Why Human Talk Matters to You. At least, it could.
Why Human Talk Matters to You. At least, it could.
Why Human Talk Matters? Although you’re human, hello! Lately, you might not have been using that kind of talk terribly often.
But even if you haven’t previously understood the significance of Human Talk, no worries. Here’s your introduction.
Definitely Know This
It’s surprisingly easy to remember how to use Human Talk again. Even if, understandably, you’ve gradually slipped out of the habit. And doing so will hasten your moving toward using your full potential in life.
In order to give you a full-and-rich understanding about Human Talk, and related topics, yes! I spent years preparing my latest how-to, “Seeking Enlightenment in the Age of Awakening.”
Although that has a ton of leading-edge ideas, this article can start you making a simple change. If you make this simple change, it can immediately help to improve your life. Maybe you’ve already begun to guess what this particular change involves….
Introducing a Topic Most People Don’t Recognize Yet
And don’t recognize even though it’s a problem for them!
Yet, starting today, you can help yourself greatly by choosing to speak Human Talk. Such a big difference this can make! Especially if you’re seeking self-actualization or Enlightenment. Or any other ideal for becoming all you can be.
In case you’re wondering, this article offers help from Energy Spirituality™. That means I’ll be bringing a unique perspective:
- Not religion.
- Not pop psychology.
- Instead, I help readers — and session clients — to solve problems in a different way.
Energy Spirituality™ helps people like you with personal development and spiritual awakening. Using skills that work now, in the Age of Awakening. (Namely, since the subtle shift to human consciousness that happened on 12-21-12.)
Quite likely, what you’re about to read will shock you a bit. But try it out for a week. Afterward, decide for yourself: Has my quality of life improved? Simply by making one specific kind of change that you’ll learn about in this article.
WHY Human Talk Matters
Recently a new client, “Sam,” had a first session with me. Unbeknownst to himself, at the time, he wasn’t exactly living in reality.
Rather, he was living — and talking — like somebody who routinely emphasized inner experience. Mostly, this came down to a problem with misusing his new Consciousness Positioning Superpower.
That’s an amazing — but slightly tricky — new ability that he got with the Shift into the Age of Awakening.
And Sam’s not the only one who received that ability. YOU DID TOO.
Sam didn’t know he had that ability. As a result, he was seriously misusing it. Like a bad habit that he could change, once he knew what to do different.
Until then, he’d be living only a fraction of his potential in life.
How Did I Know Sam Was Having this Problem?
During his session, I did a Skilled Empath Merge. This helped me to pinpoint his particular problem: Sam had slipped into the consciousness lifestyle of “Psychological Overwork.” Namely, one of the most common ways that folks today believe they’re living in human reality. Yet they’re kinda-sorta NOT doing that.
Maybe you’re curious about the technical aspect. How could I tell what was going on with Sam’s connection to human reality?
- Cocreating Sam’s session with his choice of Divine Being,
- Then I made use of skills that I had developed over decades as an Enlightenment Teacher,
- Skills that hinge upon using good quality energetic literacy.
- Where Skilled Empath Merge is one of the options.
- Another is simply aura-reading a client’s chakra databanks.
- After assessing the problem, I was able to start Sam making a few smallish changes.
- All of these could help him to grow faster along his chosen path.
One universal way I’ve discovered to help folks live better? Simply to start using Human Talk!
Did You Know? Human Talk Is Not Common Today
For instance…
During that session, Sam complained to me:
Come to think of it, so many people are talking to me in this weird way. They’re talking about energy this and energy that.
Unfortunately, Sam didn’t yet realize… He was doing the very same thing.
- Often using Energy Talk.
- Mostly using Psychology Talk.
- And very seldom using Human Talk.
Why That’s a Problem?
As a result of doing so little Human Talk, folks cannot have vivid experiences of everyday life.
Instead, folks keep themselves busy with multitasking. Or they start detaching from life. Considering detachment a sign they are “making real progress.” (Sadly, that’s one of today’s popular illusions. And exactly opposite to authentic growth.)
Now let’s get practical. Let’s consider how, today, you can start doing Human Talk.
Rather than doing the two following alternatives, both now wildly popular!
Why Human Talk Matters #1. Doing Energy Talk Instead
What That Is
Energy talk means substituting words about energy for Human Talk. Instead of saying what people say and do, ouch! The conversation turns to vibes and energies. Or maybe to nonsense about “energy vampires.”
For example, Gladys is a manager at work. Again and again, she has trouble saying NO to the employees she supervises.
Gladys complains: “How can I say NO to these people? Their energies would get sooooooooo negative.”
Why That’s a Problem?
