not being able to help them.

Conflict’s Deeper Reasons. Aura Reading Ryan

Notable Human Moment

I overhear “Ryan,” who is sitting next to me, telling others that he is not furloughed. Because he runs his own business, a tech start-up.

This time, I’ll read my own aura first.

Reading Isabella’s Aura

Root Chakra Databank for Presence in the Room

90 feet

Enjoying making the art I’m making. Also interested in conversation I’m overhearing.

In this moment, I particularly interested in how his comment activates social status awareness for the group. Wondering if he’s intentionally bragging or not.

Reading Ryan’s Aura

Root Chakra Databank for Presence in the Room

Very large.

Pride in himself. He’s not really bragging, or trying to make others feel lower than him.

He’s not all that aware of other people in the first place!

How he feels about himself is way more important to him than how other people feel about him. Or what they feel or think or do in general. (Essentially, he hardly notices other people, anyway.)

Not a bad guy, just not exactly sensitive.

Third Eye Chakra Databank for Connection to Spiritual Source


“As long as I keep winning, I feel connected to God.”

Conflict’s Deeper Reasons. Aura Reading Gracia

Notable Human Moment

Gracia, the young woman who sits across from me, makes a happy comment to me about some of her artwork.

Always she has seemed exceptionally spacey to me. And pleased with herself.

Now I can use some Technique Time to research. What is going on with her?

Have I just become supppper judgmental of super-cool people? 😉

Reading Gracia’s Aura

Root Chakra Databank for Presence in the Room

Out to the moon. Early stages of extreme spiritual addiction.

Dwelling in a sort of honeymoon period of this consciousness lifestyle.

So a kind of delight predominates, and Gracia’s sense of self feels sparkly.

Like, “I’m bigger now!!!”

It’s as if childhood promises of being special, from TV programs or parents, have finally come true.

Finally? She is young, probably early 20s.

Reading Isabella’s Aura

Root Chakra Databank for Presence in the Room

90 miles.

Responding to Grace’s auric modeling. Having an experience that has become familiar: the ridiculous actually being serious.

Part of all of our lives the past few years, yes?

I’ll end on a lovely note of hope, with the story of Liam.

Conflict’s Deeper Reasons. Aura Reading Liam

Notable Human Moment

Liam says hi to me, as we’ve unexpectedly bumped into each other. (It’s not our usual class time).

Reading Liam’s Aura

Root Chakra Databank for Presence in the Room

90 feet.

Soooo excited to see me. Happier mood than usual. Buoyant, full of jovial laughter.

Third Eye Chakra Databank for Connection to Spiritual Source

Very large. Doing much better than usual.

“This is the only person I know in Enlightenment. She reminds me of what is possible.”

Drinking it in, his subconscious mind and Divine self are observing keenly.

Like pretty much everyone else, at the moment life is complicated for Liam. But he keeps going. Although the auric modeling parade in his life? Subconsciously, this often discourages him.

Being around someone in Enlightenment, in the background, his Divine self is taking advantage of the moment. In this chakra databank, he’s doing what look to me like…

  • A series of rapid, complicated, joyful backflips
  • While praying.
  • Asana-prayers, maybe? Yogic backflips?
  • All the while, telling God, “This is what I want!!!”

Reading Isabella’s Aura

Root Chakra Databank for Presence in the Room

Out to the moon (related to hope)

Joyful, warm-hearted hope that Liam and I could share a moment of kindness.

Generally, ready to have warm conversations with anyone who can connect in a loving way. Connect in what seems to me to be a normal way.

Compassionately though, I’m aware how few many people are available to appreciate this. Currently, anyway.

Again, joyful humor is my primary way of loving life at this time.

In Conclusion

Though there are so many conclusions I could draw… And so many ways I could (and do) find this research meaningful… I’m far more interested in what you all have to say this time.

Please tell me what parts stood out to you. Which conclusions have you drawn about your own life?

