Confidence Language. Yes, you can learn to speak your own confidence language. (Important!)
This article aims to cut through some common confusions in mainstream society.
(Sarcastic thanks to you, Collective Consciousness.)
On the bright side, you’re in charge of your brain. Once you learn how to speak your own personal Confidence Language, you can solve many problems.
Yes, lucky us! This is an Energy Spirituality blog. Therefore, you’ll find more here than mainstream versions of pop psychology. Or descriptions of life as though psychic development. Or other well-meant advice based on theories.
Instead, the answers below flow from professional experience. Using the 10 Trademarked Systems of Energy Spirituality. Using… well… deeper perception. And then making it practical.
Expect to learn something useful and new through our Confidence Quiz ANSWERS. Maybe many somethings. And, always, skills that work NOW, in the Age of Awakening
First, though, please take the original Confidence Quiz for yourself. This can take you just a couple of minutes. And will enrich your learning form the rest of this article.
Incidentally, comments from some of you Blog-Buddies helped that Confidence Quiz do what? Merely make our list of the 15 Most Popular Posts in Energy Spirituality. That’s all!
Introducing the Idea of CONFIDENCE LANGUAGE
Blog-Buddies, you’ve got many kinds of language for different aspects of being human.
- A range of words that you use to describe for sensations in different parts of your body. How are you feeling right now?
- Likewise, you have a range of words for describing your emotions, right? (What if you think the only useful word is “positive”? Then you’d really be shortchanging yourself.)
Yet, when it comes to confidence… Many of us have only one context. Or definition. Terribly confusing. So let’s start to un-confusulate right now!
Seems to me, you deserve that. Both for your personal growth. And for your spiritual awakening.
Your Confidence Language ANSWER 1. When Alone
Staying in your own company?
Confidence-Type Words for that could be: “Feeling good about myself when alone.”
Unhelpful language, imo, would be calling yourself “An introvert.” Like many terms from pop psychology, diagnosing yourself just puts you into a conceptual box.
At first, boxing yourself in can help you feel secure. As in the case of, “Now everything’s settled. I can start learning about being an introvert. Rather than learning about who I actually am. And how I can grow as a person.”
Guess what? If you don’t yet feel confident when alone, a few sessions of Energy Spirituality ENERGY HEALING just might help.
Confidence Language Question 2. With a Friend I Trust
Getting confidence from spending time with a trusted friend? Tricky idea.
Sure could cause confusion, between…
- “Who am I?”
- And “Who am I when with this particular friend.”
As if there is only one way to be yourself. And feel like yourself.
Better Confidence-Type Words for spending time with a trusted friend could be: “I feel good when I’m visiting my friend Joe.”
Many folks mix up enjoying time spent with a friend… With “Who am I?” all the rest of the time.
Uh-oh. Potential Mistake with Using the Language of Confidence
Don’t make that mistake, Blog-Buddies. Unless you’re going through a life transition, you have no need to constantly think about “Who am I?”
By contrast, you’re better off understanding that a relationship is a relationship. (Some good. Some bad. Others, possibly, ugly.)
As for your sense of self? That need not depend upon any particular relationship.
One easy way to strengthen that sense of self can be a simple session of Face Reading Secrets.® Recommended is starting with a Life Potential Face Reading. Later, when once again you’d love to bolster your sense of self… Consider the extra confidence boosters in the colorful box at the bottom of that face reading overview.
Confidence Language Question 3. Being around People, the More the Better
Again, some of us have picked up the term “extrovert” from Collective Consciousness.
- If we think, “I’m an extrovert” you then live inside a certain self-definition that may limit your personal growth.
- Equally limiting? Deciding “I’m an introvert. Other people drain me.”
Better Confidence-Type Words for how you feel, these days, when around people? I’d recommend:
Learning about my degree of sensitivity. (Like that Sensitivity Scale on view at this popular blog post.)
What, Your Lifelong Degree of Sensitivity Could Be Confidence-Related?
If you’re not Highly Sensitive, might I recommend? Book a personal session and I can help you to solve problems related to confidence. Of course, people with any degree of sensitivity can improve their confidence. Simply book a session and find out how I can help you get unstuck in your confidence.
And yes, if you’re a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP), I would love to teach you Energy Spirituality Sensitivity Skills. Currently, that would only be through a personal session. However, sessions are a great resource. Because you may have a problem with some kind of STUFF in your aura. A problem that you’ve been interpreting as related to sensitivity. Yet even one session could bring you considerable improvement.
On the other hand, what if you find you’re among the 1 in 20 people born as an empath? This website is loaded with unique resources for empaths. Important because many unskilled empaths feel as though other people drain them. Or suck out their confidence. Or vampire them, etc. 😉
This YouTube video can introduce you to Empath Empowerment resources. Beyond, simply search at this blog, and you’ll learn a lot more that can help you.
Confidence Language Question 4. Sometimes I Need a Drink
How ridiculous that Collective Consciousness decrees that alcohol is a great social lubricant! Heck, if you want a lubricant, maybe it’s time to use machine oil. Or, perhaps, K-Y Jelly. Depending on what you plan to lubricate.
Confidence-Type Words for requiring alcohol to feel confident with other people? Ugh, they could be: “Confusing intoxication with personal growth.”
Please consider joining the Sober Curious Movement. As a result, confidence is just one of the ways your life can improve.
Confidence Language Quiz Question 5. Positive People!
Positive talk, happy talk. Oh, we’ve had quite some conversations about that bunch o’ malarkey. Quite recently at this blog.
If you’ve thought that other people’s positivity can give you confidence, please read these articles today:
- Staying Positive. Part 1 of 5
- Fake Positivity Shows in Auras. Part 2 of 5
- Chuck Schumer’s Positivity Chakra Databanks. Part 3 of 5. Notably, this chakra databank reading gives you an example of true positivity.
- How to Avoid Fake Positivity is Part 4 of 5.
- And finally, Part of 5 Brings Practical Tips to Help You Be Positive.
Confidence-Type Language for depending on “positive people”? Could be “Knock it off.
Also, what could help? An aura research session, where you email me a photo or two of somebody in your life who’s way-positive. Let’s explore what’s going on.
Plus, through an Energetic Hologram, hello! You can learn the truth about how helpful it is, aura level. All that positivity. Does it really help or hinder your personal growth and integrity?
Quiz Master’s Note
Of course, as an Energy Spirituality Practitioner, I help my clients gain more confidence. When you read the Confidence Quiz ANSWERS, you’ll understand better.
Meanwhile, your COMMENTS below will help me to speak your Confidence Language. So don’t hold back. Remember, you can even comment anonymously. In the first line, tell me what you’d like me to call you. Fun!
And, speaking of fun, I’ll be COMMENTING below… Specifically in response to some of those bolded definitions of confidence supplied by you. Yes, some of you at our previous post. The Confidence Quiz post!