INTERNAL Validation. What is it? And why does it matter?
Let’s explore what’s true for you…. About how you decide what is true for you.
What IS Internal Validation?
Simply put, it’s how you decide for yourself. Based on your personal assessment of what’s true.
What’s a related help for using internal validation? Spiritual self-authority.
How Can You Learn to Trust Your Own Judgment?
Worth knowing: All of the following can inform you in deciding what’s going on in your life. Strengthening your innate wisdom. And developing more of an ability to assess what is true in different situations.
- Pay attention to what people say. Literally say.
- Also pay attention what people do.
- Know that what you say and do happens in reality. You’re accountable.
- Follow the money. Pay reasonable attention to how you and others spend money.
- Live your dharma.
- If you were born as an empath — and 1 in 20 people are empaths — make Empath Empowerment® a priority. Here’s an easy, effective way to become an empowered empath.
- Notice the consequences of your choices. That way, you can learn from what happens in your life.
Internal Validation Wreckers
Your God-given capacity for making choices as a human being. Namely, a person with at least normal mental functioning and intelligence.
In order to make choices for yourself, don’t expect it to work in any of these next situations:
- While you’re sleeping
- Or dreaming. (Related: While you’re awake, don’t expect dreams to give you great wisdom. Spare yourself a lot of misery!)
- If you’re under the influence of recreational drugs. For instance, when high on marijuana. Or else a pothead. (Even if you haven’t gotten stoned all day!!! Yet.)
- Either drunk at the time — or else an alcoholic. (Hence the term “stinking thinking.”)
- In a hypnotic trance.
- Under the influence of a cult.
- Following any evangelical religion or spiritual teacher that takes you on a bypass from human reality.
- Living in spiritual addiction.
- Or living in spiritual shutdown — and the resulting gray slime it brings to auras.
- Believing in psychic readings, angel cards, or other “spiritual guidance.” (Note: When intuitives call it “spiritual guidance,” they’re either confused or lying. Intuitives, psychics, and so forth take orders from discarnate astral beings. And these spirits are not Divine Beings. So they don’t give spiritual guidance.)
As the founder of Energy Spirituality, I’ve helped many people to wake up humanly. Grow personally. Awaken spiritually.
This website is loaded with resources that can help you to live as a grownup. And even — if you’re spiritually motivated — I can help you to live like God’s grownup. (Rather than God’s begging child.)
Finally, Here Come 5 Tips to Strengthen Your Internal Validation
Long as this blog post is turning into sets of tips, here are five powerful ways to start trusting your own judgment. Rather than that ridiculous substitute called “External Validation.”
- Stop asking other people, “What do you think?” Save that kind of inquiry for important decisions. Learn to decide on your own.”
- Avoid saying “I don’t know.” That’s a personal confidence wrecker. (Also, these words discourage other people from respecting you as a full-fledged adult.)
- Never aim to make somebody else like you by playing dumb. Or seeming to be oh-so trusting and vulnerable! What if you “win” by maintaining a relationship based on that fiction? Talk about asking for trouble!
- Tell the truth. So much better than the countless alternatives.
- Learn good skills of energetic literacy. When you can read people’s auras down to the chakra databanks, it’s amazing what an advantage you’ll have. Giving you, among other things, great incentive to form your own opinions.
So many of you Energy Spirituality students have made huge strides in your self-authority. And taking appropriate action, based on what is true for you. Maybe you know that society in general (aka Collective Consciousness) doesn’t encourage independent thinking. Yet you don’t have to let that stop you.
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