That way we can add on to our wisdom about enjoying life, now, as it is. Instead of waiting for perfection… either in ourselves or in others.

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  1. 1
    Isabella Cates says:

    Thank you, Rose!

    For me, life feels so much more normal when I can do research like this. And though you call it “remarkably complex,” it was the easiest thing in the world to do.

  2. 2
    Isabella Cates says:

    You call it fluency here. I really think I am better at speaking this language than I am English. 🙂

  3. 3
    Isabella Cates says:

    And, like Ryan (sort of), I don’t say that to brag! I say it just because it’s true, and I hope to inspire readers to start or keep aura reading.

    There is so much we can know.

  4. 4
    Liane says:

    Wow, Isabella!!

    You’ve made what I didn’t even know I could think about, real. The expansions and contractions of auras, the reasons why, a whole story going on in the background of a moment in the life.

  5. 5
    Liane says:

    A single moment so full of telling information boggles the mind… not in a confusing sort of way.

  6. 6
    Liane says:

    You made sort of a play by play come to life in what really goes on behind the scenes.

    The truth of every one we meet or see resides in our auras. The clarity about the effects of these auric interactions leaves me amazed.

  7. 7
    Liane says:

    My favorite line — “This is the only person I know in Enlightenment. She reminds me of what is possible.”

    Just wow.

  8. 8
    Isabella Cates says:

    And thank you, Rose, for teaching me, understanding me, and appreciating me.

  9. 9
    Chloe says:

    What an enjoyable read Isabella! I really enjoyed this and can appreciate there is so much going on we don’t see in our interactions with others (there are no thought bubble over their heads), but we can learn and know through energetic literacy.

    I really liked Janice and Liam’s vignettes. How interesting what was going on.

  10. 10
    Living on Earth says:

    Such a beautiful read Isabella. Auric Modeling is so fascinating. Shows how intracate, complex life can be with many different layers to it. Greatly effected by it but mostly unaware of its existence.

    Yet, on the surface level potential to be as simple as it can be. Thank you for sharing it with us!

  11. 11
    Brittany says:

    That wonderful hope shining through! Liam’s soul doing back flips. To know that you, me, everyone on the path to or already in Enlightenment…we do this for some people. What a sacred honor.

    Very insightful, Isabella. Your awe-worthy skill shines through here (yet again) and I admire you very much. Thanks for sharing!

  12. 12
    Kylie says:

    I loved this post Isabella, especially this part: “This chakra databank also shows how much acceptance has developed around a lifelong challenge for me: Being around people I really want to help, and really could help, but actually not being able to help them.”

    I know what that feels like. You help so much, in your professional work and through your auric modeling. But, it’s true…there are so many people you (or I) just can’t help.

  13. 13
    Kylie says:

    I also loved the part about Liam’s soul doing back flips. I feel like doing back flips myself when I encounter someone whose auric modeling inspires.

  14. 14
    Kylie says:

    And, it is interesting what a variety of people participated in that one class.

    I wonder about my ESL students all the time. It would be very exciting to one day learn the advanced skill of pulling out energetic holograms.

  15. 15
    Liane says:

    This helps me see more clearly the bigger picture as a whole.

    Living on the surface of life while interacting with people is one part of what helps me simply get along. Understanding what’s happening on a deeper level is another piece of the puzzle. (not that I’m going to be over-thinking this in daily life)

  16. 16
    Liane says:

    This will be especially helpful while in the vicinity of certain people and all I want to do is pump the brakes.

    I don’t have to say wait a minute while I read your aura, all I have to do is trust and move on.

  17. 17
    Liane says:

    Back in the day I would have put some effort forcing some sort of proof that I’m worthy to be a friend or acquaintance.

    Now I realize how icky that must’ve been for the other person to experience, plus it is the reverse simply getting along.

  18. 18
    Liane says:

    Thank you Rose and Isabella for the blog posts on this topic. They have widened my perspective and given me a few aha’s.

