Choosing Bad Lovers. “Why do I keep choosing bad men? Or “Why do I keep choosing bad women?”
Let me tell you how RES can help. Since I’m pretty sure that some of you don’t know what’s in today’s article. Including some RES clients!
Talk about Choosing Bad Lovers!
Today’s blog post is dedicated to my client “Gladys.” Yesterday she had her fourth session with me.
First of all, Gladys is smart, talented, really pretty, and hot. Perhaps in her late thirties?
You’d expect her to have loads of excellent men chasing after her. Yet what did Gladys want for her session? Again? RES Energy READING Research on an awful boyfriend.
Since, once again, Gladys had fallen in crush. Maybe even in love. Yet doubts had begun to surface.
Look, I don’t mind that Gladys wanted me to help. And the problem isn’t that I didn’t know what to do. The problem is that, apparently, Gladys doesn’t understand how much more I could help her.
If All a Client Requests Is Aura Details about Bad Lovers, What Happens?
Sadly, what happens is that my client and I repeat a kind of Catalog of Losers. For example…
Methodically, yesterday, I went through one chakra databank after another. Telling Gladys all about how her latest guy was a player. (Again.)
Erggg. Let’s spare you the details. They were hard enough for Gladys to take.
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Maybe some of you Blog-Buddies would like to comment below. Since many of you have read them all. And some of these celebs are lovely but others? Decidedly not.
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Choosing Bad Lovers. Stuck in Discussing the Lurid Aura Details
Oh, how my heart went out to Gladys!
After I read some chakra databanks on Mr. Wrong, was that enough for her?
Hardly! She wanted to know more.
Basically, that’s all she wanted me to do for her. Piling one depressing detail onto another. Why, why, why?
Was Gladys so far gone that she wanted to hear about some hypothetical good chakra databank in Joe? Like that would allow Gladys to consider Joe a good guy?
- Zero good chakra databanks out of 3?
- Well then, maybe there could be 1 good one out of 5?
- Hey, how about 1 good chakra databank out of 11?
Maybe Gladys was looking for that kind of hope against. Or perhaps she just wanted to wallow.
Just maybe, she didn’t know that I could do more to help her.
(Or, if you can relate to this story, I could do more to help YOU.)
Choosing Bad Lovers. Really, that’s Not All I Can Do to Help You
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- Sadly, I suspect that Gladys thinks I’m just some kind of psychic. And that’s why she wants my energetic literacy readings.
- Or maybe Gladys fears that if she chose sessions for personal growth, oh horrors! I’d treat her like a mental health professional. Devoting five years of weekly sessions to helping Gladys understand her issues. (Which, clearly, some patients would need. And thank goodness for skilled, talented, patient psychotherapists!)
But RES is different. I would help Gladys to grow as a person, one session at a time.
Because, in my experience, there’s never a conversation with a client like this: “You know what your problem is? It’s xyz.”
Instead, in my view, many problems simply result from STUFF: Stored emotional and energetic debris, stuck in a person’s aura. Stuck at a level corresponding to the subconscious mind.
As you may know, we have a motto in RES: STUFF can always, always, always be healed.
So, on that note of hope, let’s start talking about helping YOU.
How Could I Help You Stop Choosing Bad Lovers?
It’s very individual, how I would help you. Always, you would collaborate with me to choose one growth area for each session. Soon we’d agree on an official intention.
And then I’d help you progress towards that goal. Usually, we’d have an official Healing Centerpiece. Not a Research Centerpiece. Because let’s get real.
- If you keep falling in love with players…
- Or if you’re inwardly driven to always have drama about a lover…
- Or if you can’t stop finding reasons to sleep around…
Sorry, but that’s not just about the lousy lovers. It’s not their growth opportunity. It’s yours.
Make the drama stop! Choose personal growth. Motivate yourself to stop repeating the same old misery.
And if the problem has been going on for years, stop trying to fix it yourself. Supplemented by the occasional psychic reading.
Resolve to get effective help. Either RES or something that you like better. Figure out what’s effective for you and then give it a fair chance.
And Please, Don’t Settle for Excuses
Like what? Which kind of excuses?
- “Unfortunately, my fate is to have bad judgment about women.”
- “All men are horrible.”
- “My soul mate is out there somewhere.”
Excuses like these keep a person from fixing underlying problems. Eventually little excuses can add up to personal tragedy. Sadly, some people even ruin their lives this way. Three extreme examples follow.
Client A had regular sessions with me. Except he hid from me that he got into chasing women. And not just any women but ones young enough to be his granddaughters. Over time, Client A couldn’t have RES sessions any longer. His aura got too messed up for me to help him.
Client B kept making terrible choices in her love life. Although she expressed gratitude when I researched one horrible choice after another… Eventually the love frustration became too much for her. Accordingly, she committed to a relationship with a shiny new (mess of a) lover. Surprise? Soon she decided that she no longer needed RES. After all her life was now “perfect.” (Aura reading revealed something else. Quite different! As in extreme spiritual addiction.)
Client C was married to a horribly messed-up woman. She was cruel. Quite incapable of meeting his needs… Sometimes my client would do Soul Thrill® Aura Research about that marriage. Always it demonstrated that this was a no-win relationship. Yet my client insisted on believing that positive thinking could make that marriage absolutely beautiful. Sigh! Suffice it to say, eventually his aura became horribly messed up. You know, Blog-Buddies, consequences of bad choices can do that. Over time, Client C could no longer do RES sessions.
Yet Overall, I Have Encouragement for You
If You’ve Been Choosing Bad Lovers
Here’s my recommendation:
For a while, make a standing appointment. Whether you can afford once a week or once every two months, etc. Create some momentum.
Then, when we’re in session, don’t keep dirty little secrets. Tell me honestly what’s going on with you.
That’s right. Don’t lie to me. If you have a problem, you know I won’t judge you. Plus our time together is confidential.
One session at a time, I will bring the power of dozens of effective RES skill sets. Including experience at choosing which session centerpiece will help you the most.
If you do have some RES sessions, know this. I can’t promise you true love. Instead, I can promise you authentic personal growth.
Reality check: Did you see ISABELLA CATES’ recent guest post? And all the perceptive comments that followed. (Well worth a read, if you’re seeking love in today’s dating scene.)
Also important: I won’t promise that you’ll find your “soul mate.” Actually in my career, going back over 10,000 sessions, hello! I’ve encountered maybe four examples of people in a soul mate relationship. That’s right: Four.
But I can help you to have a really, really good life. Whether you’re married or not.
You know, sometimes love relationships don’t work out. Sometimes other strong desires don’t work out. And I’m not so powerful that I can change what can’t be changed.
Related example: Do you know about the 41 million “extra men” in China . These guys aren’t going to get married. Not soon. Not ever. Nonetheless, that doesn’t have to mean 41 million lives utterly ruined.
Listen, Blog-Buddies, I just looked over the Enlightenment Life List for RES Clients. And guess what?
- 16 are currently single.
- 16 are currently married.
- As for the rest, I don’t know what’s going on with that person’s love life.
In short, your life is more than your love life. At least it can be.
Especially if you’re convinced that a mate will solve all your problems… Please consider some sessions with an RES expert.