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Psychic Coercion Quiz

Does psychic coercion make you like a marionette? Let's use a new quiz to clear up some fears.

Could psychic coercion push you around like a marionette? Let’s use a new quiz to clear up some fears.

What is psychic coercion? It is a form of STUFF that can get in your aura. Once globs or blobs or specks of psychic coercion get inside your energy field, this kind of STUFF can last indefinitely. At least until effective healing has been done.

So what’s the problem with psychic coercion? Energetically it’s the opposite of self-authority, trusting yourself, doing things your own way, self-confidence.

No, psychic coercion will NOT turn you into somebody else’s puppet. It’s called “Psychic coercion.” Not “Hidden Marionette Strings from the Fearsome Voodoo Villain.” 😉

Still, psychic coercion is a very serious problem for some people. Actually it’s a hidden, subconscious, joy-sucking problem for most people.

Psychic coercion need not terrify you, for heaven’s sake. In Energy Spirtuality it is just one particular kind of astral-level debris. One of 15 kinds of STUFF, not the only kind. Still, a very real kind of astral junk that gets stuck in an aura.

Psychic coercion limits a person at the subconscious level. Giving rise to worries and limitations at the conscious level.

Just because you may not have heard of it, don’t be fooled. Psychic coercion is a really, really common problem.

As our conversation about narcissists heats up… a guest post by ZELDA

When a narcissist is in your life, what's the best way to respond?

When a narcissist is in your life, what’s the best way to respond?

To join in this thread, may I recommend that you read the previous post: Protect Yourself Energetically from Narcissists, Part 6 of 7

And now, here come words of experience and wisdom from Blog-Buddy ZELDA.

Not crazy about discussing narcissism

Rose, I’m curious to see what the next post on narcissists will be. I admit that this kind of post isn’t my favorite, for a variety of reasons.

It brings to mind the awful experiences I’ve had dealing with the narcissists in my family, not something I relish. I’ve had the unfortunate experience of being related to a few. I’m not in contact with them now — out of a sense of self-preservation.

It was quite challenging for me to deal with these particular people.

In these kinds of conversations about psychological labels and how useful they are, I don’t find it terribly helpful when people go to that place of some version of, “Well, everyone is narcissistic…we’re all like this.”

Yet the label “Narcissist” can be helpful, when warranted

Protect Yourself Energetically from Draining People, Part 5

Worried about a draining personality?

Worried about a draining personality?

Today we continue our series on protecting yourself from difficult people, a.k.a. draining people, toxic personalities, energy vampires, psychic vampires, narcissists, or just plain “somebody difficult.”

Why do new fears emerge now about contamination by somebody else’s energies? When you live has a lot to do with it. We’re still getting used to the new Age of Aquarius, whose defining characteristic is this: All humans can notice energy more easily.

You may not go to the extreme of fearing a “draining person” or scaring yourself with similar names that grew popular in the decades leading up to this Age of Aquarius.  Yet you still may feel uncomfortable around certain people’s energies.

What can you do about that? How can you best protect yourself?

In today’s Part 5 of a 6-part series that began here, we’re going to take a especially practical approach, by way of a teaching tale.

GLADYS is a sweet client who has had many sessions with me off and on over the past several years. She’s spunky, smart, and a survivor who is committed to personal growth. Besides that, she’s caring, with beautiful integrity and deep Christian values. It doesn’t hurt that she’s very pretty, too.

Yet she has made choices that recently resulted in big drama with a “Draining Person.”

How does Divine Homeostasis work"?

 

Divine Homeostasis is on my mind, thanks to my client GLADYS. Recently she complained of hearing weird conversations about it, at chat rooms and elsewhere online.

I have a fondness for Divine Homeostasis, as it is one of the technical terms in the 12 Steps to Cut Cords of Attachment(R). I named it, although I didn’t create it. Just as one  might be really proud of naming one’s child Blue Ivy.

The perils of having a pure heart

 

Hope so. Hope you are willing to see the ugliness. Especially if you have a pure heart.

If not willing, you risk finding bogus ugliness in others and yourself.

Seeking beauty is a great lifestyle. But seeking ONLY beauty makes a lousy requirement for life, a wretched way of attempting to live one’s ideals.

Special Treatment for Molecular Empaths

 

One practical point about molecular empaths was not included in our last post. Just for fun, I’ll whisper it to you today.

This pssssst is of special interest for all of you clients who are molecular empaths. Not that there are loads of you, but some of you definitely are. When I have been in session with you, I have told you so. Well, what’s up with that?