  19. 19
    Leo Watts says:

    Bravo! What an excellent guest post.

    Congratulations. I know I can certainly relate to a lot of what you’ve written about.

  20. 20
    Leo Watts says:

    Beyond that, I too find using technique time to research people from my day to day life endlessly fascinating.

    As it relates to getting along with others, sometimes we become part of someone’s drama or power struggle, and it has little to do with us, but is more reflection of whatever the heck is going on with them at that moment in their life.

  21. 21
    Lindsey says:

    I love this post Isabella! Thank you!

    It’s so exciting to me that reading energetic holograms like you have and share here is even possible! I am such a fan of Rose’s abilities and now yours too! Awesome, I am so inspired to learn this skill too. Wow!

  22. 22
    Lindsey says:

    The information about your encounter with Liam is soooooo sweet and heartwarming.

    It really shows me yet again how impactful someone who is in Enlightenment is on another person in just a single moment of time!

  23. 23
    Lindsey says:

    Also, the part of your reading with awkward Janice, where you share, “Being around people I really want to help, and really could help, but actually not being able to help them.”

    This really helps me accept that I can help others just by being myself if that is all the situation calls for.

  24. 24
    Lindsey says:

    The other readings you shared were real eye openers for me also, especially, showing how some people today are choosing a life of extreme spiritual addiction and how nuanced it can appear in both the impact on another’s Aura and in objective reality through their human behaviors and interactions with other people (like us blog-buddies individually and personally)!

  25. 25
    Lindsey says:

    Yikes! It is so important to have this fluency in Energetic Literacy to be able to find out what is really happening with other people.

    It can really help me in soooooo many ways, like keep my distance from someone like creepy Mike or have a longer conversation with sweet Liam or awkward Janice. 🙂

  26. 26
    Lindsey says:

    Thank you both Isabella (my favorite girls name in the world btw) and Rose (my favorite scent, flower and teacher)!

  27. 27
    Steve says:

    Excellent job, Isabella. I was both inspired and moved by your article.

    Like some others who have commented here, I’m in Enlightenment. My biggest takeaway was to have more compassion with what we go through. Living in Enlightenment isn’t as easy as I used to think.

  28. 28
    Steve says:

    You described interactions with 5 people. With 4 of them pretty messed up, or extremely messed up.

    Energetically and subconsciously, this impacted you. Although, typically for somebody in Enlightenment, you recovered fast. This does match my experience. In the background, it takes a lot of guts to live in this world as it is right now. For anyone. But maybe most, it’s hard for those of us in Enlightenment.

  29. 29
    Isabella Cates says:

    Thank you soooo much to everyone for your comments.

    If we were all together in energetic real time, all of our auras (and all the holograms we stored) would glow with even more sacred beauty.

  30. 30
    Living on Earth says:

    Hi Steve,

    Your comments #27 and 28. I think I understand what you mean. I’d be really interested in hearing more examples to those challenges you encounter being in Enlightenment and living in today’s world.

  31. 31
    Emily Turner says:

    This is so awesome Isabella! I didn’t think I could want to learn these skills even more than I already did!

  32. 32
    Emily Turner says:

    It really brings home how aura reading and energetic literacy can be such a compassion awakener.

    For others like the sweet Janice, and for ourselves, recognising that our own reactions of disgust and annoyance at some people we meet can be perfectly appropriate and valid.

  33. 33
    Steve says:

    Thanks for asking, Living on Earth.

    Don’t get me wrong about the joy and honor of living in Enlightenment. For example, I have a deep-down serenity. In years past, I wouldn’t have dared to even dream of having that.

  34. 34
    Steve says:

    The truth about people is clear to me. Since I’ve developed Stage 3 Energetic Literacy, I can do that in Technique Time. This helps a lot.

