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One Cord of Attachment to a Stalker

This Czech edition of "Cut Cords of Attachment" is a good reminder. No matter where you live, you can learn how to cut a cord of attachment you have to a stalker. Or to anyone.

This Czech edition of “Cut Cords of Attachment” is a good reminder. No matter where you live, you can learn how to cut a cord of attachment you have to a stalker. Or to anyone.

Many times, I have facilitated cutting a cord of attachment between my client and a stalker. May today’s example help to remove fear, bring hope.

Gladys had already done the practical things to fix the problems with her stalker, “Zorro.” But that wasn’t really solving the problem enough for her life to return to normal.

Mitch, who makes appointments for my sessions of Energy Spirituality Energy HEALING, always makes sure about that. Say that a new client seeks an appointment. And a client like Gladys tells him that the purpose of the session is to help ease the torment of dealing with a stalker.

Cutting the Cord of Attachment to a Stalker, Let’s Get Practical

 

Leonardo DiCaprio has just won a restraining order from a stalker. Three years of peace are, supposedly, his. The stalker in question is a woman who has been placed on psychiatric hold twice. Lately she has claimed to be his wife, pregnant with his love child.

Yum?

The problem with having a stalker isn’t just the psychological and physical and maybe financial danger, etc. Based on my experience with clients who have been stalked, the craziness doesn’t end in the head of the deranged wrongdoer. And that’s not exactly the stalking victim’s fault. A certain degree of craziness takes up residence where no restraining order will stick.

Sweet Victimhood

 

Recently a Blog-Buddy raised some great questions about victimhood. CivicMinded has inspired today’s post and the rest of this series to follow. Because “Sweet Victimhood” is a very rich topic.

As synchronicity would have it, themes on this very topic have already come up in some of my sessions of Energy Spirituality HEALING as I’m here in Japan, right from my first working day of Teaching Trip #12.

Stalkers, Victims, and Help

 

When I lived in Florida, the sirens nearly drove me crazy. Ambulances were part of it. During my year in Miami, I needed no census to tell me that many of my neighbors were elderly people. Random moments, day or night, the ambulance sirens would wail.

Equally tormenting for me then, day or night, were the miniaturized siren wails known as mosquitoes. Thinking back on that year, 1971-1972, there’s not much distinction in my memory between the fact that my first marriage ended and the never-ending threat of the sirens, one type or another. Torture for an auditory person!

Outsourcing your life?

Making decisions isn’t the easiest responsibility for an adult. Personally, I like to think of it as part of the curriculum at Earth School. We have loads of difficult responsibilities, ever-changing ones.

Besides the decision making, there’s feeding oneself properly, managing a schedule, managing money, maybe managing children… yoicks, such a list!

Cutting the Cord of Attachment to a Stalker

 

Yesterday I heard a discussion of stalking on “The Diane Rehm Show.” The guest, Kate Brennan, had written a memoir about her experiences with being the victim of a stalker, “In His Sights.”

Only last week, I facilitated a dramatic session of Energy Spirituality that involved cutting a cord of attachment between my client and a stalker.