COMMENT below to share your thoughts and ask your questions, Blog-Buddies.
Why Human Talk Matters #2. Doing Psychology Talk Instead
What That Is
For example, Gladys is a manager at work. Again and again, she has trouble saying NO to the employees she supervises.
Gladys complains: “How can I say NO to these people? I have to get comfortable with that, and build my self-confidence. Otherwise, I’m stuck.”
Why That’s a Problem?
COMMENT below to share your thoughts and ask your questions, Blog-Buddies.
Why Human Talk Matters #3. Doing Human Talk Is the Way to Go
What That Is
Sometimes a diamond, sometimes a stone. We humans talk about beauties and facts and problems. There’s no limit to all the Human Talk we can do.
When talking about objective reality, that’s what we call it. Not energies. Not something to “process.”
When talking about subjective feelings and thoughts, we go for what’s easy. Because regular happy, sad, scared, angry are all excellent topics for Human Talk. Unlike our deep-deep-deepest feelings (and theories) about ourselves.
For example, Gladys is a manager at work. Again and again, she has trouble saying NO to the employees she supervises.
Gladys complains: “How can I say NO to these people?”
She’s far more likely to solve that problem when she describes it that way, in Human Talk.
Why That Leads to a Better Life
COMMENT below to share your thoughts and stories, Blog-Buddies. And come to add your questions.
Ultimately, Why Human Talk Matters
Suppose that you’re aiming to use your full potential in life.
- Maybe you’re into pop psychology
- Or you’re into noticing energies
- Either or both could be an important part of your path.
- And either or both would count as “Technique Time.” (For an intro, click on that link just provided.)
Seeking Enlightenment in the Age of Awakening, that new book!, goes into a lot of detail. I explain how to shift your path just a bit. So that you don’t do too much “Technique Time.” Since this is far more powerful than you may know.
Related to that, you’ll evolve so much faster if you speak good old Human Talk.
Ironically, Energy Talk and Psychology Talk will slow you down.
One More Thing
Since you’re human, it can be easy to do Human Talk.
Also, speaking this way, as a default, is pretty much required for self-actualization.
At least, that’s both true and important, in my experience as an Enlightenment Teacher.
Thanks to many New Age influencers, some psychologists and physicians recommend meditation. Or they tout the wonders of medical marijuana.
I wish these influencers read this blog. I wish they could get a clue about deeper perception made practical and this Energy Spirituality.
FWIW I do mention this blog and Energy Spirituality wherever I can.
Some of these psychologists and physicians who offer advice over their websites, or give seminars, are really steering people away from Human Talk. They’re making it seem as though energy talk is superior.
What a mess!
Agreed, MARY. In “Seeking Enlightenment in the Age of Awakening,” I do offer some practical strategies for bringing conversations back to Human Talk.
One conversation at a time, we can gently steer the perspective back to human reality.
Let’s be clear. Energy talk is not superior to Human Talk.
There’s a time and a place for reading auras, for instance. Good skills of energetic literacy can enrich our lives immeasurably.
To do quality Stage 3 Energetic Literacy, we must use a quality skill set. And, if our research into chakra databanks is to be helpful, we can’t do that on the fly.
If we’re wise, we read auras only as part of one’s official 20 Daily Minutes of Technique Time, Tops.
When folks do energy talk, they’re revealing how they use only Stage 1 Energetic Literacy:
Lacking in skills, lacking in accuracy. Seekers of truth can do far better!
Sadly, I’ve known some people who made it to Age of Awakening Enlightenment, but then they fell into the socially superior habit of doing energy talk.
They sure lost Enlightenment.
Instead of a self-actualizing consciousness lifestyle, they traded that in for Spiritual Addiction.
To me, that’s like trading in your Prius for a junker car. Maybe because, in your neighborhood, what’s popular is to keep a broken-down car in front of your house. Not for transportation but as a local status symbol.
Consiousness Talk reflects the current trend to make everything about one’s awareness or state of being.
You’ll find examples aplenty over at “Energy Spirituality Ethics.” This useful comment conversation begins with Barbara’s wonderful contributions, beginning with her Comment #129.
One way that I used Human Talk rather than Energy Talk at work was in signing the goodbye card of a manager who was transferred to another location.
Although she mostly talked in Energy Talk and might relate most to a message like “Thanks for your positive vibes and good energy!”
I signed it “Thanks for the wonderful work you did here”.
I hoped that might help if not her then others reading the card.
To remember Human Talk and human accomplishment and not make it about vibes or popularity or personality.
Thank you, BROOKE, for this splendid contribution to this comment conversation about Human Talk, as well as your gentle reminder to your coworkers.