    If I am going somewhere new, like going out with a new friend, I’ll read certain chakra databanks before I leave home. Then I’ll read them again, soon as I get home. A fine use of Technique Time. And it tells me a lot about what was going on subconsciously, energetically. You know, the impact of auric modeling.

  35. 35
    Steve says:

    Usually, though, I’m just livin’. And this means I don’t stop to assess or evaluate “How is this person doing?”

    It registers, though. Deep inside of me, I can tell Person A is a mess, Person B is even messier, and so on. Incidents might stick in my mind like “Uh-oh.” Kind of like Isabella’s story.

  36. 36
    Steve says:

    This doesn’t hurt me. More like it saddens me.

    I’m okay. Still. I guess you could say that I’m deep down joyful in Enlightenment. Yet my compassion is much stronger.

  37. 37
    Steve says:

    I don’t live in a bubble of bliss, like people I’ve known in Traditional Enlightenment.

    And I also don’t live in a bubble of personal ego. I’m just livin’. Only I see more. If that makes sense.

  38. 38
    Kylie says:

    Just enjoyed rereading this, and all of the insightful comments.

    Steve, your comments remind me that I forgot to comment on this part of Isabella’s post “Generally, ready to have warm conversations with anyone who can connect in a loving way. Connect in what seems to me to be a normal way. Compassionately though, I’m aware how few people are available to appreciate this. Currently, anyway.”

  39. 39
    Kylie says:

    It is so rare to meet people who are able to connect in a loving way.

    And, the impact on my aura of having so many interactions with people who are pretty messed up, does take a toll.

  40. 40
    Kylie says:

    It is the hardest part about my job for me, as someone who works with the public–daily interactions with so many people who are deeply messed up, and having that impact that you describe so well Isabella.

    It is also true that being in enlightenment, I recover fast. But still it is tough.

  41. 41

    All this reminds me of something I wrote about in the early part of my memoir, “Bigger than All the Night Sky.” If you’ve read that, you may remember the part early on, about how I would throw my rattle, aiming to spread joy.

    Not that I was in Enlightenment yet. That wouldn’t happen for decades. But I was previewing what I would be doing now, throwing out my rattle. Quickly throwing off rejections or outright nasty reactions. Prizing the people who would respond well, so that together we could wake up a little more joy.

  42. 42
    Living on Earth says:

    Wow, Steve thanks so much for responding!

    I can certainly relate to your story. Especially where you mentioned “The truth about people is clear to me” and how it registers and you see more.

  43. 43
    Living on Earth says:

    Before I used to second guess myself a lot and be so hard on myself for feeling ” strongly put off” by some people for no apparent reason.

    That’s where the beauty of Stage 3 Energetic Literacy comes in. I think you mentioned it as well…compassion towards myself is much stronger now too as it is for others.

  44. 44
    Living on Earth says:

    Hearing all your stories Blog Buddies, it feels so good to know that I’m not alone “being like this” out in the world.

  45. 45
    Living on Earth says:

    Kylie, your comment #39.

    So well put. Its pretty evident to me that energy hygiene is just as important even when in Enlightenment.

  46. 46
    Living on Earth says:

    That wanting and compassion to help others can be so overwhelmingly strong.

    But I realize again and again that just because I’m in Enlightenment, it doesn’t mean I get to be the Martyr.

  47. 47
    Living on Earth says:

    Just like Rose throwing out her rattle and our Auric Modeling in itself can be a service to others as a gentle wake up call.

    And that’s beautifully enough for all involved.

  48. 48

    So much truth is emerging here, I’m absolutely thrilled. Thanks so much to everyone who has been participating so far, because this is such an honest conversation about what it’s like to deal with people around you now.

    Problems that exist whether you’re in Enlightenment or not!

  49. 49

    Let me ask you’ all a question. It’s a bit complex, so I’ll lead into it one chunk at a time:

    #1. One of the (so many) interesting aspects of ISABELLA CATES’ guest post is how badly 4 out of 5 people were doing in their consciousness and auras.

  50. 50

    #2. Beyond that, 2 out of 5 were in extreme spiritual addiction.

    #3. And 1 out of the 5 was very troubled sexually. (A bit reminiscent of our recent blog posts, Porn Farewell, How RES Can Help. And also Pornography News Flash. )

  51. 51

    #4. Only one of these problems receives much publicity, the pornography problem.

    Although much of the truth about the destructiveness of porn is counterbalanced with the huge moneymaking industry, the popularity of free porn on the internet, and all the users who keep defending their lifestyle as “healthy” and “free” and “normal.”

  52. 52

    #5. As for all the people among us who live in spiritual addiction, spiritual shutdown, or even extreme spiritual addiction, when’s the last time you heard news coverage about the billions of human beings who have these hidden problems?

    Hidden as long as folks live with energetic illiteracy, a weakness that doesn’t have to be, since energetic literacy is really, really important to develop now that we’re living in The Age of Awakening.

  53. 53

    Ah, so my question, Blog-Buddies. You happen to know about these problems. You may not be an RES Expert. Maybe you’re just a casual lurker at my blog.

    Yet you know that I’m no conspiracy theorist, and I only point out the consciousness problems because of a commitment to doing my job! Helping to bring energetic literacy, accountability, and effective energy healing into this world!

  54. 54

    So, what is it like for you, knowing about these problems yet receiving little validation outside this blog and the informal RES community?

    What do you do, when so many people are inwardly crippled (yet most of them can fully recover), causing fairly bizarre behavior, yet most folks at work or in your social circles… don’t seem to notice a thing?

  55. 55
    Living on Earth says:

    It’s like being the alive one living in a zombie land.

    On the surface level, I’ve learned to pick my battles.

  56. 56
    Living on Earth says:

    Otherwise, most are not even aware that they’re spaced out and acting very strange.

    Trying to have a logical conversation with someone who is in a trance like state amplified with amnesia of their behaviour is so exhausting.

  57. 57
    Living on Earth says:

    So I stopped trying to make them understand or explain it logically.

    For my own sanity and energy hygiene, picking my battles and just living my own truth is the best solution I can find. I no longer seek validation outside of the RES community.

  58. 58
    Lindsey says:

    Good question Rose (#54).

    I find validation for me comes mainly internally, from reading auras the RES way and the balanced way of living as advised in your book, The New Strong, aside from RES Mentoring SEAH and Healing sessions and from others here commenting on your blog.

  59. 59
    Lindsey says:

    I do notice so many people are speaking the language of subjective reality (energies, emotions, etc.) nowadays more than just a few years ago, mainly because I AM paying more attention to objective reality and saying and doing things to get what I want and need more of in my daily interactions with people.

  60. 60
    Lindsey says:

    Dear Rose, as you know, I have had to learn this skill in recent years as well, so I have developed quite a lot of compassion for those who seem to be struggling with balancing their human lives.

    I was struggling myself not too long ago because I didn’t know what I know now and am still learning how to live this new way.

  61. 61
    Lindsey says:

    So, for me, it is very important, while interacting with someone a bit “off” or really floaty, to speak in the language of and ask direct questions about objective reality.

  62. 62
    Lindsey says:

    I find this is really helpful for me to deal with the public no matter who they are.

    I have seen some spaced out people along my daily travels, but I have witnessed even the flghtiest person responding in a normal grounded way when I am asking them a question about or to do something in objective reality.

  63. 63
    Lindsey says:

    So, not only is auric modeling doing some beautiful things, but how I move and speaking in this world can be even more important to helping and coping with other people.

    I believe it does get easier as I go an reaffirm living by the simple guidelines of The New Strong.

  64. 64
    Lindsey says:

    I am grateful everyday for this! Thank you Rose and thank you blog buddies for who you are and all you do to live this way…it does catch on and it does help.

  65. 65
    Jnana says:

    This was a particularly enjoyable aura reading.

  66. 66
    Jean says:

    Thank you Rose, Isabella – and all who commented.

    As I have stated in the past – the RES community is a huge sustainer for this blog buddy.

  67. 67
    Jean says:

    Steve your comments 27 and 28 were imho spot on.

    Yes enlightenment helps. Recovery is faster.

  68. 68
    Jean says:

    However as Kylie says in her comment 40 it is still tough.

    Part of my recent decision to adopt a second cat was around the sheer difficulty in meeting folks who are able to connect in a loving way.

  69. 69
    Jean says:

    Connecting in such a way often seems easier for my feline friends!

    That being said I make a point to value my interactions with both people and cats – so as to maintain a healthy balance 😉

  70. 70
    Isabella Cates says:

    Jean, what a loving AND practical decision, to get the second cat. 🙂

    I think it’s really brave, any choice any of us can make now to accept some ways reality has disappointed us, or just isn’t providing right now. And then move forward towards happiness and fulfillment anyway. Maybe finding a creative way to fill a need or want, even if it wasn’t your first choice.

  71. 71
    Isabella Cates says:

    Being around so many messed up people does take it’s toll, but I hope this research lifts some of that burden. I hope it helps us to accept how most people are doing right now, accept our human reactions to that (which often are unpleasant- why wouldn’t they be?), and then find the strength and peace to really enjoy what we do have. (Which is a lot.)

    Unlike Gracia, we don’t have to hold onto what we expected for ourselves… in childhood, or last week. Apparently there’s something a little more interesting, and a lot more real, happening. 🙂

  72. 72
    Isabella Cates says:

    Jnana, I’m so glad you enjoyed this. 🙂

    I know you’re a truth-teller here, so I believe you when you say it. 🙂

  73. 73
    Isabella Cates says:

    Emily Turner, thank you so much for commenting. Learning these skills someday in the not-too-distant future is inevitable (if you want it to be) and will be a total breeze.

    The streets could break out in visible chaos (okay, they are already pretty chaotic…)… but I mean hand-to-hand combat in the streets, looting, etc… and I think Rose would still be teaching, and I would still be doing what I do.

  74. 74
    Isabella Cates says:

    Chloe, I’m happy to help bring you some joy!

    There is so much going on with people that we don’t see. But there is also a lot that we can see, and this can develop. As Rose has noted recently, using Stage 3+ Energetic Literacy improves our Stage 1 Energetic Literacy. By leaps and bounds.

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    And with these golden comments from ISABELLA CATES, following up on all of today’s contributions to the blog… we’ve moved up to 48,001 comments.


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    Isabella Cates says:

    Liane, when this blog post first went up, and I saw that you commented first, I was so happy. I knew I could trust that your comments would be really good. (Who knew every commenter would be amazing?)

    I’m so glad you were wowed by this research, just like I am wowed, but also realize it’s pretty everyday. Stay steady (enough) and true and this kind of knowledge could be yours, these skills could be yours. (As determined by Rose, of course ?)

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    Isabella Cates says:

    Leo, thank you. It is really, really fascinating, pretty much every time.

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    Isabella Cates says:

    Brittany, thank you so much. It is an honor, helping and inspiring people in this way just by being in Enlightenment.

    And isn’t it also kind of weird, considering we’re just flawed humans? Who feel sort of weird sometimes, sometimes sort of scared, or whatever? And yet in the background, there is sacred glory? I guess God *does* like people the way they are. Still sort of boggles my mind.

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    Isabella Cates says:

    Kylie, thank you so much for your comments and your appreciation.

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    Isabella Cates says:

    Dear Lindsey, thank you so much for your sweet sweet comments and the wisdom you shared.

    I know so many people (commenters and lurkers) are getting so much inspiration from so many of you.

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    Isabella Cates says:

    You, Lindsey, pointed out the practical part of this research, which was one of my big takeaways too.

    You said:
    “….like keep my distance from someone like creepy Mike or have a longer conversation with sweet Liam or awkward Janice.”

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    Isabella Cates says:

    Who might be worth my time? Who would, inevitably, break my heart if I tried?

    Who is just downright dangerous?

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    Isabella Cates says:

    Around “connecting in a loving way,” since some of you have mentioned it.

    It really seems like you all get what I meant there, which is really amazing.

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    Isabella Cates says:

    It has nothing to do with trying to be loving; I don’t push myself to feel a certain way about anything or anyone.

    It’s not necessarily behavioral, like there is some virtuous loving behavior regimen I follow. I don’t.

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    Isabella Cates says:

    Who knows, some people might consider me pretty “mean” since I use my power and have discernment about people.

    (I’m not mean.)

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    Isabella Cates says:

    It’s a loving trust and curiosity about other people from the start, which can then grow and change over time and over the course of a relationship.

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    Golden comments! Important distinctions.

    I’m especially thrilled to read your magnificent Comments #83-86, ISABELLA.

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    Aoife says:

    “It’s a loving trust and curiosity about other people from the start, which can then grow and change over time and over the course of a relationship.”

    I can really relate to that. I just naturally find most people delightful. If people don’t behave appropriately or are rude etc. or whatever, then I have learned something about them and I behave appropriately in response (which they might not like!)

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    Aoife says:

    For example, I don’t have any time for some of my ruder colleagues and speak to them perhaps once a month, despite there being a very small number of people in my office. I certainly don’t feel obliged to like them or spend time with them in any way.

    And yet I still have a reputation for being a very approachable, friendly person who is well respected at my company.

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    Brittany says:

    Isabella, your comments #84-85 really resonate with me. Knowing it’s ok to please myself has been a huge triumph for me through the help of RES.

    It’s something that comes naturally a little bit more every day, and after every session.

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    Jennifer says:

    Thank you for this wonderful and fascinating guest post Isabella!

    I particularly love the story of Liam and how important auric modeling of Enlightenment is to others, that brings hope to me as well.

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    Jennifer says:

    I also really relate to Janice’s social awkwardness and feel a lot of compassion for her. It took me a very long time to learn how to human and be able to interact well with people, so, hearing about the stories and auras of others is a poignant experience for me.

    Thanks again for sharing your skills and wisdom!

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    AOIFE, BRITTANY, and JENNIFER, these are beautiful comments from you. Thank you.

    And ISABELLA, today I’m giving this post a big shout-out, as we’re celebrating how soon this blog will reach 50,000 comments.

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    Speaking of shout-outs, tonight I had a ball doing something unusual. I went back to an article I published nearly six years ago, in the summer of 2013.

    With the revision, I gave ISABELLA some of the credit she richly deserves for having pioneered an important discovery. Within RES. And also in Collective Consciousness. With this very blog post!

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    And here’s a sweet detail. If you scroll down to the comments at the end of the article, guess who wrote #3? It’s written by ISABELLA, before her Name Alignment.

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    Kylie says:

    The link in 94 did not work. What was the name of the blog post?

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    Done. Thanks for pointing that out.

    The blog post is now called “Chakra Databanks. What the LA Times Missed.”

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    Evgenia says:

    Such a valuable insight of what is really happening with a person during real life situation. Just like Isabella multiple conclusions come to my mind but one of them is – energetic literacy skills can help you decide when it is a good idea to deepen relationship with a person and when not.

    It was very interesting to get a perspective on several people involved in the same activity. Thank you Isabella!

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    EVGENIA, I’m so glad you tracked down this article from ISABELLA CATES.

    And I think your practical summary of this article is masterful.

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    ISABELLA has done leading-edge research here, very innovative for Energy Spirituality Practitioners and Apprentices.

    Really, this is one of my all-time favorite posts at this blog.

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